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Help!! Carpet fitter has just stormed out. AIBU?

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whenskiesaregrey · 17/04/2012 11:51

Sorry for rambling state of this post, I am a bit upset about the way I have just been spoken to. Also, sorry for the length of the post, I just want to include all the detail.

I ordered some carpet last week to be fitted today. It is a local small carpet shop, not part of a chain. They offer a 'free fitting service', but you pay 75% of the price in the shop, and the remainder once fitted. I presume this is because they sub-contract out the fitting. In my case this was £150 in the shop, and £50 once fitted. I have bought carpet and fitting from this shop before, and the fitting service wasn't great, but they said they were using a different company that day, so I gave them the benefit of the doubt and ordered from them again. In the shop, I mentioned the problems I had had last time (punctuality, not taking old carpet away) and asked for reassurance that the service would be better this time. I was assured it would be.

Carpet was due to be delivered at 9am. At half past 9, no-one had turned up, so I rang the shop asking where they were. I was told they had has a couple of problems this morning and only had one fitter on instead of two, and they might be able to fit me in a 2pm today. I can't do that time as DS has a party 2-4pm, and I work Wed-Fri, so this morning really was the only time this week that was suitable. I explained to the man on the phone that I has problems last time, and was told it would be better this time. So he said he would move some things around, and fit me in about 10am this morning.

At 10, two men arrived to fit the carpet. In the bedroom, the furniture we had left in there was a double bed, a wardrobe, and chester of drawers and two little side units. We had been told in the shop not to worry about moving any furniture out of the room, that they would move it around the room to fit it. DH had taken the mirrored doors off the wardrobe to make it lighter to move, and we had moved all of the other usual bedroom stuff out of the room. The chest of drawers were half empty, just had underwear in them. The bed still had the bedding on it because I didn't think it would make any difference. The little side units did have things in them, but they really are very small, so I thought they be okay. I am 27+ weeks pregnant with PGP, so it is a bit difficult to move things around.

He went to the bedroom and looked around and sighed. The said, you're going to need to get those clothes out of that wardrobe. There wasn't very much in there because we are getting new wardrobes, so it was just a few things to keep us going until the new stuff arrived. I said I would move it, but it shouldn't make much different to the weight. He said if he tried to move the wardrobe, it would collapse, which I said wasn't true as we have just decorated, and have been moving the wardrobe around so we could get to the walls. But I still carried on moving the clothes. He then started opening the drawers in the chest of drawers, which have my underwear etc in. I said the drawers are almost empty, so the underwear shoudn't make any difference to the weight. He then picked up the small unit and dragged it around the room in a way that the drawers all fell forward and the unit nearly tipped up. I said to him that I would move it if he was going to move it like that, and moved the other unit out of the room. He then said 'look love, I'm doing you a favour here, I could leave you to move it by yourself if you want'. By the point, the other lad had turned the double bed up on to its side and was leaning against the window. I said to the first lad that I understood that he has obviously had a busy morning and he didn't have much patience, but I had been waiting for the delivery too. He said 'no patience?! I shouldn't even be here. I'm not staying here and taking this. Do you want me to go'. I said to him if he wanted to go, he should go, but it's his job to fit the carpet. He shouted to the other lad, 'right, we're off', stormed down the stairs and got in the van. The other lad looked a bit sheepish, and I said 'so is he just going to go, leaving the bed on its side and all the furniture like that'. I am quite obviously pregnant, and DS was playing downstairs and shouting to me, so it was obvious that I would not be able to move the furniture back. He said he would have a word with him, but once he had got in the van, they drove off. So the bedroom is left with the very heavy oak double bed on its side, a unit in the middle of the floor, and they left the door open as they stormed out.

I rang the shop and explained that I thought the fitter was very rude, and what was going to happen now. He said that they had done me a favour by moving the other appointments round to fit me in at 10am, and they were wasting time on the phone at the moment, and other appointments needed to be done. He then said it is in my best interest to be flexible with the delivery time, because I wont get my £150 deposit back, because they have ordered the carpet. I then tried to reiterate how rude the fitter had been to me. Apparently the fitter had told the lad in the shop that I refused to move anything out of the room, and that is why he left. Now, if the shop had explained to us to make sure wardrobes were empty, drawers were empty etc, then we would have done it. We told them when we ordered it it was for a bedroom, so you would know the type of furniture would be in there. But we were told that we did not need to get any furniture out of the room, the fitters would work around it.

Was I being unreasonable to the fitter? Is it true I can't get my money back on the carpet? I don't want that fitter back in the house, he really was so horrible to me. I understand he has obviously had a busy day, and I said that to him, but at the end of the day, that isn't my fault and he shouldn't take it out on me. I also don't like the suggestion from the shop that they are doing me a favour by re-arranging the delivery for me, when I have paid for a carpet and fitting, and that is what I expected.

I am pretty upset at the moment, which is probably all pregnancy hormones. I got a bit upset on the phone to the shop, so he said he would ring me back 'when I had calmed down'. So I am waiting for them to call back now. Where do I stand?

Thank you if you read this far!!

OP posts:
anguauberwaldironfoundersson · 07/11/2020 14:28

Love it when this one pops up!

I'll be honest, I don't actually remember if she ever got the carpet fitted Blush

somelemons · 07/11/2020 14:28

It's like bloody Groundhog Day all over again...

liveitwell · 07/11/2020 14:30

YABVU. We'd never get our carpets changed and leave furniture in the room. They're carpet fitters, not movers.

And you say the bed is very heavy. So why should they have to move it? He might have a bad back for all you know.

