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Help!! Carpet fitter has just stormed out. AIBU?

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whenskiesaregrey · 17/04/2012 11:51

Sorry for rambling state of this post, I am a bit upset about the way I have just been spoken to. Also, sorry for the length of the post, I just want to include all the detail.

I ordered some carpet last week to be fitted today. It is a local small carpet shop, not part of a chain. They offer a 'free fitting service', but you pay 75% of the price in the shop, and the remainder once fitted. I presume this is because they sub-contract out the fitting. In my case this was £150 in the shop, and £50 once fitted. I have bought carpet and fitting from this shop before, and the fitting service wasn't great, but they said they were using a different company that day, so I gave them the benefit of the doubt and ordered from them again. In the shop, I mentioned the problems I had had last time (punctuality, not taking old carpet away) and asked for reassurance that the service would be better this time. I was assured it would be.

Carpet was due to be delivered at 9am. At half past 9, no-one had turned up, so I rang the shop asking where they were. I was told they had has a couple of problems this morning and only had one fitter on instead of two, and they might be able to fit me in a 2pm today. I can't do that time as DS has a party 2-4pm, and I work Wed-Fri, so this morning really was the only time this week that was suitable. I explained to the man on the phone that I has problems last time, and was told it would be better this time. So he said he would move some things around, and fit me in about 10am this morning.

At 10, two men arrived to fit the carpet. In the bedroom, the furniture we had left in there was a double bed, a wardrobe, and chester of drawers and two little side units. We had been told in the shop not to worry about moving any furniture out of the room, that they would move it around the room to fit it. DH had taken the mirrored doors off the wardrobe to make it lighter to move, and we had moved all of the other usual bedroom stuff out of the room. The chest of drawers were half empty, just had underwear in them. The bed still had the bedding on it because I didn't think it would make any difference. The little side units did have things in them, but they really are very small, so I thought they be okay. I am 27+ weeks pregnant with PGP, so it is a bit difficult to move things around.

He went to the bedroom and looked around and sighed. The said, you're going to need to get those clothes out of that wardrobe. There wasn't very much in there because we are getting new wardrobes, so it was just a few things to keep us going until the new stuff arrived. I said I would move it, but it shouldn't make much different to the weight. He said if he tried to move the wardrobe, it would collapse, which I said wasn't true as we have just decorated, and have been moving the wardrobe around so we could get to the walls. But I still carried on moving the clothes. He then started opening the drawers in the chest of drawers, which have my underwear etc in. I said the drawers are almost empty, so the underwear shoudn't make any difference to the weight. He then picked up the small unit and dragged it around the room in a way that the drawers all fell forward and the unit nearly tipped up. I said to him that I would move it if he was going to move it like that, and moved the other unit out of the room. He then said 'look love, I'm doing you a favour here, I could leave you to move it by yourself if you want'. By the point, the other lad had turned the double bed up on to its side and was leaning against the window. I said to the first lad that I understood that he has obviously had a busy morning and he didn't have much patience, but I had been waiting for the delivery too. He said 'no patience?! I shouldn't even be here. I'm not staying here and taking this. Do you want me to go'. I said to him if he wanted to go, he should go, but it's his job to fit the carpet. He shouted to the other lad, 'right, we're off', stormed down the stairs and got in the van. The other lad looked a bit sheepish, and I said 'so is he just going to go, leaving the bed on its side and all the furniture like that'. I am quite obviously pregnant, and DS was playing downstairs and shouting to me, so it was obvious that I would not be able to move the furniture back. He said he would have a word with him, but once he had got in the van, they drove off. So the bedroom is left with the very heavy oak double bed on its side, a unit in the middle of the floor, and they left the door open as they stormed out.

I rang the shop and explained that I thought the fitter was very rude, and what was going to happen now. He said that they had done me a favour by moving the other appointments round to fit me in at 10am, and they were wasting time on the phone at the moment, and other appointments needed to be done. He then said it is in my best interest to be flexible with the delivery time, because I wont get my £150 deposit back, because they have ordered the carpet. I then tried to reiterate how rude the fitter had been to me. Apparently the fitter had told the lad in the shop that I refused to move anything out of the room, and that is why he left. Now, if the shop had explained to us to make sure wardrobes were empty, drawers were empty etc, then we would have done it. We told them when we ordered it it was for a bedroom, so you would know the type of furniture would be in there. But we were told that we did not need to get any furniture out of the room, the fitters would work around it.

Was I being unreasonable to the fitter? Is it true I can't get my money back on the carpet? I don't want that fitter back in the house, he really was so horrible to me. I understand he has obviously had a busy day, and I said that to him, but at the end of the day, that isn't my fault and he shouldn't take it out on me. I also don't like the suggestion from the shop that they are doing me a favour by re-arranging the delivery for me, when I have paid for a carpet and fitting, and that is what I expected.

I am pretty upset at the moment, which is probably all pregnancy hormones. I got a bit upset on the phone to the shop, so he said he would ring me back 'when I had calmed down'. So I am waiting for them to call back now. Where do I stand?

Thank you if you read this far!!

