Facing the passed and clearing out, i need to do it

[Festivefly]

Has anyone got any practical advice i have a real problem in sorting things out. I want to de-junk. Everytime i go to open a draw to clear it out i see a memory of my x and shut it, i can't face the problem at all. I want to sort things out but there are to many poems, or notes or tickets anything really. I have tried to tackle this problem every month now, thinking i'll be ready next time i try. I never get passed the first few things.
I also haven't slept in my bedroom since he left, i don't even go in it. Any advice to do it once and for all without getting in a mess?????
Thanks i know i'm always asking questions, but who can answer them as well as you lot, creep creep

FF, he did mean the poems. He's off on another planet at the moment. I'll stop being a silly cow.

I'm not photogenic at all

I feel like watching thelma and louise

Neither am I particularly but you should have seen his new moose. Bison alert.

Neither am I, but I have a team of designers who can do marvellous things in photoshop. Always meant to bring in my wedding photos, actually.

Recommend ruthless friend with lots of boxes and a large loft

Everyone can look photogenic with a good photographer, even me, and I usually look like a cross between Lily Savage (the hair) and Mr Blobby's older and less attractive sister...

Shes not a moose either, skinny flat chested student type, who says man alot

Sounds like a minger to me, maaaaaaaan

Nice image Tanzie, i have a feeling your being quite harsh on yourself there

Yep Dino, i think i need to watch it before my bonfire

Well I think you are all gorgeous

realises preg hormones are at dangerous levels, might cry soon

Sounds good sykes I have a sculpture of a women with a boy on her knee holding a slightly taller boys hand. I love it.
oliveoil you also are beautiful

Very inspiring, dinosaur, you do

Well i've started one box, the first thing i find is a valentines card. 3 months before he left. To my Lovely sexy lady love forever x
See what i'm going to be like, but i am finishing at least this box, one box thats it, i will do it

GO ON FF! You're doing great!
You still are a lovely sexy lady!! Just that he's lost sight of that.

Stick in there love, there will no doubt be more instances like this .

I stayed off the wine until I had cleared a box, made me all maudelin (?) otherwise.

Chin chin for after though.xx

well done FF

well done, ff, what's your treat of the day going to be once you've finished?

His diary, a reciept for a weekend in a Ramada Hotel, York. Etc, the whole box is done one bin bag outside. I have done it. My heart is beating and i am shaking a bit. No way am i doing anymore today, i need a drink

Welldone FF - Everything you do to move on is another hurdle you've gotten over. You deserve a drink. Have one for me too.

I will M2T

Well done! Do it a bit at a time, it's the only way.

Have a slurp for me too. JD & Coke was my usual drooooooooool slobber slobber.

FF, if you can do one box in 20 minutes you can clear the house by the weekend - next week, the world!

Well done, love xx