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Can I come back?

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carla · 25/02/2006 11:12

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vitomum · 26/02/2006 18:46

carla, i did see your thread from last week and made a small, unhlepful, comment. i have since learned more about you and how vulnerable you have been and admire you for sticking with it here. i have also seen you on other threads and know you have a lot to offer. the things you will get from MN are lots of opinions and a lot of honesty and that can be (as you have already experienced) quite hard to take. that you are up for that says a lot for you. i think MB's words are v wise and will help you get the most out of MN. i must also echo what lots of outhers are saying in that you should use whatever RL help and support you can access as well.

LoveMyGirls · 26/02/2006 19:17

hi carla thanks for replying to me i think it sounds like you're willing to give this a go so welcome back

Go on tell us your good news?

tuppenceworth · 26/02/2006 19:25

What's your news, dammit??

At least give us a clue so we can speculate!

I'm a sucker for suspense!

TambaTheDragonSlayer · 26/02/2006 19:34

Typical Carla... says she wants to tell us something and then disppears, best way to gain maximum attention...

fastasleep · 26/02/2006 19:35

Huggybear, we don't all spend all our lives on MN you know giver her a break lol

TambaTheDragonSlayer · 26/02/2006 19:36

Whats with using the old name?

TambaTheDragonSlayer · 26/02/2006 19:36

bit like my mother using my full name when ive been naughty

tuppenceworth · 26/02/2006 19:43

I do that with my ds. His name is Joseph so it starts as Joe, then Joseph and ends up in his full name, including middle name, and then he knows he's in bother! That's what middle names are for!

fastasleep · 26/02/2006 19:46

I always think of you as the old name!

tuppenceworth · 26/02/2006 19:47

Eh?

fastasleep · 26/02/2006 19:48

Tamba/huggybear... I always read tamba, think huggybear

TambaTheDragonSlayer · 26/02/2006 19:53

I think im more suited to Tamba though

(and PS, please dont type old name and new name in the same post - changed it cause they were being read - mil and dont want her to realise on the off chance that im still here )

SleepyJess · 26/02/2006 20:19

Ohh Tamba didn't realise you were h u g g y! You used to post on MF but then there was thar bit of bother, right?

fastasleep · 26/02/2006 22:05

Whoops!

SleepyJess · 27/02/2006 10:43

But i spaced it out!

NomDePlume · 27/02/2006 10:50

Carla, stop attention seeking, that's all this thread is. If you want to come back, then do, it is a free forum. Personally I think this thread should've started with an apology to all those who've tried to help you in the past and you've either abused or blanked. But, whatever, my patience ran out long ago.

cod · 27/02/2006 10:50

no

jco · 27/02/2006 11:08

I haven't been on mumsnet for long so maybe i don't have to right to comment but carla i have read several of your post's including the one where you implied that you had tried to commit suicide and all the replies you got from people who were genuinely concearned and trying to help, I think your behaviour is shameful carla, you owe quite a few people big apologise's. I really don't know how you can even begin to think that these people will keep putting up with your attention seeking behaviour and welcome you back. you really do need to seek professional help

hunkermunker · 28/02/2006 00:24

Heavens, Carla posting cryptically. Whatever next.

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carla · 28/02/2006 13:55

God. Sorry to everyone. All it was, Tamba, is my mum writing a book for dds. Wasn't very exciting to anyone but me, hence me not rushing back to tell everyone.

But it cheered me up.

Sorry again.

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carla · 28/02/2006 14:02

jco, lots of people come on here with problems. If I can't differentiate between a problem and an attention seeking behaviour, then I'm sorry. It wasn't meant to be that way.

Hope that makes sense.

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Aero · 28/02/2006 14:38

Glad you're ok Carla and hope you are receiving the help you need.

There was clearly something going on last time you were posting, even before the 'nice warm bath' thread which was too close to home for me to post on.

If posting here helps you in any way, then do come back, but I'm not sure it's the best thing for you tbh, and I tend to agree with Soapy and MB, although I also don't think there's point in a name change.

I'm happy for you to return, but I'm sure you'll understand if I give you a wide berth if you should happen to post cryptically again. Smile

I think that your Mum writing a book for your girls is lovely news.

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carla · 28/02/2006 14:44

Aero, THANK you. I do hope you and other MN'ers understand I never meant to post cryptically. Nuff said. XXX

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jco · 28/02/2006 22:06

Carla hun i know that lots of people come on here with problems, nobody is going to think bad of you if you came on wanting to talk about stuff that is bothering you. But hun you just can't go implying that you have taken an overdose and then not reply to people who are genuinely concerned, its really not fair. I genuinely do hope that you are ok but i still feel that you should seek some kind of help for the problems you have

nursetigger6 · 02/03/2006 00:48

what was the original thread?

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