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NO MORE COLD MUMSNETTERS!

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KungFuBustle · 14/11/2013 10:30

Right, don't really know how to start this but I'm raging. I see over and over on here people struggling with heating, sitting cold after kids have gone to bed, waking up in cold houses and it makes me want to stamp my feet and scream. Apologies if I'm not articulate or organised. I just want to do something.

No judging, please share anything you feel may help, no matter how small. Also feel free to have a whinge. DS is at school and I'm cold now, and I'm fucking miserable. I don't mean to patronise, some of this may seem so obvious to some, but if one person is a wee bit warmer I'm a happy bunny.

Here goes.

U Switch We might as well be getting the cheapest deal.

Warm Home Discount You may be surprised by who can apply for this. A lot of providers have their own criteria and it's broader than you think.

Which Guide to Free Insulation Self explanatory but also has some information about DIY.

Draught Excluders - I have these on every door now. If you're turning down radiators or trying to save by only heating one room they are brilliant. You don't have to buy them. I cut up old trousers up the crotch. Stuffed with old sheets and sewed up. You can use newspaper at a pinch.

Curtains - Thick lined curtains on windows are great. They are also expensive. If you can forgo colour scheme charity shops have AMAZING deals. They might not fit in with the room but lord they keep the heat in. I've also fixed them over front and back doors. Our kitchen has no heat source but since covering the back door I can no longer see my own breath when I walk in.

Tinfoil - Wrap in round cardboard and whack it behind your radiators. You can buy special stuff for this, but if like me what wasn't an option this is better than nothing. We noticed a real difference. I did downstairs, doing upstairs today.

Builders Plastic - Not cheap but cheaper than double glazing. Tape it over windows and it can keep the heat in and the cold out. I haven't been able to do this but another MNer mentioned it and it seemed a very clever idea on a budget.

Cashmere - I wanted to laugh when someone said this, like I can afford cashmere. Keep an eye out in the right charity shops and you will. I've not been so lucky yet but I know other MNrs have. Real wool jumpers and throws are a great find too. Doesn't matter if it's not our colour (Don't tell the S&B board!) warm's warm.

Candles Heater Instructions in the link. Building mine today. Candles in a room can also give an impression of warmth. I pay £1 for 100 tea lights at ikea.

Slow Cookers - I made porridge in my slow cooker last night. Soon as we got up I had a bowl of porridge in DS's hands and some hot squash. He also gets a hot squash as soon as he comes in from school. Cheap and warming.

Hats - I'm not much of a knitter. But if you want a hat making PM me. They're usually wonky, not stylish, but if you're cold and want one for wearing around the house I'll make you one. I can also make little ones for children.

Crikey, this was longer than I expected. Please share any warm tips you may have. I'm sorry so many of us are cold, and I'm sorry I can't just pay all of our heating bills and we all have warm Winters.

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SkullyAndBones · 14/11/2013 11:04

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DeathByLaundry · 14/11/2013 11:07

Take up crochet. Yarn from the charity shop, keeps your hands warm as you work and once your blanket is big enough it helps keep your knees warm before it is even finished!

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scripsi · 14/11/2013 11:09

yes to cheap cashmere - I have found very cheap second hand cashmere on ebay (sometimes it has bobbled, which is why it is cheap, but this is only for wearing inside the house anyway).

also I realised that jeans are (in general) not very warm, so agree to the layers of leggings or putting leggings under jeans.

the candle heater really works - my late FIL used to do this in his shed.

starsandunicorns · 14/11/2013 11:09

Have hot drinks reguatly
I drink cup a soups or oxo cubes if I dont want yet another brew

Rooners · 14/11/2013 11:10

Both our inglenooks have got large old mattresses stuffed right up them! I think they are from garden furniture...they were there when we moved in and I haven't taken them out. We're not allowed to use the fires so it makes sense.

RigglinJigglin · 14/11/2013 11:11

Just a cautionary tale for the curtains and fleece lining - it's a potentially dangerous fire hazard. Man made fleece is highly flammable and in the event of a fire would render an escape route (ie window) impassable.

Much better to get to the charity shop for very thick curtains, we've done this and machine dyed them to suit out room. Another pair didn't dye properly so I took the linings and sewed them into a pair we had.

YY to candles!

