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Help!! Carpet fitter has just stormed out. AIBU?

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whenskiesaregrey · 17/04/2012 11:51

Sorry for rambling state of this post, I am a bit upset about the way I have just been spoken to. Also, sorry for the length of the post, I just want to include all the detail.

I ordered some carpet last week to be fitted today. It is a local small carpet shop, not part of a chain. They offer a 'free fitting service', but you pay 75% of the price in the shop, and the remainder once fitted. I presume this is because they sub-contract out the fitting. In my case this was £150 in the shop, and £50 once fitted. I have bought carpet and fitting from this shop before, and the fitting service wasn't great, but they said they were using a different company that day, so I gave them the benefit of the doubt and ordered from them again. In the shop, I mentioned the problems I had had last time (punctuality, not taking old carpet away) and asked for reassurance that the service would be better this time. I was assured it would be.

Carpet was due to be delivered at 9am. At half past 9, no-one had turned up, so I rang the shop asking where they were. I was told they had has a couple of problems this morning and only had one fitter on instead of two, and they might be able to fit me in a 2pm today. I can't do that time as DS has a party 2-4pm, and I work Wed-Fri, so this morning really was the only time this week that was suitable. I explained to the man on the phone that I has problems last time, and was told it would be better this time. So he said he would move some things around, and fit me in about 10am this morning.

At 10, two men arrived to fit the carpet. In the bedroom, the furniture we had left in there was a double bed, a wardrobe, and chester of drawers and two little side units. We had been told in the shop not to worry about moving any furniture out of the room, that they would move it around the room to fit it. DH had taken the mirrored doors off the wardrobe to make it lighter to move, and we had moved all of the other usual bedroom stuff out of the room. The chest of drawers were half empty, just had underwear in them. The bed still had the bedding on it because I didn't think it would make any difference. The little side units did have things in them, but they really are very small, so I thought they be okay. I am 27+ weeks pregnant with PGP, so it is a bit difficult to move things around.

He went to the bedroom and looked around and sighed. The said, you're going to need to get those clothes out of that wardrobe. There wasn't very much in there because we are getting new wardrobes, so it was just a few things to keep us going until the new stuff arrived. I said I would move it, but it shouldn't make much different to the weight. He said if he tried to move the wardrobe, it would collapse, which I said wasn't true as we have just decorated, and have been moving the wardrobe around so we could get to the walls. But I still carried on moving the clothes. He then started opening the drawers in the chest of drawers, which have my underwear etc in. I said the drawers are almost empty, so the underwear shoudn't make any difference to the weight. He then picked up the small unit and dragged it around the room in a way that the drawers all fell forward and the unit nearly tipped up. I said to him that I would move it if he was going to move it like that, and moved the other unit out of the room. He then said 'look love, I'm doing you a favour here, I could leave you to move it by yourself if you want'. By the point, the other lad had turned the double bed up on to its side and was leaning against the window. I said to the first lad that I understood that he has obviously had a busy morning and he didn't have much patience, but I had been waiting for the delivery too. He said 'no patience?! I shouldn't even be here. I'm not staying here and taking this. Do you want me to go'. I said to him if he wanted to go, he should go, but it's his job to fit the carpet. He shouted to the other lad, 'right, we're off', stormed down the stairs and got in the van. The other lad looked a bit sheepish, and I said 'so is he just going to go, leaving the bed on its side and all the furniture like that'. I am quite obviously pregnant, and DS was playing downstairs and shouting to me, so it was obvious that I would not be able to move the furniture back. He said he would have a word with him, but once he had got in the van, they drove off. So the bedroom is left with the very heavy oak double bed on its side, a unit in the middle of the floor, and they left the door open as they stormed out.

I rang the shop and explained that I thought the fitter was very rude, and what was going to happen now. He said that they had done me a favour by moving the other appointments round to fit me in at 10am, and they were wasting time on the phone at the moment, and other appointments needed to be done. He then said it is in my best interest to be flexible with the delivery time, because I wont get my £150 deposit back, because they have ordered the carpet. I then tried to reiterate how rude the fitter had been to me. Apparently the fitter had told the lad in the shop that I refused to move anything out of the room, and that is why he left. Now, if the shop had explained to us to make sure wardrobes were empty, drawers were empty etc, then we would have done it. We told them when we ordered it it was for a bedroom, so you would know the type of furniture would be in there. But we were told that we did not need to get any furniture out of the room, the fitters would work around it.

Was I being unreasonable to the fitter? Is it true I can't get my money back on the carpet? I don't want that fitter back in the house, he really was so horrible to me. I understand he has obviously had a busy day, and I said that to him, but at the end of the day, that isn't my fault and he shouldn't take it out on me. I also don't like the suggestion from the shop that they are doing me a favour by re-arranging the delivery for me, when I have paid for a carpet and fitting, and that is what I expected.

