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Silly things your mother did (lighthearted)

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RaraRachael · 26/01/2021 13:44

Trying to lighten my current mood and started to think about things my mother did - and insisted that I do - as they were "the done thing" back in the day.

Turning the clothes inside out to put on the washing line in case a bird shat on them
Lining every shelf in your kitchen unit with patterned greaseproof paper
Stuffing the chicken and then sewing it up with a needle and thread

Suffice to say, I stopped these ridiculous traditions when i realised there was no valid purpose to them Grin

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ZackaryQuack · 27/01/2021 19:22

@Fireflylane

Peeling sprouts, then with knife putting a cross on bottom of the sprout 🤔 I started to do this and realised that they cook perfectly well without having to do this 😆
Nahhh, you're joking right!?!?!! I still peel and cross them! I've not lived with my parents for 8 years!!!

Also in 2002 my food nutrition (because you know you don't call it cooking 🤨) teacher taught us that throwing a piece of pasta a a tile would confirm its readiness. Mum laughed when I did it at home...

Miljea · 27/01/2021 19:35

Sorry if this gas already been examined at length 😂😂

Laundry.

I wash things, hang them to dry, then, when they're just damp, iron them, using the dampness to make steam; they then go in the airing cupboard for a day or so to dry properly. Then into the wardrobe/ drawer.

Pants/socks get line dried, then, if completely dry, they go into drawers (unironed!! 😳), if damp, into the airing cupboard.

I am not a fan of the tumble-dryer; expensive, ecologically unsound, and they ruin clothes; but I recognise I am fortunate to have a garden for a hoist, and a spare bedroom for a drying rack.

I'm old, but even then, I don't do what my mother did, where Wash Day was a thing, complete with an open top washer with a rotating paddle, wrung into a sink of cold water, and repeat; separate spin drier (the luxury!) then hoist/clothes line. Ironed damp, with spray starch.

LadyEloise · 27/01/2021 19:36

@Kilcaple
Was your Mum/ Grandmother from Ireland ?

rslsys · 27/01/2021 19:39

Great Aunt who would put a hat on before she opened the front door. If it was someone she wanted to see, she'd just got in and not had time to take her hat off yet. If it was someone she didn't want to see, she was just on her way out!
DM used to buy Vesta packet curries and make them 'more exciting' by adding sultanas and coconut.

Puffalicious · 27/01/2021 19:54

@rslsys

Great Aunt who would put a hat on before she opened the front door. If it was someone she wanted to see, she'd just got in and not had time to take her hat off yet. If it was someone she didn't want to see, she was just on her way out! DM used to buy Vesta packet curries and make them 'more exciting' by adding sultanas and coconut.
Absolute genius! I could use a jacket for the same purpose!
ureterr1blemuriel · 27/01/2021 19:58

Iron towels and socks...she still does!

Used to smack me with the wooden spoon (she’s half Irish) - I’d forgotten until I watched Derry Girls yesterday (& it had me laughing)! I love my DM very much and accept that disciplining was very different in the 80s.

LadyEloise · 27/01/2021 20:52

I think this thread should go in Classics.
It's the first thread I have laughed out loud many times when reading.

My Mum would mix the contents of the ends of the cereal boxes - Weetabix with Sultana Bran or Rice Krispies. It didn't matter what type- I hated that.
She used Dad's old white vests as dusters.
She " turned " sheets - no idea either.
My aunt would send her ghastly fancy patterned sheets and pillowcases, always poly cotton, from the US. It didn't matter that nothing matched. She'd send her towels too and these would be saved for when visitors were coming.
She cut crosses into Brussels sprouts too
She saved the butter foil for greasing.
She saved brown paper and the "satin" ribbon from any bouquets of flowers she'd got.
Gifts were unwrapped carefully to save the wrapping paper.
She had lived through tough times hence the frugality but would give you the shirt off her back.
Thankfully she's less frugal now.
But the mismatched bed linen is still going strong. Smile

WingingItSince1973 · 27/01/2021 21:40

Spit on a tea towel to wipe something off my face, despite being next to a tap!! Was the 70s though 🤣

JumboShiitake · 27/01/2021 22:14

I actually do use old clothes cut up for dusters including pants 😂

My DM was a great fan of what she called "sponging off". If a mark could be removed from clothing using the damp dishcloth it would be, to save washing. We regularly used to line up before exiting the house to see if anything needed sponging.

cortex10 · 27/01/2021 22:18

Insisting we go inside and sit at the dining table to eat 'properly' when we had a BBQ.