PeterParkerSays · 14/11/2013 11:15

If you're using hot water bottles / microwave wheat bags to warm beds, wrap the person's pyjamas around the bag / bottle(s) so they warm as well, starting with the layer closest to the skin - for my DS it would be vest, then PJ trousers, then wrap the jacket around all of it, so it's warmer when he gets ready for bed.

JugglingFromHereToThere · 14/11/2013 11:16

What a lovely caring thread Smile

I need some advice about keeping warm outside too, as I'm feeling a bit daunted by the prospect of winter ahead now we're hitting the chillier days of November - scarf someone mentioned seems a good suggestion - I rarely remember what a good idea they are!

For indoors we have a couple of lovely warm blankets/ eiderdowns - both presents actually - that we snuggle up under together to watch TV in the evenings. And our main family room is always that bit warmer and cosier than the rest of the house - has the biggest and best radiator with it's own control.

I am a bit nervous about our heating bill though, and should probably make more effort to turn heating down, especially during the day, or heating bill will be a shock when it comes Shock

Rooners · 14/11/2013 11:17

I agree with scarfs btw,

I wear one in bed sometimes.

and socks in bed.

JugglingFromHereToThere · 14/11/2013 11:19

Talking of the microwave wheat bags we had a couple of similarly microwavable teddies the DC used to love to take up with them at bedtime - I'll perhaps have to see where they've got to

Rooners · 14/11/2013 11:19

We aren't allowed to use candles either (rental)

But it is just as well as I get stressed about the fire risk.

I find that from about October I don't bother drawing the curtains in the day time. Not unless it is a lovely day outside.

We have got huge windows which are all single glazed, and we have very thick curtains with interlining (old ones, new would cost a fortune) and I keep them closed and put on low energy lights instead.

I think the cost saving is probably worth it in terms of heat versus lighting.

loveliesbleeding1 · 14/11/2013 11:19

We are trying the little candle heater this evening,I'm always at home as home educating dd so it would cost a fortune to keep the heating on all the time, it hasn't been on yet this autumn, and I'm trying to leave it as long as possible, it's a big, old house to heat.

BarfaStewart · 14/11/2013 11:20

What a lovely thread! a friend of mine has had her (LPG) gas disconnected because she couldn't afford to pay her bill, they wouldn't take part-payment or installments and they don't do pre-payment meters, nor do the supplier have an ombudsman. It's fucking shit.

HotCrossPun · 14/11/2013 11:20

Great thread OP.

Some really helpful advice here, a lot of it I wasn't aware of. Thanks

RigglinJigglin · 14/11/2013 11:21

barfa that's bloody criminal.

MooncupGoddess · 14/11/2013 11:23

Move as much as you can. Jumping up and down or running between rooms really helps.

BarfaStewart · 14/11/2013 11:23

I know, I went with her to CAB etc and there's fuck all she can do. She has two young kids, and the company don't care. She can't even change supplier because the village is off the mains gas and the whole village is supplied by this one company.

KungFuBustle · 14/11/2013 11:25

Fucking hell Barfa, is there anything we can do?

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UnicornsNotRiddenByGrownUps · 14/11/2013 11:26

This is driving me crazy. DH are in professional jobs and shouldn't be worrying about heating in a perfect world but it's just so difficult to keep paying extortionate amounts.

Last year we managed to scrape together enough money for a house deposit. Bought a house big enough to fit babies in to but have had no luck TTC. Have shut those rooms off so they don't have to heat them. Just feels ridiculous.

Makes me feel so angry for people on low incomes and with families Hmm

Like the idea

loveliesbleeding1 · 14/11/2013 11:26

barfa that is horrendous!
And yes mooncupgoddess got to keep that heart pumping!

TheWomanTheyCallJayne · 14/11/2013 11:26

Ginger, honey, coffee and garlic are all great foods for heat
Known as yang foods in china

TicTacZebra · 14/11/2013 11:27

Put a hot water bottle under your dressing gown and use the dressing gown belt to keep it in place. Iykwim?

TicTacZebra · 14/11/2013 11:28

Also, getting up and doing something. I know it sounds obvious. When I'm cold, I always hover the whole house because it warms me up.

BarfaStewart · 14/11/2013 11:28

Kingfu, sadly not. I've lent her some electric heaters, and a camping stove. The hot water is coming through electric pipes, not loads but enough, so they're muddling through. and trying to get the arrears paid off.