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How do you inject JOY into your day?

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eatprayloveorjusteateateat · 12/09/2013 10:18

I wake up everyday and feel 'bleurgh!'... just bleurgh!

Is there any way that you cheer yourself up/ inject some joy into your morning/day?

Is it getting up an hour before everyone else and having a good cup of luxury coffee?
Do you watch something to shake off your crappy mood?
listen to something?
do something unusual?
eat something?
put something on?

i don't know about you but i don't wake up feeling naturally happy so i really need to do something to put a smile on my face.

Any ideas?

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RichManPoorManBeggarmanThief · 12/09/2013 15:16

Probably easier said than done, but I love my job, so I actually don't mind getting up to go and do it.

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ToriaPumpkin · 12/09/2013 16:03

I sing or play a really uplifting song. Sometimes my singing would have my high school singing teacher covering her ears in horror but I find it cathartic to just belt out a show tune or something with lots of swearing in it.

I always have flowers in my living room. Even if they're just cheap carnations from Tesco.

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eatprayloveorjusteateateat · 12/09/2013 16:12

LOVE these suggestions. ALLY MCBEAL was the best program ever. It's on my christmas list this year - the entire collection.

Just thought I would tell you all - inspired from you all - that i have just been out for a walk to the shops where I bought expensive coffee and cinnamon bagels. I also put my face up to the air - may have looked silly but it really did work.

I wish I could have a dog - but I am in a rented house.
This thread has been exactly what I needed.

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GrendelsMum · 12/09/2013 16:34

That's so sweet. I love the idea of you putting your face up to the air.

Do let us know tomorrow how your morning went.

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PeterParkerSays · 12/09/2013 16:58

I hope you have some proper butter for those bagels, eatpray, and are not wasting them on spread. Wink

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MummyBeerest · 12/09/2013 17:01

These are all awesome.

For me, daily walks. Despite the weather; I go out. Even if only for 15 minutes. Since doing this, I have yet to be sick.

Getting a coffee.

And music. ..any genre, as long as it's upbeat. At present, listening to Parisian jazz.

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Itstartshere · 12/09/2013 17:13

Great thread. I'm trying to inject more joy into my life too. At the moment making an effort to stick on some really upbeat music is great, I'm having a pot of herbal tea sitting out in the garden each morning (determined to do so as long as it's not raining) just to get a blast of fresh air and sunshine, have taken up meditating too. Some sex would be nice, think that's a way to have some instant joy. Grin Also trying to get out a little more and laugh with friends.

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ThePlEWhoLovedMe · 12/09/2013 17:18

My work gives me joy... and laughing with my kids.

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ToriaPumpkin · 12/09/2013 17:20

Ooh, good call on the Ally MacBeal boxset, my MIL is bound to ask what I want for Christmas soon!

I've been down this road...

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AngryFeet · 12/09/2013 17:24

Laughing. If I laugh many times a day I feel positive and happier. Not something you can just DO I guess but I surround myself with happy witty people and watch comedies. I do love to laugh :)

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MrsTwgtwf · 12/09/2013 17:25

Birdsong is good, especially if you learn to identify different birds by their song. It's always there, but we rarely hear it.

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WowOoo · 12/09/2013 17:52

I do, Mrs Twgtwf.

It's the one good thing about having to be the first to be awake early in the morning. Peace and quiet, a cuppa and my lovely blackbird for a little while.

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chrome100 · 12/09/2013 18:08

I go swimming. It is SO hard to get up at 6am in the dark and cycle down to the pool but once I'm in I feel really good and lovely and energised for the rest of the day. If I am feeling lazy and don't bother I always regret it.

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DipMeInChocolate · 12/09/2013 18:13

Hot shower & body scrub. Make up and perfume on then a proper coffee & croissant whilst feeding the kids/ making packed lunches.

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Yama · 12/09/2013 18:49

Morning - eggs for breakfast. I just feel that they nourish me.

Daytime - posh coffee during lunch hour. It means I leave my workplace and walk there thus getting outside and seeing the sky.

Evening - Dark chocolate, nuts and wine or dark chocolate and a cup of tea. Smashing.

My favourite thing of all though is just to stare at the sea. I can see the sea from my house. This evening it is rather shiny. Sunsets are lovlier over the see too. Oh, and when the starlings dart about I feel truly alive.

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GetStuffezd · 12/09/2013 18:50

When my pupils go out to break I google pictures of Christian Bale Blush

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poachedeggs · 12/09/2013 19:28

Get I LOVE that idea!

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Letitsnow9 · 12/09/2013 20:12

Do something to make someone else smile, it ends up making you smile. A good hot drink (very British) and a good natter on the phone. Upworthy and buzz feed for some online cheeriness

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FariesDoExist · 12/09/2013 20:28

What a great thread. Im not a morning person but I'm looking forward to starting at least one morning next week with a cinnamon bagel with Philly (will go out to get some tomorrow).

I love my Kindle, so I treat myself to books. I might get a self help book on "how to be joyful" or something!

Also I keep meaning to subscribe to a magazine because I think it would be a nice 'surprise' for me to recive on my doorstep once a month, but I don't know what magazine to go for, I was thinking maybe Good Food or Essentials.

urigeller are you actually Uri Geller or just a fan of?

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sicily1921 · 12/09/2013 20:59

What a great thread OP, thank you!
I am not fit for the human race if I don't get coffee and porridge IN PEACE as I hate mornings.

Love a nice soak in the bath (not into bubbles and candles...just the peace and quiet)
Gin and tonic ( pref with box of chocs)
cross-stitching works to relax me, it's nice to create a lovely picc yourself although it takes me about 2 years!!!
Cracking film eg 'Rebecca' or my box set of The Golden Girls makes life worth living.

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tigerdriverII · 12/09/2013 21:15

Sounds soppy but for me it's nature. I drive the "long" way to work because it's a lovely drive and I like to see how the trees/fields/gardens etc change through the seasons. I like bird watching and just catching sight of a red kite, or a buzzard, or whatever (today, a heron on top of a lamppost in an industrial estate) cheers me up. And I like just looking at trees, flowers, leaves etc and enjoying the design. Almost anywhere there's a bit of buddelia or some trees or something's even if you're stuck on a train or in traffic. I am quite easily pleased.

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Cherrygrape · 12/09/2013 21:22

Thewicked - you have inspired me to snog my dh more!

I read, think about things I am grateful for, and stop rushing or looking at my phone so much.
Doing a good deed always makes me feel happier. :)

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