Dh has always enjoyed computer games but over the last couple of years it has realy got out of hand. He plays most nights, sometimes until the early hours and at weekends he plays for hours on end. He does help put children to bed and willdo small jobs like empty and fill the dishwasher or make a cup of tea but this is largely it. I've told him repeatedly how it upsets me and how it makes me feel like a single parent and although he has made a bit of an effort he still played for 7hrs on Sunday (apparently in a mission he couldn't get out of) He plays online against others and talks about it like it is a job. He does have a high pressure job (in computers ronically) and i realise it is a means of escape for hims but his continual playing is really getting me down. It makes him tired and moody and I just don't know what to do about it. He used to go out cycling and climbing but he shows no interest in this now other than watching it on telvision. How can I make him realise that hs young children need his time aswell as me? Removing the games isn't an option he would just buy more. It has got serious I've threatened to leave but I don't want to I do love him but I don't love his love of computers. Please help. Is anyone else in a situation like this??