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Police nabbed us for only checking baby alarm every 5 mins

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nuparents2 · 02/09/2005 14:52

We went away for a couple of nights to a B&B on the south coast. We booked at a place which had it's own bar (as we always do) so that we can sit in the bar with a drink and the baby alarm. Unfortunately being so small they didn't offer a babylistening service (where you leave the rooms phone off the hook and staff listen in every 10 mins or so).
We found that the bar was closed but fortunately there were public bars in two hotels either side a couple of houses away.

We checked that the baby monitor worked at one of them before we put Jack to bed (13months)and once he'd settled down (he's a good sleeper) we went to the bar.

The monitor worked perfectly but unfortunately the clientelle of the bar started to get a bit "rough" so we went to the other bar.

The baby monitor was noisy here so we took it in turns every 5 minutes to walk up the road until the sound was crystal clear to check on him.

After half an hour 2 policement came up to us saying that someone had complained about us.
He said that we should be there and that we would have to have an interview with our local social services about the way we are looking after our son.

We were both gobsmacked very upset and although we would never have set out to be in this position we were mortified to think that we could get in such trouble with the authorities.

Be aware - never go outside of the best range of your monitor - it does not matter to them how often you check on your baby - you cannot be out of range even for a moment.

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magnolia1 · 11/09/2005 13:21

Kelly is right, if SS were that concerned they would have been round by now and not waited for a 'meeting'

As for the Troll thing, I ofeten mention my childrens names, why would that make me a troll?

melissasmummy · 19/09/2005 15:17

Why would having a drink be SO imortant as to leave your unattended?

When we stopped over in Singapore DH wanted to go to the bar & I wouldn't have minded either. DD was asleep but we won't leave her. Dh went to bar & I stayed in the room.

You just don't have to concider the what if's of a child waking in the night, but what happens if the parents were hurt, knocked over. There was a fire in the building? To me nothing is more important than a child's safety & I would forsake anything to make sure I am in the same house or room (as in hotel) with my child, unless I have a babysitter who I know!

rummum · 19/09/2005 16:00

I must admit... I read this thread and thought "your having me on"... so I was interested to see that others feel the same.....

flutterbee · 19/09/2005 16:22

What a stupid stupid thing to do, yes we all make mistakes and think ooopppsss shouldn't have left the baby in the bath etc etc but this is not a mistake this is 2 adults who have sat and made a decision step by step, yes we will leave the baby to go down stairs for a drink, yes we will leave the building and go next door for a drink, yes we will leave a rowdy pub and nip down the road, yes we will leave each other every 5 mins to nip into range of the baby monitor because we care so much for the babies safety.

Firstly this seems much too far fetched for me to believe it, but if it is true then you are a fool. I don't expect SS will do anything drastic just a verbal smack but honestly leaving a baby in the hotel so you and you partner can go drinking it makes no sense to me but Good luck anyway.

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