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Hicksville > London ... right or wrong?

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spacemonkey · 27/04/2004 17:36

Rather than hijack the other thread, I'll start one of my own.

I'm thinking about moving to London from the provincial town where I now live. My children are nearly 13 (dd) and 10 (ds), so if we moved in the summer ds would start Year 6 at a new primary school and dd would start Year 9 at a new secondary school. They'll both be going to state schools.

I don't like the idea of uprooting them, BUT there are lots of good reasons for the move, for them as well as me.

We're looking at moving into Camden LEA, and I am told the schools are very good. I also think as the children get older there will be many more opportunities for them educationally and socially in London. My sister and brother both live in north London and I would dearly love to be nearer to them, and so would the kids. Plus my mum wants to move in with us on a trial basis - she is very close to the children and more importantly is very good for them, and would be my general factotum in terms of childcare.

And of course the work opportunities for me would be stratospherically better than they are where I now am.

I'd like to hear from anyone who has made a big move with kids at a similar age, and what impact it had on them. Of course a lot comes down to personality, and I know it would be hard for them to adjust at first, but any advice or experience would be most welcome.

Thanks!

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lou33 · 02/06/2004 23:58

Janh, I still haven't posted your outfit back, sorry! Will do it I promise!

Janh · 03/06/2004 00:12

No hurry, flower! (Even if DS2 needed a costume in a hurry he's about a foot too tall as well as not being a girl!)

lou33 · 03/06/2004 01:33
Grin
spacemonkey · 03/06/2004 17:21

DING DONG

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spacemonkey · 04/06/2004 01:12

Latest : we are setting the bureaucratic wheels in motion on Tuesday. Love the house, very happy about the move and a teeny bit terrified

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serenequeen · 04/06/2004 09:28

wahey! congratulations!

ScummyMummy · 04/06/2004 21:50

Ace. I'm looking forward to you being a Londoner.

spacemonkey · 04/06/2004 22:57

aww thanks sq and sm

I feel quite scared now. I am telling the children tonight, and have made an appointment with my ex-husband to tell him on Tuesday. JITTER!

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maomao · 04/06/2004 23:02

I'm so glad the housing situation is working out, though sad that you won't be right up the street....

Good luck with telling the children, m'dear! Will check back to see how you got on.

spacemonkey · 04/06/2004 23:03

N1 isn't all that far from NW3 tho ... am looking forward to meeting you and your feet maomao!

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ScummyMummy · 04/06/2004 23:04

Understand the jitters but the kids will be in clover once they adjust- London really is the bestest place to be a teenager, I must say. Good luck with ex.

Janh · 04/06/2004 23:05

sm, have you done any pics of the Islington house????

(dead nosey, me! )

Janh · 04/06/2004 23:07

"Grade 2 listed Georgian semi with a large garden and four double bedrooms - what's not to like"

blimey

ScummyMummy · 04/06/2004 23:27

Blimey indeed, janh. Am green with envy but planning to gatecrash avec two saboteurs aged 5

Janh · 04/06/2004 23:31

I'll creep in behind you, scummy!

spacemonkey · 04/06/2004 23:33

I didn't take any photos - it seemed a bit churlish with the woman showing me round to whip out my camera and take pictures of her interiors!

thanks for the words of encouragement though sm, I need to hear how much they will love it

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ScummyMummy · 04/06/2004 23:35

They will, sm. Honest. And so will you. When are you arriving?

spacemonkey · 04/06/2004 23:37

this is a similar house on the same street i found on an estate agents website

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spacemonkey · 04/06/2004 23:39

as far as i remember the windows are different though, the living room window at the front is a floor to ceiling sash jobbie, and i don't think it has the little panes

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ScummyMummy · 04/06/2004 23:40

fuck me- that is gorgeous sm! Utterly and totally jealous...

spacemonkey · 04/06/2004 23:42

i would be an idiot not to take it wouldn't i?

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Janh · 04/06/2004 23:43

god, am dripping with envy, sm! (Hm - dripping possibly not best word.) I'm sure the kids will love it, once they get over the shock. And your mum. Rooting for you here!

Janh · 04/06/2004 23:43

This is a COUNCIL HOUSE???????

ScummyMummy · 04/06/2004 23:44

you would. take it take it take it

spacemonkey · 04/06/2004 23:44

thanks jan, thanks scummy - I don't know how I ever managed before MN!

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