Roslily, make the most of being able to enforce a TV day when you are not well - far too soon it won't be possible!
LostOstrich, I didn't add to the advice earlier, since it seemed so sage and appropriate without me, but I think we were in exactly your position - several MCs, Wriggle born (prematurely), then another MC, then I decided that we need to enjoy what we have and not make us all thoroughly miserable and possibly risk the life or health of another baby.At first I was very very unhappy, but it doesn get better. I look at Wriggle's friends, whose mothers have all had another, and it seems to be all squabbling, exhaustion and no quality time with the firstborn. In fact, I have the quality time with their firstborn children, as they spend a lot of time at our house doing lovely arty/crafty/playing with guinea pigs type things with us.
I do have concerns about WRiggle, which I wanted to share, but now doesn't seem to be the time. And I don't think it is to do with being an only child.
Very busy at the moment; working nearly full time, AP is ill and I am getting quite worried as it is going on and on, and I am getting upset about the fact that, with looking after WRiggle, AP, M.Snake, the menagerie and work, the house is getting more and more messy.
Long day at work, with two members of our team of three teachers/student teacher/TA) out (class of 37, so need a large team), so it was just me, doing a special arty day which I was also running for the rest of the school.
And the worst thing is .... the bottle in the garage which I though was red wine turned out to be balsamic vinegar. Not the same at all!