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My Bitch of a MIL has just refused to let me talk to my husband and put the phone down on me grrrrrrrr (Sorry, its Tamba again)

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LadyTambaOfTambaTown · 27/06/2006 18:28

Silly, selfish, immature twunt that she is

First time we have spoken since he moved out. I phoned cause I want to talk to H about how DS1 is (he had a poorly tummy)

Me: Hello, can i speak to xxxx please
Her: Who is it?

She bloody well knows who it is

Me: Its Sarah
Her: Oh, well No you cant
Me: Why not
Her: Because I say so

WTF

Me: Oh, right... well please tell him I called and ask him to ring back.
Her: No

And puts the phone down.

I am thinking of having 20 large pizzas delievered to her house. She is a prize prat. No wondered her son is a knob.

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SleepyJess · 27/06/2006 18:30

Wow.. what a cow!!

Incidentally, one of my close friends has pizzas and taxis sent to the homes of people she dislikes.. and, as a favour, sends them to the homes of people her friends have reason to dislike as well.

magnolia1 · 27/06/2006 18:31

for you hun!!!
Try pizza, chinese and Indian!!

Does he only see the kids over at your house? Just wondered if he takes them there? Probably not the right thing to do but I would be so fuming I wouldn't let her near the kids till she stopped being such a bitch!

stitch · 27/06/2006 18:31

lol
sorry, but i have to laugh.
if you have rejected her son, then of course she is going to reject you, especially if she is the twat you say she is.
just dont bother with her. good riddance to bad rubbish

alittlebitshy · 27/06/2006 18:32

what a total bitch!!!

what, so she thinks you're calling him to take him away from her lolol?!?! it is clearly going to be something re the children, so she is a double cow!!!

colditz · 27/06/2006 18:32

How Very Dare She!

Send her a male escort.

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LadyTambaOfTambaTown · 27/06/2006 18:33

Well I posted yesterday about him spending too much time in my house when its his days with the kids.

So today, he has had them at his mothers and they will be there over night.

Hmmmm I cant win either way!

She is a grade A bitch. I am trying to not play stupid power games with her...

Should I phone back? And ask what her problem is, or just ignore it and hope she passes the message on? I want to talk to my children

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SleepyJess · 27/06/2006 18:33

Arrange for a scrap metal dealer to collect her car

suejonez · 27/06/2006 18:34

Nooo, don't send her a male escort - send ME one. (Quite fancy a pizza too)

FioFio · 27/06/2006 18:35

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LadyTambaOfTambaTown · 27/06/2006 18:36

I would really really like to do something spiteful but it would 100% ruin my chances of ever getting along with his family again...

As she is the local counseller she is in the paper alot. And alot of the time the other political parties try and slag her off and vice versa... is tempting to give them a call and provide them with all the juicy stuff that mil would never want heard...

but I wont do that... I am far to bloody nice!

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LadyTambaOfTambaTown · 27/06/2006 18:36

He does have a mobile but it is sitting on my shelf where he left it this morning....

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stitch · 27/06/2006 18:38

just ignore the cow.
if you can live with yourself after phoning the press, then go for it.

LucyJones · 27/06/2006 18:39

I would drive over there with his mobile and demand to see your children. I would also have a strong word with him that it is totally unacceptale for her to refuse to let you speak to him or the kids and get him to sort it out. What if it had been an emergency?

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LadyTambaOfTambaTown · 27/06/2006 18:41

When I talk to H though I will get "oh you must have misheard, she wouldnt do that... the sun shines out of her arse..."

Dont drive otherwise I would go over. And I would bring them straight back here. She is poisenous.

She has decorated a room for them and Ive heard whispers of her wanting to push H to go for residency.

Fat Chance but still

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Freckle · 27/06/2006 18:52

I would just say to him: "This is what happened. I did not mishear. If she pulls a stunt like that again, I will not allow the children at her house. End of." Keep very calm. Do not slag her off. Just state your case and tell him to take it or leave it.

peasinapod · 27/06/2006 19:44

I think sending pizza is a bit mean on the pizza people and the taxi drivers so I say send catalogs (cant spell ) loads of them get your mates to fill them in because of handwriting . They are in loads of places .Also they keep sending them when the new addition comes out. Also make up a sexy name for her ie her name is Sue so make a small card with the name sexy sue does home massage good prices and stick them in local phoneboxes . loads more fun .

gscrym · 27/06/2006 20:06

If H doesn't believe how crap she is then tape a conversation with her. Play it to him and let him hear how mummy talks to you. How unreasonable considering you were only phoning to let him know how the little one was.

Blu · 27/06/2006 20:07

I agree with Freckle.

Then, using her name, fill out a variety of coupons from the back of magazines, for incontinence products, cockroaches, cosmetic surgery, etc.

I hope you lot don't really cause all that trouble and loss of money all those poor delivery companies

Caligula · 27/06/2006 20:20

She is absolute poison.

Hex her.

UCM · 27/06/2006 20:26

Tamba, you cannot let her do this. I didn't realise that your kids were there until halfway up the thread.

I would write DH a letter and leave the envelope unsealed (you know she will open it)or c.c a copy to her, stating that if she ever refuses to let you speak to him/the kids again, they will not be allowed to stay at her house. The End.

Keep strong my friend. you are doing really really well

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LadyTambaOfTambaTown · 27/06/2006 20:31

Thanks

Of course I wouldnt really send loads of pizza to her house. I did order chinese but that came straight to me and has been eaten

Got hold of DH and the boys are fine. Told him about his mother but all he said was "What am I supposed to do about it" in that tone of voice - you know the one i mean. I told him to talk to her, but he wont - hes nervous of her I think.

It is very lonely being a single parent. My respect for those that manage has sky rocketed.

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mummyhill · 27/06/2006 20:47

Aww have a hug hun, see you on Sunday at Madambutterfly's.

Caligula · 27/06/2006 20:52

What is he supposed to do about it?

Well, for a start, he could go and get his own house and take his children there, rather than to his bitch of a mother's.

Failing that, he could tell her in no uncertain terms that she is completely out of order in behaving the way she just had, and ask her to imagine it the other way round - if he rang up and asked to speak to his children and your mother told him you couldn't, what would she think?

Sometimes, things have to be explained in very simple terms to arseholes like this.

Caligula · 27/06/2006 20:53

Sorry meant your mother told him he couldn't

Mercy · 27/06/2006 21:06

Tamba, she will feel hurt though, he is her son no matter what he's done to your and your children and she's bound to be defensive.(sorry I don't know the history) Some mothers seem to let their sons get away with god knows what but criticise their daughters non-stop for minor 'midemeanours'.

Which does not mean I agree - just offering a possible explanation

Hs he got a mobile? If not get him to buy one asap.