sorry answered wrong thread,i have ggb,i was widowed and re-married,it seemed right to try for a baby even though my age was against me,i have 3 other children,15,23,25,ggb,
at present lots going on in my life,i focus on the babies and look for the positive,like u i have experienced family members dying,at my age it happens,but never my children,i cant imagine how it must be to lose a child,i know i would never get over it but have to adjust to it, at present my dad (who has gone through cancer of the colon 4 times,pancreas cancer,and i cant remember the other place he had it plus triple hernia ,)is going to have an op that the drs are not sure about and by the letter sent to him they would rather he left it unless there are signs of desease as they put it,and if he can live day to day without this op,the consultant wants to talk with him personally to discusss this,but my dad is now adamant his quality of life will deteriorate if he dosnt have this op so is going to ask for it,he feels hes had a good innings (84)so wants to take the chance,and just last week my friend been diagnosed with throat cancer,but is coming up to see the babies next week if possible,waiting for a friend to drive up,i put these things out of my head when i can and enjoy my lovely babies,im sure you get great pleasure from your children were so blessed to have them,i hope u contact me,lifes so busy,were thinking of moving to the country for the babies sake,and will take my dad if hes up to it,i personally would prefer him to not have this op but its not my decision the odds dont sound too good,my mum passed away 12 years ago,id like to keep my dad a little longer!!anyway babies gone down for a nap but i can hear movement,cant 3 babies make a lot of noise it sometimes sounds like 10 up there bouncing on the cot matresses and shaking their toys,going to have a cup of tea and see if i get a lie down too?
byeeee