Well I kept telling myself it would be hell, how on earth would I cope with three under two etc etc (they were born approx 6 weeks before DS1 turned 2), but were due three weeks before his bday. I had quite a hard time for the first few months with DS1, he never slept, he breastfed round the clock, I had bleeding cracked nipples etc etc, these two are a BREEZE in comparison.
However, I do have a doula. She was coming in 4 or 5 days a week for about 4 hours a day. She is now doing 3 days a week and I will have her for another 5 or 6 weeks. She has saved me as otherwise I would never get to leave the house with just me and DS1.
I did try to breastfeed and did really want to with these two but it wasn't happening and I gave up after only three days. It was not worth the heartache and to be honest I am sure that for me it has helped keep me sane as it means my doula does one feed for each baby per day and so does DH. However if you are a natural at bf then I imagine it is easier if you can, no bottles, formula, sterilising etc. If you do end up doing bottles, I thoroughly recommend TWO sterilisers and TWO kettles.
If my doorway was wide enough I would have got the Adventure Buggy, but we have a very narrow door so I went for the tandem. I do love it though and am glad I did.
I am quite glad I had one of each as it means I can dress them the same without them actually quite matching, ie a blue version and pink version of same outfit. At the mo they are just in sleepsuits and to be honest poor DD is often dressed in blue as I have more boys' stuff than girls. Will you find out what sex yours are?
Whereabouts do you live?
Almost jealous of twin pregnancy. Not quite though!!!
If you haven't already, definitely come over to the regular multiples thread, I will do a link in a mo. There are a couple of others pg with twins (pazzaplustwo and neenzandhertwinbeans), might be more I can't remember. There is a LOT of advice over there, the girls are great and also very funny, they keep you smiling!