Thanks Tarti hope to hear more from you later.
Thanks to you too ALL is lovely being so reassured by you all :) We haven't asked her about changing rooms yet - I'm not sure why..! But you're right, maybe I could suggest it when we've had a 'rough' patch! I am loving the sounds of those positives - Isla will love them!
Been feeling a bit more positive tonight and passed the angry annoyed stage, then went on another normal forum I am on and just let them know whats going on. Got loads of lovely comments and then 1 fucking annoying person saying that we should 'count our blessings' as she works with the poor people who have 'untreatable scoliosis'. And also said that Isla will lead a normal life, apart from having a brace - I am not trying to make it all out to be worse than it is, because I would do anything for her to have nothing wrong, but she isn't going to be able to lead a completely normal life because she won't even be able to get dressed on her own, put her own shoes on, wipe her own bum, pick things up off the floor. Yes she is 'normal' in the fact that she has nothing mentally wrong with her, but its still going to be a bit of a nightmare sometimes. I know it sounds like I am wanting it to be worse than it is, but I'm genuinely not - maybe its because I'm still in the panic mode of how we are going to do silly simple things, I don't know. And I can't explain it, but the way she wrote it makes it sound as though she's being all nice because she says she can give me 'tips' and bullshit like that, so no one else can see it as a bitchy comment, IYSWIM?
God, now I just sound like a paranoid, over-sensitive psycho!
Anyway, ALL gloss kitchens are really lovely though - we had one of those men come in and plan it all out too, was pretty cool! Now, I know this is going to make me sound really stupid, but could you not just request a cupboard the same size as your Miele, and just stick it in? = integrated tumbler..
I have to say, I wish we'd never gone for an integrated fridge - we had a bloody nightmare with ours.. the fridge door was basically too heavy for the cupboard door and so would pull the fridge open all the time and then it just wouldn't close properly.. it took them so many times to actually fix it, and even now you can't just slam the door shut, you have to 'push' it shut..
I know that you know this all already, but don't take any bronchiolitis queries lightly ALL - i know you've probably heard the story a million times but DD was in PICU for over 3 weeks on a ventilator after she just contracted really bad bronchiolitis - it obviously then turned into numerous other things, but thats how it started; and they constantly fobbed us off with stuff. Am not saying it to make you freak out, just aware - sorry!