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Webchat with Daisy Goodwin, lunchtime, Tues 23 June

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GeraldineMumsnet · 18/06/2009 11:47

As requested and promised, Daisy has accepted our invite and is coming on next Tuesday (exact time to be confirmed, but probably around 1pm). Get there early to bag your place.

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Phono · 23/06/2009 14:03

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Heathcliffscathy · 23/06/2009 14:04

errr. what webchat? she posted 9 times. mostly not to answer questions.

FabBakerGirlIsBack · 23/06/2009 14:04

I ask again, why was my post deleted?

AbricotsSecs · 23/06/2009 14:04

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Pinkjenny · 23/06/2009 14:05

Maybe she was treating us with the contempt we apparently deserve.

Merrylegs · 23/06/2009 14:05

Daisy, Daisy
Give us your answers, do...

(Oh come on, you know you were all thinking it...)

PS my DD is called Daisy. Lovely name.

PPS It's all v. passive/aggressive here

Phono · 23/06/2009 14:05

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JustineMumsnet · 23/06/2009 14:05

It was deleted because it was rude FBG.

onebat · 23/06/2009 14:05

"The show was vetted by a paediatrician and a child psychioligst before we started filming and after we made the show. They were happy with the show"

Hmm. But the NCT et al were quite definitely not.

Since the stakes were so VERY high - a child's emotional safety at stake - do you in hindsight wish that you had listened to those other voices, rather than your paid consultants?

morningpaper · 23/06/2009 14:06

The show was vetted by a paediatrician and a child psychioligst before we started filming and after we made the show. They were happy with the show.

Could tell us who they were?

hellzapoppin · 23/06/2009 14:06

Well OneBat - we'll never know whether it's worth pinging the CV over to Silver River now

Phono · 23/06/2009 14:06

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suwoo · 23/06/2009 14:06

Well, that went well

morningpaper · 23/06/2009 14:06

onebat: It was widely reported that the NSPCC and the NCT asked Channel 4 not to commission the programme.

Rhubarb · 23/06/2009 14:07

psychologist

So you basically ignored the advice of nearly every other professional body and chose a paediatrician and psychologist who were happy to fit in with your criteria. Must have taken you ages to find them, I wonder how much you had to pay them?

Still, it all makes entertaining viewing eh? Watching as mothers weep, listening to the hungry cries of newborns, witnessing small babies being deprived of physical contact, being starved and having their demonic little powers forced out of them by intelligent adults. Oooh yes, bloody good viewing that! Wonder how much it netted you?

ahundredtimes · 23/06/2009 14:07

It's a good point Daisy - and is regularly discussed on here actually. In my experience, the self-regulation rule works, and poster's who are exceptionally mean or aggressive or disrespectful or rude - are usually told not to be.

but tis the internet.

And you do need a hard hat.

Tina Fey told a really funny joke once when she collected an award, she said something like, 'I won't let this go to my head, anyone here who thinks they're really something - there's this place called the internet. And everyone there really HATES YOU.'

onebat · 23/06/2009 14:07

Hellz

I already did that. I mentioned my circs. Got no reply...

Ach well.

GeraldineMumsnet · 23/06/2009 14:08

Daisy's going to stick around for a bit longer because of slightly late start.

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priyag · 23/06/2009 14:08

Did you or did you not ask other "routine fans" to be involved, such as Jo Tantum, Gina Ford or Jo Frost - why Claire Verity who no one had heard of ?

"To be fair to Daisy, I think it's likely Silver River did ask other 'routine fans' to be involved."

FabBakerGirlIsBack · 23/06/2009 14:08

Rude??

Well, I never did.

I really object to that as it wasn't rude at all imo.

DebiNewberry · 23/06/2009 14:09

priyag goes paxo

morningpaper · 23/06/2009 14:09

(Onebat, maybe add a few extra qualifations? I don't think they routintely check CVs)

onebat · 23/06/2009 14:09

MP - that's what my post says isn't it?

the nct et al were most definitely not [happy].

Perhaps confusing bcs contracted..

DaisyGoodwin · 23/06/2009 14:09

One more thing about Bringing Up BAby:
Those of you who watched the show will remember that all the points you are raising today were aired and debated by the advocates in the show.

CV's methods were attacked by the Spock champion and the Continuum Concept champion.

I think that debate made it pretty clear what the downsides of her methods are.

tiktok · 23/06/2009 14:10

MP - the paediatrician was named, I think, at the time. I won't name him here because of what I am going to say about him, but his name will be buried in the interwebs somewhere. He is known as a bit of a maverick, happy to be non-collegial, and more than happy (if you get me) to go against his own professional body (Royal College of Paediatrics and Child Health) who were very concerned indeed about BUB and who wrote to Silver River and everywhere else to say so.

I have that assessment of him from a trusted source at the RCPCH.

I cant recall who the child psych. was.