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Am I being unreasonable no. ??????

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harman · 04/03/2004 16:45

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SHIREENSMOM · 04/03/2004 16:49

no i think its totally stupid of him to want to keep a gun in the house guns are dangerous and could easily get in the wrong hands dont let him keep one in the house

Northerner · 04/03/2004 16:49

I don't think so. I'd say no also. Could he join a club and keep his gun there?

suedonim · 04/03/2004 17:12

No, not in the least unreasonable. Don't you have to have locked gun cabinets and all that, anyway?

harman · 04/03/2004 17:18

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Freckle · 04/03/2004 17:23

I think you only have to look at the cases in America where children have got hold of guns "locked away securely" and the subsequent accidents to realise that this really is stupid. It doesn't matter how careful you are, children can always find a way round it. Why would he want a shotgun anyway, if it's clay pigeon shooting he's interested in?

SoupDragon · 04/03/2004 17:24

I would refuse to have a gun in the house too. I don't believe they have any place in a house with children.

harman · 04/03/2004 17:25

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prufrock · 04/03/2004 17:32

It is a shotgun harman, but he's hardly going to be clay pigeon shooting in your back garden - so no reason fo him not to get a gun and keep it at the gun club where he shoots

Freckle · 04/03/2004 17:33

To be honest, I don't know anything about guns. I just assumed that c/p shooting would have a specific gun. Don't shotguns fire pellets? I thought c/p shooting required accuracy with a single "bullet" or whatever it is. Could be totally wrong.

squirmyworm · 04/03/2004 17:36

I loathe guns and wouldn't have one in the house. dh once brought one back for a friend (only an air rifle) and I shuddered everytime I looked at the damn thing. You're not being unreasonable Harman - kids are fascinated by guns and whatever precautions you take they'll know it's there.

aloha · 04/03/2004 18:09

No. I'd be the same. Let him keep his gun elsewhere - they don't belong in homes, especially homes with children in them.

aloha · 04/03/2004 18:10

How about finding some cases on the internet of children who have found guns and shot themselves or their friends dead? They happen quite often. That might put him off.

Galaxy · 04/03/2004 18:12

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Marina · 04/03/2004 18:41

No you're not being unreasonable Harman, he needs to keep this new hobby separate from his home. Guns and children don't mix - a lovely sounding young boy was shot dead recently somewhere in England while out rabbit-shooting with his friend, both armed and both only about 12. His family were distraught.

kiwisbird · 04/03/2004 19:19

My Dad had guns when we grew up for target shooting, he was keen, he had safes at home for all his guns and they had secure carrying cases that were locked to the car floor... He was all licensesd and we grew up respecting guns, we were never alowed to play with them, but when I was 15 my Dad let me do some target shooting too. He used to disable the guns and clean them in front of the TV in teh living room once a week, the smell of the fluid makes me cry whenever I smell it...
I get nostalgic when I smell rifles...
God I need help!
But I would never allow it in my house either, it drove my mum potty
xx J

handlemecarefully · 04/03/2004 20:45

with you all the way on this one Harman - no to the gun!

harman · 04/03/2004 21:07

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princesspeahead · 04/03/2004 21:24

hello hello hello everyone, taxi to reality street please?

I think you'll find that all these houses where children shoot their friends dead by mistake are in the states, where you not only have a right to bear arms (including automatic sub-machine guns), but you are considered perfectly reasonable to keep said arsenal of lethal weaponry in your bedside drawer. this, however, is the UK and gun laws are rather strict. in order for your husband to get a shotgun licence, the police will come and look at your gun cupboard. a gun cupboard is a secure cupboard either bolted into a retaining wall or built into the fabric of the house which is made of or lined in steel. basically a very secure safe. gun and cartridges must be kept locked in the cupboard at all times (unless in transit to a shoot), the cupboard must have at least two locks with different keys, and only the licence holder may know where the keys to the gun cupboard are kept. I keep my jewellery in our gun cupboard and so have to ask my husband nicely to unlock it every time I want to change my earrings as I don't know how to. chances of any child getting in it are less than zero.

If a copper comes to my house and says "may I inspect your husbands gun cupboard madam" and I say "certainly", unlock it and show it to him, that is the end of my husbands shotgun licence. And, more to the point, his £35,000 shotguns.

thank you!

princesspeahead · 04/03/2004 21:26

and marina, I quite agree. don't give two 12 year olds air pistols and tell them to go and shoot rabbits. but that isn't really the same issue is it?!

jasper · 04/03/2004 21:50

Personally I have no problem with responsible use of guns and have signed shotgun licences for a few friends. I have more of a problem with Not "letting" your husband do something he really wants to do.My husband does some things I really don't like but hey, I don't get to call all the shots.
As pph says there is no safety issue as UK gun laws are so strict ( so strict me may well not get a license) HOWEVER... I don't really think him owning a gun would impinge on your day to day life, would it? It's not like he wants to start breeding dogs or something that would really be in your face.I am assuming there is no problem with the money to purchase it.

jasper · 04/03/2004 21:52

Did you spot the unintentional pun?

harman · 04/03/2004 22:12

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princesspeahead · 04/03/2004 22:14

lol jasper! I also love your example of breeding dogs as an unacceptable hobby! perhaps there are scales of acceptability there - retrievers OK, chihuahuas definitely not?!!!
actually I agree - any form of dog or cat breeding and he'd be out on his ear.

princesspeahead · 04/03/2004 22:15

they aren't. and gun cupboards are pretty expensive too - wouldn't get much change out of about £3000 I'd imagine

harman · 04/03/2004 22:19

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