You were rude and tbh, good on him for leaving. Next time you should respect people and make sure the job is actually ready.

anguauberwaldironfoundersson · 07/11/2020 14:32

Just quickly scanned and thank the Lord the OP finally got the carpet fitted in April 2012.

I can rest easy now... or at least until someone resurrects this thread again and I've forgotten the outcome.

WiddlinDiddlin · 07/11/2020 14:36

Ah hello old friend...

I wonder if the OP needs a new carpet yet, that one must be pretty worn out by now.

Mumsafan · 07/11/2020 14:42

Made me smile seeing this. I do (accounts) work for a local carpet shop and the times the fitters turn up and people have left furniture in the room it's ridiculous. The customer is always told to make sure the room is completely empty.

Once the fitters turned up and someone had not moved a single bit of furniture - plus their Christmas Tree was up and had presents around it. The man of the house sat on the sofa watching a Christmas film and said " are you ok to work around me?".

Tombero · 07/11/2020 14:54

Just putting a note in my calendar to resurrect this thread again in a few months Grin

JeezLouisePlease · 07/11/2020 15:00

I know this is a zombie thread but I feel, after reading it so many times over the years, I’d just comment so that I can be a part of history Grin and I’ve just had carpet fitted so solidarity and all that Wink

likethatbutcat · 07/11/2020 15:21

@JeezLouisePlease

Did you move the furniture before the fitters arrived?

JeezLouisePlease · 07/11/2020 15:58

[quote likethatbutcat]@JeezLouisePlease

Did you move the furniture before the fitters arrived?[/quote]
It was the stairs so I just kicked stuff down them Grin

Storyoftonight · 07/11/2020 15:59

Every time this pops up I wonder if she ever got her carpet done Daffodil

Coffeecak3 · 07/11/2020 16:56

To think that bump is nearly 8 years old now. Wonder how the carpet is wearing. Grin

AnOnly · 07/11/2020 18:52

How did OP never get to see the carpet in the end? Did I read that right in the update about 4 years ago?

Ptemium · 07/11/2020 20:12

What Have I missed

kerrymucklowe2020 · 07/11/2020 20:26

**Zombie Thread

TheDowagerDuchess · 07/11/2020 20:26

Wow! It’s back again!

DressingGownofDoom · 07/11/2020 20:32

@Jaxhog

I'm outraged on your behalf. While I'm glad the carpet finally got fitted, it's terrible that you ended up paying extra to get it done. We've had many carpets fitted over the years and never had a fitter behave like this.

I would write a formal letter to the Manager telling him outraged you are and tell them you will be giving honest feedback on every online review site you can find e.g. Trustpilot, checkatrade etc. Then do it.

This problem happened before those websites even existed Grin this thread pops up on an annual basis.
Brahumbug · 07/11/2020 20:42

Any moment now and Darryl Dixon will ride up on his motorcycle and shoot the thread with his crossbow. Grin

anxiiousone · 08/11/2020 05:51

@likethatbutcat

carpet shop went bust.

Oh no - how will she know who to write her strongly worded letter to then?

This is my favourite zombie thread Grin

It's like an old friend who visits randomly Grin
LordLancington · 08/11/2020 06:31

Not read the rest of the thread as it’s pretty long, but it sounds like terrible service and you could probably take them to trading standards, although of course burden of proof may be difficult.

HOWEVER, I once spent a few months as a truck driver delivering palletised goods and frequently got into ‘arguments’ with the customer (was never rude though) due to the retailer making all sorts of promises on my behalf of things I would do upon arrival (usually saying these to secure the sale I’d imagine).

I wasn’t insured to enter properties and would face disciplinary action if my employer found out that I had - which could feasibly happen if I accidentally damaged something whilst trying to manoeuvre a 900kg pallet around with an electric pallet truck. Many times the retailer would apparently tell the customer that I could deliver into their house/take away the wooden pallet etc/help them unpack and set it up, etc etc.

So, I’d end up with a customer understandably angry that I’d left a heavy washing machine on the kerb at the end of their drive and they might be a lone woman with no means to move it. I also often had to explain that no I’m not able to carry a washing machine up to the 6th floor on my own, etc. And all the time the clock was ticking and I had other jobs to do, alongside the fact that I didn’t get overtime so didn’t really want my 10.5 hour day to become a 12-13 hour day as it frequently did.

I eventually got so pissed off that I drove back an hour into my shift one day and threw the truck keys on the desk, which is probably how this guy felt having been messed around by the retailer regarding times and then arriving to find loads of stuff needing moved (not your fault of course). Twas the worst job of my life but I needed the experience and it did pay off as I then got a really well paid job in specialist logistics (they said “we know you’ll be able to keep calm under pressure having worked for xxx”). Grin

LordLancington · 08/11/2020 06:35

FFS! I typed all that for a zombie thread! 😦

ClaryFairchild · 08/11/2020 07:09

@ptemium -given that it was 8years ago, (something that us VERY easy to check FFS) YES!!!

So is this the 11th time this has been resurrected??? Op is probably due a new carpet by now....

likethatbutcat · 08/11/2020 08:54

@LordLancington

FFS! I typed all that for a zombie thread! 😦
But did it not even cross your mind to at least glance at the most recent posts which are directly above yours bearing in mind that there are over 840 responses on this thread?

Did you have absolutely no interest in what several hundred other people might have said?

funinthesun19 · 08/11/2020 09:11

I remember this!

WhippetyStourie · 08/11/2020 09:13

Not again 🧟‍♀️ 🧟 🧟‍♂️

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