OP posts:
insancerre · 18/04/2012 12:20

DH isn't in a band, though you would think he was with the amount of guitars he has [sigh]
Or did you mean PIL? Public Image Limited with John Lydon (aka Johnny Rotten)
There are loads of cheap guest houses in Blackpool. The venue is all inside the winter gardens. It's not a camping festival. We go home every night as we only live down the road but the guest houses are well used to punky type people staying. It brightens up Blackpool to see them all walkinhg around with their hair and clothes.
I bet the kids would love it- DD went when she was about 11. There are loads of kids there- but I expect they would want to be in the pleasure beach rather than watching bands
What was the name of your DH's band?

GnocchiGnocchiWhosThere · 18/04/2012 12:24

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TheRhubarb · 18/04/2012 12:32

Oh see I thought you meant PIL as in parents-in-law or pops-in-law. Blush

If I tell you the name of his band that would make this result very googleable and my cover would be well and truly blown I'm afraid, so I'll PM it to you.

We'd probably not take the kids as it does mean paying more for the tickets, having to watch what we drink and pay for a family room. But I'd be more than up for going with dh and staying in a B&B and the kids would have a far better time with granny, trust me.

I shall mark the date down. We shall have to meet up! I'll include my email in the PM. Oooh, this could be a huge Mumsnet Meet-up! Not.

A Penis of Knobs?

insancerre · 18/04/2012 12:35

Grin at the huge mumsnet meetup at the punk festival. In fact I'm still [grin Grin

Giyadas · 18/04/2012 12:38

A shaft of knobs?

TheRhubarb · 18/04/2012 12:41
GnocchiGnocchiWhosThere · 18/04/2012 12:42

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pinkappleby · 18/04/2012 12:42

You expected them to strip your bed for you?? Really???

You can't move a bed with all the bedding on.

boringnickname · 18/04/2012 12:48

Maybe she thought they woud shift it to one side of the room, carpet that side, then shift it back? Thats what i would expect to happen anyway.

TheRhubarb · 18/04/2012 12:50

Pinky, would you like to add to the shaft to knobs that we're currently discussing? Just to keep it on the right track Wink

NoOnesGoingToEatYourEyes · 18/04/2012 12:54

You can if it's one of those light ones (divan beds?) on wheels, they are really easy to push. But you'd still have to lift it over the roll of carpet at some point so that would complicate it a bit.

A dangle of knobs.

QuintessentialShadows · 18/04/2012 13:07

Personally, I prefer to suck coffee out of a penguin.

The biscuit of course. You use it as a straw. You need a spoon ready to catch the bottom half of it, as it will disintegrate to a chocolaty goo that will fall down and hopefully be caught on the spoon, and you don't want that in your coffee.

I currently (in my current abode) have 6 £1 each black mugs from M&S. I also have two mugs saying "Wren kitchens and bedrooms" that I got free on a tradeshow. I also have two mugs that was left in the shed (with coffee). I found them 4 years later, this September, when returning to London.

So that is my "muggy" fortune. Yup. Not that rich, me.

TheRhubarb · 18/04/2012 13:09

I like sucking tea out of a baldi

Giyadas · 18/04/2012 13:14

ooh, I like the sound dangle as an insult on it's own.
"you're a total and utter...dangle"

My mug collection is meagre and unworthy of discussion.

TheRhubarb · 18/04/2012 13:16

Oooh got it - a disappointment of knobs.

Giyadas · 18/04/2012 13:22

Yep, that's the one.
Grin of weary recognition.

RevoltingPeasant · 18/04/2012 15:44

I just reopened this thread, after lurking last night, to I prefer to suck coffee out of a penguin.

Just had a surreal 'bestiality or biscuits??' moment there.......

whenskiesaregrey · 18/04/2012 16:03
Grin
OP posts:
MissFaversham · 18/04/2012 16:05

Please come back and update OP...

insancerre · 18/04/2012 16:05

don't go, Op
have you got a new carpet yet?

whenskiesaregrey · 18/04/2012 16:08

No carpet, but hopefully should have tomorrow.

The second fitter (who wasn't there yesterday) is still not there today, so is hopefully coming at 9am tomorrow. DH went down to the shop at 8.30am this morning and asked if there was any way to resolve the problem.

I will get DH to offer the £50 for the 'fitting' tomorrow and see if they have the audacity to accept it. If they do, fair enough. If they don't, bonus. I won't be going back anyway!

OP posts:
mathanxiety · 18/04/2012 16:16

Do not pay one penny more than you have already agreed.

Shock and [horror] at that thought.

That would only encourage extortion.

whenskiesaregrey · 18/04/2012 16:19

But technically the whole service was £200, and we have only paid £150 up to now, and £50 payable to the fitters.

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insancerre · 18/04/2012 16:26

But the fitter who is coming tomorrow is a different one to the fitter who was a knob. He will still need paying, it's not his fault the other fitter was such a knob. So I do think he needs paying.

TheRhubarb · 18/04/2012 16:31

He'll get paid by the shop insancerre as they are his employers. They will have to pay him even if the customer doesn't.

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