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Do you remember this Mumsnet story…? Update

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Petsaresafe · 24/04/2026 18:28

Eight years ago I was on Mumsnet and there was a thread from a lady who was barricaded in her bedroom with her kids while her drunk husband was outside it. She had found a place in a refuge but was panicking about what to do with her pets. People all over the country were offering help. I was one of them. As it happened we were only about 30 miles away, and we had room to foster both the dog and the bunny, so the lady asked me to take them. Two days later I went to collect them. She had three young children, who were incredibly brave saying goodbye to their pets. Another Mumsnetter was coming to pick up the lady.

When the dog got to our house he was terrified of men, barking at every man he saw. He also dribbled pee all the time. Wishing a week he stopped both and glued himself to the side of our other, confident dog. The only time I have seen him do the wee thing since was when my father was slowly dying in hospital and I was crying a lot. He’s always been very worried if anyone is angry or crying.

He was 3 when he arrived. Last month he turned 11. He’s still happy and loving life. The bunny lived for another five years. His companion (that we got him) is still here and on her 5th companion - she’s like the Duracell bunny, keeping going as those around her go!

I lost touch with the family. They had so much going on. But if you’re out there I hope you see this and know he’s had a great life, still is!

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Do you remember this Mumsnet story…?  Update
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suzyq54 · 26/04/2026 15:42

This made me cry, your poor sad little dog but you gave him a lovely life.

Mythoughts1 · 26/04/2026 23:39

I didn't know about this story. Thank you for this beautiful update. Your dog looks so happy. Like someone else said, your post has made my day. I wish the family well.

Lorrainedrops · 27/04/2026 00:58

What a lovely update. I hope the lady is happy and settled after her trauma.

mathanxiety · 27/04/2026 04:14

Wiping a little something out of my eye here.

I really hope the woman and children got away and stayed safe.

MrsElJefe · 27/04/2026 07:02

Amazing, thank you for posting, and thank you for getting the bunny a companion too. This post has really moved me, I do hope the OP sees this and finds comfort from it.

RinielUrban · 27/04/2026 07:07

❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

pestowithwalnuts · 27/04/2026 07:45

What lovely lady you are, and what a kind thing to do, Looking at your pics,,,that darling dog looks so happy and well loved.
I didnt see the thread but i hope the lady sees yours and sees how well and happy her dog is

AllTheTreesOfTheField · 27/04/2026 09:14
Happy Dog GIF by Red and Howling

Amazing story, beautiful pics and truly uplifting thread, OP.

BeckyAMumsnet · 28/04/2026 09:40

Hello @Petsaresafe what a lovely update. We think this thread deserves its place in Classics - thanks to all who nominated. 💙

Petsaresafe · 28/04/2026 09:49

Thank you. I’m touched. I’d only wanted to update. It means there’s hopefully more chance of the lady with the family seeing this too, which I’d love. 😀

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TheBlueKoala · 28/04/2026 19:32

Never thought about getting a dog before..but now I would love one. Too bad dh is not onboard..

ThatWhiteElephant · 29/04/2026 13:04

Love this post, what a wonderful thing you did!
I really hope the lady and her children found peace and happiness ❤️

Rosecoffeecup · 29/04/2026 14:27

Petsaresafe · 28/04/2026 09:49

Thank you. I’m touched. I’d only wanted to update. It means there’s hopefully more chance of the lady with the family seeing this too, which I’d love. 😀

What a handsome boy

RhannionKPSS · 29/04/2026 16:04

This lovely story must go into the Classics. Thank you for caring

Whattodo1610 · 29/04/2026 16:13

RhannionKPSS · 29/04/2026 16:04

This lovely story must go into the Classics. Thank you for caring

It’s in classics, after many nominations, MN said this yesterday morning.

abracadabra1980 · 29/04/2026 16:49

What a wonderful thread and a wonderful person you are. It has made my day ❤️🐾

reprobates10 · 29/04/2026 17:45

I remember the thread. You are an angel Op.😇

Thank you for rescuing those fuzzy babies, and thank you for sharing all the wonderful pics.❤❤

So grateful for your update as now I will remember this thread as well.❤❤❤

Gloriia · 29/04/2026 18:09

Petsaresafe · 28/04/2026 09:49

Thank you. I’m touched. I’d only wanted to update. It means there’s hopefully more chance of the lady with the family seeing this too, which I’d love. 😀

Such a gorgeous pic 😍

Jane143 · 30/04/2026 08:42

Petsaresafe · 28/04/2026 09:49

Thank you. I’m touched. I’d only wanted to update. It means there’s hopefully more chance of the lady with the family seeing this too, which I’d love. 😀

Gorgeous

BlakeCarrington · 30/04/2026 20:18

I keep re-reading this thread as it lifts me up with its loveliness. You are so awesome and kind OP, more of this sort of thing in the world please 💐

crazeekat · 30/04/2026 20:25

Was on mn back then but just wanted to say ur amazing and thank u for what u have done. ♥️

RhannionKPSS · 01/05/2026 20:03

Thank you Mumsnet for putting this thread in the Classics. I’m now revisiting some fantastic threads and some very moving ones too.

Empress13 · 04/05/2026 06:13

Petsaresafe · 28/04/2026 09:49

Thank you. I’m touched. I’d only wanted to update. It means there’s hopefully more chance of the lady with the family seeing this too, which I’d love. 😀

I’m so glad this has gone into Classics. Look at his adorable face he’s positively smiling love him ❤️

Petsaresafe · 04/05/2026 11:23

Empress13 · 04/05/2026 06:13

I’m so glad this has gone into Classics. Look at his adorable face he’s positively smiling love him ❤️

In that picture we were on holiday at a static caravan on a glorious beach. I’d gone to the loo, and he had run out onto the terrace, worked out which window was the loo and stuck his head through the window in a “found you!” sort of way - really impressed with himself!

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Magsbd · 07/05/2026 19:30

That’s lovely. I feel quite teary. 🩷