Telling us that we'd get peritonitis if we ate ice lollies too quickly.

Miranda15110 · 27/01/2021 23:02

@Shosha1

I still line shelves! Especially the ones that hold food such as oil or treacle.

My favourite of my Mums was after ironing dry clothes, she would then but them in the airing cupboard before they went into into the wardrobes. Why!

My mum airs clothes before putting away. Mental, they are dry. If I put something on straight out of the dryer it tops her over the edge 😀
RaraRachael · 27/01/2021 23:04

We also had half a can of water or milk added to soup to make it go further.

Keeping all the baking trays and tins in the oven despite having plenty of cupboard space. Then having to lug the whole lot out every time we wanted to use the oven.

Nobody let you know in advance if they were going to visit in the 70s so she insisted on them staying for their tea. So we'd end up starving as a dish of macaroni of whatever was made to stretch to 8 helpings instead of 4 Hmm

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QuinionsRainbow · 27/01/2021 23:18

She " turned " sheets - no idea either.

Cutting a bed-sheet worn in the middle in two halves, and then re-joining the two pieces by the two original sides. Not very elegant definition, but I hope it's clear.

BeautifulStar · 27/01/2021 23:25

If I did anything slightly out of line pointed to the sky and said “God is watching!”
Had strict timings for the immersion heater and flipped out if anyone didn’t stick to them (ie. 20 mins for a hair wash, 45 mins for a bath) it was constantly getting turned on and off and everyone would be arguing about whose turn it was to use hot water. Why the fuck she didn’t just have it on for a few hours to get enough hot water for the day I do not know.
De-nitted my hair by picking the lice out with a sewing needle and then drowning them in a jug of water! She was very tight my mum.

BeautifulStar · 27/01/2021 23:28

Ooh I’ve just remembered another. We had a twin tub washing machine which would only ever be used on a Saturday (tough shit if your jeans needed washing mid-week) It was my job to poke it all around with a big stick to fully immerse it - and for some reason this was called “quashing”. I’ve no idea why!

mrsmacmc · 28/01/2021 00:12

This thread is amazing thank you. I'm remembering so many things my DM does and DG did then realising how many have rubbed off on me BlushHmm

Fred56 · 28/01/2021 00:50

Lots of superstitions, throwing salt over your shoulder etc if we had toothache it was boiled water and brandy, if we had stomach ache boiled water, sugar and brandy. Butter on head bumps. You'd damage your kidneys if you wore a crop top. Cold if you go out with wet hair. Cucumber with onion and vinegar as part of a salad.

Onlymeandthedognow · 28/01/2021 03:58

Loving this thread!!

I’ve got a few...

No shouting in the street
No eating in the street (except fish and chips at seaside)
No smoking, drinking in the street
^^ all ‘common’

Carrier bags turned inside out, unless from a ‘posh’ shop ( then they were used constantly!)
Best clothes worn for visits to Dentists, Doctors, Solicitors etc as they were our ‘betters’
Having to stay in bed when poorly as a child, def no tv downstairs.
ITV was ‘common’ apart from Coronation Street. Any American programme was declared rubbish and Grange Hill would give me ‘ideas’ about bad behaviour at school😯
Same food on certain days of the week with no exception apart from Christmas. ( I hated this, but found myself doing it when I left home...why???) Still feels daring to not have a roast on Sundays!!
Cups of tea were very much teapot/cups and saucers scenario even from a young age.
Girls were expected to ‘keep house’ but boys certainly weren’t!!
Glad I taught my son otherwise!!😃

FunkBus · 28/01/2021 06:34

I'm disturbed by how many of these I find normal.

Airing stuff - normal. I don't do it because I don't have an airing cupboard. But we grew up in a place with freezing winters and nothing ever dried out properly so it makes sense.

Ironing everything - again, I don't do it, but it would help dry everything.

