thank you, thank you. so:
context: i am a single mother. been internet dating for about a year, sporadically. met someone on second date and fell for him. six months of, well, complications. interspersed with, well, lots of other dates, some fun, some shocking - good bits include three really good new friends who i adore, and some yummy meals. less good bits include well, the heart break (cue violins...) three e-stalkers (middle of the night hang ups etc), one guy who turned uo with enough charlie to keep pete docherty happy for a year (first date? seriously?) and a man who revealed halfway through the first glass of wine that what he would really like is to watch me, er, pee...
anyway. after being bored of it for a bit, i'm doing it again. been having great email with a lovely lovely man with the most wonderful accent. but, its just mates. had drinks with him on friday. was fun. few other interesting boys in the mix right now, including - todays lunch. of which - report as follows...
he is much more good looking in real life. older than me (44, i'm 31) and clever and educated and other attractive things. and we had a grand lunch and aughed and flirted. and he kissed me. (slightly too much, er, well, you know - is this way too much information?)
so. there we go. there are some other aumsing, er, details. but i'm not sure whether to say. tee hee. (not actual rudeness, i hasten to add)