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Help!! Carpet fitter has just stormed out. AIBU?

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whenskiesaregrey · 17/04/2012 11:51

Sorry for rambling state of this post, I am a bit upset about the way I have just been spoken to. Also, sorry for the length of the post, I just want to include all the detail.

I ordered some carpet last week to be fitted today. It is a local small carpet shop, not part of a chain. They offer a 'free fitting service', but you pay 75% of the price in the shop, and the remainder once fitted. I presume this is because they sub-contract out the fitting. In my case this was £150 in the shop, and £50 once fitted. I have bought carpet and fitting from this shop before, and the fitting service wasn't great, but they said they were using a different company that day, so I gave them the benefit of the doubt and ordered from them again. In the shop, I mentioned the problems I had had last time (punctuality, not taking old carpet away) and asked for reassurance that the service would be better this time. I was assured it would be.

Carpet was due to be delivered at 9am. At half past 9, no-one had turned up, so I rang the shop asking where they were. I was told they had has a couple of problems this morning and only had one fitter on instead of two, and they might be able to fit me in a 2pm today. I can't do that time as DS has a party 2-4pm, and I work Wed-Fri, so this morning really was the only time this week that was suitable. I explained to the man on the phone that I has problems last time, and was told it would be better this time. So he said he would move some things around, and fit me in about 10am this morning.

At 10, two men arrived to fit the carpet. In the bedroom, the furniture we had left in there was a double bed, a wardrobe, and chester of drawers and two little side units. We had been told in the shop not to worry about moving any furniture out of the room, that they would move it around the room to fit it. DH had taken the mirrored doors off the wardrobe to make it lighter to move, and we had moved all of the other usual bedroom stuff out of the room. The chest of drawers were half empty, just had underwear in them. The bed still had the bedding on it because I didn't think it would make any difference. The little side units did have things in them, but they really are very small, so I thought they be okay. I am 27+ weeks pregnant with PGP, so it is a bit difficult to move things around.

He went to the bedroom and looked around and sighed. The said, you're going to need to get those clothes out of that wardrobe. There wasn't very much in there because we are getting new wardrobes, so it was just a few things to keep us going until the new stuff arrived. I said I would move it, but it shouldn't make much different to the weight. He said if he tried to move the wardrobe, it would collapse, which I said wasn't true as we have just decorated, and have been moving the wardrobe around so we could get to the walls. But I still carried on moving the clothes. He then started opening the drawers in the chest of drawers, which have my underwear etc in. I said the drawers are almost empty, so the underwear shoudn't make any difference to the weight. He then picked up the small unit and dragged it around the room in a way that the drawers all fell forward and the unit nearly tipped up. I said to him that I would move it if he was going to move it like that, and moved the other unit out of the room. He then said 'look love, I'm doing you a favour here, I could leave you to move it by yourself if you want'. By the point, the other lad had turned the double bed up on to its side and was leaning against the window. I said to the first lad that I understood that he has obviously had a busy morning and he didn't have much patience, but I had been waiting for the delivery too. He said 'no patience?! I shouldn't even be here. I'm not staying here and taking this. Do you want me to go'. I said to him if he wanted to go, he should go, but it's his job to fit the carpet. He shouted to the other lad, 'right, we're off', stormed down the stairs and got in the van. The other lad looked a bit sheepish, and I said 'so is he just going to go, leaving the bed on its side and all the furniture like that'. I am quite obviously pregnant, and DS was playing downstairs and shouting to me, so it was obvious that I would not be able to move the furniture back. He said he would have a word with him, but once he had got in the van, they drove off. So the bedroom is left with the very heavy oak double bed on its side, a unit in the middle of the floor, and they left the door open as they stormed out.

I rang the shop and explained that I thought the fitter was very rude, and what was going to happen now. He said that they had done me a favour by moving the other appointments round to fit me in at 10am, and they were wasting time on the phone at the moment, and other appointments needed to be done. He then said it is in my best interest to be flexible with the delivery time, because I wont get my £150 deposit back, because they have ordered the carpet. I then tried to reiterate how rude the fitter had been to me. Apparently the fitter had told the lad in the shop that I refused to move anything out of the room, and that is why he left. Now, if the shop had explained to us to make sure wardrobes were empty, drawers were empty etc, then we would have done it. We told them when we ordered it it was for a bedroom, so you would know the type of furniture would be in there. But we were told that we did not need to get any furniture out of the room, the fitters would work around it.