Fruit in curry - I love it. I don't care if it's 70s or naff or anything else, I think it's delicious. Potato in curry is very normal imo, even in Asian countries, but especially in the UK where we can't grow a lot of types of vegetables.

Cutting up old clothes to make dusters - again, why not? Saves money, saves it going into landfill. Underwear too. It's been washed.

Shouting/eating in the street - I honestly can't stand when people do this. I wouldn't go so far as to say it's common, but it's sloppy.

The stuff that amazes me about my mum, and many women from that generation, is the constant cleaning and up-keep of the house. My mum always dusted then polished. The windows got windolened. The cooker never had a build up of gunk like mine. Things were baked even though she wasn't much of a cook. We were never allowed to slop about in pyjamas all day, whereas me and my husband have specific lounging pyjamas. She was horrified that I would nip out to the car in my dressing gown.

And the money-saving. We were absolutely never allowed to stop at cafes or whatever on a trip to the beach. It was always soggy sandwiches and flask coffee. Me and my husband think nothing of buying two coffees just because we're passing somewhere. And never paying full price for anything (something I struggle to do these days, I am ALWAYS in the sales area of websites, I hate feeling like I got ripped off.) Everything liquid getting water added to it to make it last, washing liquid, hand soap, shower gel etc.

And all the stuff kept for 'best'. The 'good' china (that never gets used, not even at Christmas, because then we have the Christmas china.) The 'good' spoons. The 'good' curtains that were expensive. The 'good' pillowcases that my grandma got on her wedding day that were never used because they're 'too good'. A much less disposable culture, but one that is sometimes a bit melancholy I think.

Never ever ever complaining for bad service, someone could have spat in our food in front of us and my mum would have said it was delicious.

Yes, all the washing line stuff, things have to be placed in a certain order and in certain directions (a tshirt hung by the hem?? You'll get peg marks on it!). Leaving washing out overnight? Unthinkable.

She also has a deep hatred of anything remotely vintagey because to her it just looks like all the stuff she grew up with, whereas I think the MDF of my childhood looks shit.

Atalune · 28/01/2021 08:55

My mum was very house proud, and she would be irate if I didn’t open my curtains in the mornings. What would the neighbours think! She was also obsessed with coasters under drinks.

s113 · 28/01/2021 09:13

My mum liked to blindfold us for surprises, so she could do a "big reveal". We'd be made to wait quietly for a few minutes, before being led to whatever it was. This happened for birthday presents (especially big ones), or the room being decorated for a birthday or Christmas.

Occasionally this was done for more mundane things, such as seeing the garden being re-landscaped, or the outside of the house being painted a completely different colour, which mostly happened while we are at school, so we didn't see it much in progress.

CigarsofthePharoahs · 28/01/2021 09:33

Was anyone else's mother obsessed about half day closing for shops?
She used to mother about it every time we went on holiday. My parents would discuss picking up extra groceries and my mum, without fail, would say "Best go in the morning in case it's half day closing." Even though this no longer existed where we lived, but because we were in a different county..... This was in the 90s.
We all went on holiday together before the 'Rona. DH and I decided to buy some groceries on holiday rather than schlepping it all down there. It was 2018 and guess what... "What if the local shops have half day closing?"
Mum, the local shop is a Tesco. I'm pretty sure half day closing went out with the Dodo.

lazylump72 · 28/01/2021 09:52

my mum used to send us to the icecream man with a bowl and ask for 50p worth to take home for desssert! Then every wednesday she was to be found at weightwatchers with her friends after a disasterous weigh in and being shamed we used to meet her and go to the fish and chip shop to all get fish and chips to eat on the way home! Shes done so well on her life long weight loss programme ...I reckon shes lost 5lbs in 40 years! I love her so much the mad head she is!

lazylump72 · 28/01/2021 09:54

Oh and sending us for a 1/4 of boiled ham and make sure its 3 slices you hear me? from our local shop! such happy days...brilliant thread this one OP

InchesAway · 28/01/2021 09:57

Catholic family:
When I was 6/7 yo DM sewed a square of fabric containing an image of St.Christopher (I think) onto my vests - to ‘keep you safe’.