Abuse of trust?

[jasper333]

If someone who worked at a day nursery knowingly started sexting the father of a child they were being paid to look after, also knowing that the father and mother were together and knowing both of them personally - how would they stand in terms of what they breached or abuse of trust etc?

Sorry I've not worded it well!

They no longer work at that nursery following it being exposed but they are training to be a primary teacher.

Then if he didn't give her contact details to call him he should have complained to her employer not gossiped with you....or is he trying to wind you up? Staff do not have access to these confidential files unless they work in the office ....or is he talking about an app like class dojo where they have legitimate messaging such as hope X is okay after the accident at school

I think it’s totally unacceptable that she was sexting your ex knowing you were together, while your kid was at the nursery she worked at!
But I guess you can’t really do much about it now.
sorry that happened to you! X

As a teacher, if she is contacting parents through non-official (ie nit school email) channels and not logging this contact then she'll be disciplined.

In the nursery setting, it sounds absolutely grim for you but I don't think she has broken any professional standards although she sounds totally deranged.

Thanks, it was a betrayal on many levels with the pair of them x

Thanks, I was wanting to hear from a teacher to see where she stood in her conduct.

It was via Instagram that she messaged one child's father. He may have been stirring by telling me or he may have just been letting me know that she is still up to her old tricks despite being with my ex.

There was 2 other times before the nursery work where I paid her for a service, so won't say what to keep as much anonymity here. But she expressed how much of my life she admired, my house, dog, my hair etc etc.

Then after everything that has happened I am suspecting that she was or is obsessed with ME. I have had to get a solicitor to write to her to warn her from using fake social media accounts to access my posts.

It's quite upsetting and worrying as she is around my child 50/50

Hi my partner friend takes her daughter to enchanted day nursery and she has raised some concerns about one of the staff there they are a drug user cannabis and he dose it before work and after and he's really unstable he shouldn't be working with children my partner friend is on about pulling her daughter out

@Jackconn34 please start a new thread. Until you do:

If you have concerns about an adult working with children then use your county's Safeguarding Children Partnership website. They will have a section for members of the public to report concerns. If you think a member of staff is working with children while under the influence of any drugs or alcohol it is your moral duty to report immediately.

If it was and is consensual- and doesn't fall within breaching any terms of her contract- nothing. Your partner gave her his number, accepted her nudes, and went on to leave you for her. She didn't coerce him. Sue isn't in a position of authority over him, and if this was years ago I'd say you've probably missed the boat reporting it to the nursery in case it does breach the terms of contract.

I have reported