Was I being unreasonable to the fitter? Is it true I can't get my money back on the carpet? I don't want that fitter back in the house, he really was so horrible to me. I understand he has obviously had a busy day, and I said that to him, but at the end of the day, that isn't my fault and he shouldn't take it out on me. I also don't like the suggestion from the shop that they are doing me a favour by re-arranging the delivery for me, when I have paid for a carpet and fitting, and that is what I expected.

I am pretty upset at the moment, which is probably all pregnancy hormones. I got a bit upset on the phone to the shop, so he said he would ring me back 'when I had calmed down'. So I am waiting for them to call back now. Where do I stand?

Thank you if you read this far!!

OP posts:
HaudYerWheeshtYaWeeBellend · 07/08/2020 12:58

I don’t understand why you would leave full bedroom furniture in the room when a new carpet is going to be fitted.

It’s just common curtesy and basic manners.

DappledThings · 07/08/2020 13:29

@HaudYerWheeshtYaWeeBellend

I don’t understand why you would leave full bedroom furniture in the room when a new carpet is going to be fitted.

It’s just common curtesy and basic manners.

I know. I'm sure she's been stewing on that decision for 8 years.
doyounothavegoogle · 07/08/2020 13:56

@DappledThings

Come and join me in twat corner Grin
There's a nice carpet and everything!

DappledThings · 07/08/2020 14:25

[quote doyounothavegoogle]@DappledThings

Come and join me in twat corner Grin
There's a nice carpet and everything![/quote]
I'll bring the ice-lollies on this sweltering day. As long as we don't drip them onto the new carpet.

FlamingoAndJohn · 07/08/2020 14:35

@HaudYerWheeshtYaWeeBellend

I don’t understand why you would leave full bedroom furniture in the room when a new carpet is going to be fitted.

It’s just common curtesy and basic manners.

Like reading the thread before you post?
LoisWilkersonslastnerve · 07/08/2020 14:40

Oh I get all nostalgic when this thread pops up. Grin I hope it never dies.....

Yeahnahmum · 07/08/2020 15:00

Seriously? They were coming to fit your carpet....and you left all the furniture in there...
Seriously. Yabvu.

Yeahnahmum · 07/08/2020 15:04

Oops.Blush 8 yo thread

Floatyboat · 08/08/2020 21:44

I wonder if your haughty attitude may have contributed?

KatherineJaneway · 09/08/2020 05:47

@Floatyboat

She's had 8 years to reflect.

Floatyboat · 12/08/2020 21:22

Some people don't reflect. They just lay the blame with other people.

KatherineJaneway · 13/08/2020 05:34

@Floatyboat

My point was you hadn't RTFT and this is a zombie thread that's 8 year old Grin

Floatyboat · 13/08/2020 19:37

Oh sorry, I missed that

Ptemium · 07/11/2020 09:07

Was this before lockdown?

Rollmopsrule · 07/11/2020 09:09

Waaaay before lockdown Grin

OddHoleySocks · 07/11/2020 09:11

Why the hell has this been resurrected AGAIN!

Yeah, only a year or two. Or eight... 😂

ratspeaker · 07/11/2020 10:08

@Ptemium

It was way before lockdown , back when we thought 2012 was the end of the world...

Small hint when you look to the right of the ops name in headline banner it gives the date of posting.

Now Cranberries or Bad Wolves?
Zombie zombie zombay ay ay

Jaxhog · 07/11/2020 10:50

I'm outraged on your behalf. While I'm glad the carpet finally got fitted, it's terrible that you ended up paying extra to get it done. We've had many carpets fitted over the years and never had a fitter behave like this.

I would write a formal letter to the Manager telling him outraged you are and tell them you will be giving honest feedback on every online review site you can find e.g. Trustpilot, checkatrade etc. Then do it.

MLMbotsgoaway · 07/11/2020 10:51

Awaits someone to come along and ask why OP has carpet fitters in during lockdown Grin

Just think - the original ones must have worn out by now.

unfortunateevents · 07/11/2020 10:53

Was this before lockdown? - useful hint, the first post of the thread will show you the date the thread was started. In this case, 2012.

IHopeYouStepOnALegoPiece · 07/11/2020 10:54

My gosh, first you read this when it’s hours old and next thing you know it’s 8 years old. They grow up so fast!

BearSoFair · 07/11/2020 11:00

This thread, again?!

VettiyaIruken · 07/11/2020 11:28

I love this thread. Long may she be reanimated.

SlopesOff · 07/11/2020 11:39

And it is back, for the umpteenth time...

Arthersleep · 07/11/2020 11:45

Hurrah!!! It's the carpet fitters thread!!

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