I am pretty upset at the moment, which is probably all pregnancy hormones. I got a bit upset on the phone to the shop, so he said he would ring me back 'when I had calmed down'. So I am waiting for them to call back now. Where do I stand?

Thank you if you read this far!!

OP posts:
TotalConfucius · 12/11/2016 21:11

I was reading a thread in The Doghouse yesterday, then realised it was a zombie, but thought 'well that's very good advice that person gave back in 2011'
Then I realised I was that person several usernames ago!

starrynight19 · 12/11/2016 21:16

Ha total I namechanged but have been away for a couple of years.
It's so funny searching your old username just found a post that I did of ds in year 1 he is year 10 now Shock
It's always good that you still agree with your advice lol

dailymailarecunts · 12/11/2016 21:42

Aww this has made me feel all warm and fuzzy.... see you all next year?!

EveOnline2016 · 12/11/2016 21:46

I actually remember this post.

PleaseNotTrump · 12/11/2016 22:38

BLOODY HELL I read all that and it's a zombie??

Palace2 · 12/11/2016 23:08

Wow you really wanted your 200 pounds worth didn't you? As previously stated they are carpet fitters not removal men! If they had damaged your newly decorated walls by doing you a favour you'd have been quick to complain!
My xh was a carpet fitter and they weren't supposed to move anything - that doesn't mean that they didn't, within reason - but wardrobes? Beds? If they'd hurt their backs would you have paid their time off sick - most are self employed - no work equals no money. Believe me there's no such thing as free fitting it's all calculated into the price and as you haven't paid much they definitely won't be earning much out of it, if he was trying to do his own work and the other carpet fitter who didn't turn up for work, did his best to fit you in, I can understand why he was disappointed the room wasn't empty. ( most bigger chains have it in the small print by the way that the room should be empty)

Briarthorn · 12/11/2016 23:15

This again Grin

So... we have bleach, poo, boxroom, foreskin and carpet-fitter trolls.

It's like one of those internet rules; if it exists there is porn of it.

Paulat2112 · 13/11/2016 07:17

palace can't you read?

heygotanygrapes · 13/11/2016 08:06

I love it when people rant at the end of a zombie thread, like four years after the event Grin

Sparklingbrook · 13/11/2016 08:14

I remember this thread from all the previous bumps. So Hmm once again.

I also love it when people rant over a 4 year old OP. Grin

timeforabrewnow · 13/11/2016 08:19

Did she get the carpet fitted in the end?

(can't be arsed reading thru 21 pages and yes ok it was 4 years ago)

Paulat2112 · 13/11/2016 08:31

Yes she did time :)

blueskyinmarch · 13/11/2016 08:35

I have bought all the carpets for my home from a local shop. The fitters have always worked around bedroom furniture moving it as they need to. They are polite and hardworking and get the job done. If OP was told they would work round her furniture then that's what they should have done. It is definitely not OPs fault there.

OP I would make sure you get your carpet and underlay delivered, pay whatever is remaining on it and get an independent fitter to lay the carpet.

blueskyinmarch · 13/11/2016 08:35

Oops. Just realised this is a zombie thread!

curr78 · 13/11/2016 08:37

My oh is a carpet fitter , (self employed ) he has a policy , that rooms gave to be emptied where reasonable he prefers an empty room to get the best possible fit, he works with local carpet stores , having said all that he has been to places to lay flooring and furniture is still in room , usually he will move it ,
If you want the best carpet fitted correctly the room needs to be empty ,
The fitters should of explained this to you , been polite and any issues they had they should of contacted the store to voice them not to you,
If it were me I would ring store arrange for carpet no fitting and find ur own fitters ,

Mooey89 · 13/11/2016 09:01

My old username is here :(.
See you all next year!

Sparklingbrook · 13/11/2016 09:04

I wonder if after 6 years the OP will be replacing the 2012 carpets? Grin

PrincessFiorimonde · 13/11/2016 10:07

GrinGrin

Marynary · 13/11/2016 11:05

I remember this thread from 4 years ago. I think I spend too much time on here....

Paulat2112 · 13/11/2016 11:21

curr don't worry, she got the carpet fitted back in 2012 😬

CockacidalManiac · 13/11/2016 11:26

Good way to spot posters that don't read beyond the first page of a thread

Rachel0Greep · 13/11/2016 12:04

See you all here again this time next year Grin.
I'm inexplicably fond of this thread. It should get an award 'the thread that won't die'.

PenguinsandPebbles · 13/11/2016 22:04

I really want the original op to come back and say what actually happened in the end...

I can't help every time I want to know more details...

AmserGwin · 14/11/2016 11:40

YANBU, I would tell them to shove it and demand my money back and go somewhere else Angry

AmserGwin · 14/11/2016 11:42

Ffs!!! Zombie thread!

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