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Savings in my name stopping Universal Credit despite low income

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slowingdown1 · 29/07/2026 23:22

can anyone more financially savvy than me help?
Recently divorced, ex DH pays minimum child maintenance. Have a low
income due to home working in low demand role so I can care
for 2 x disabled children. Yearly
salary is £31k before tax, I save £100 monthly into pension. I claim Scottish disability payments for both kids which go on private treatment / therapies. Each month I scrap by and have a constant low credit card debt despite my best efforts. I have savings that were gifted to me by my mum as long-term financial security of £80k. Although the money is legally in my name, I have made a firm promise to her that I will not use it, so morally I do not feel able to touch it until she is no longer with us.
My current income is low, but because these savings are in my name, they are preventing me from applying for Universal Credit as above
the threshold.
I understand I can’t eg transfer the savings into trusts for my kids as this would constitute deprivation of capital. I can’t ask my mum to eg take it back for the same reason.

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Ileithyia · 30/07/2026 17:49

Ayarreet · 30/07/2026 12:49

House that a spouse lives in is disregarded. It's only if the house was sold - say to downsize - then half of any equity would revert to the person requiring care.

As I said, my mum did all this properly and carefully with a solicitor, accountant and financial advisor. The paperwork was meticulously drawn up to ensure the cost of care for either/both of them didn’t wipe out the savings and house equity. This was all done with professionals who know exactly what they are doing.

slowingdown1 · 30/07/2026 17:49

Skippyasyermuni · 30/07/2026 17:46

You can even do the wet room if you want, if your disabled child needs it. They’re probably getting too big for you to lift in and out of a tub safely, or get in to wash them safely in a small shower cubicle or bath. You can use your savings for a wet room - just get something in writing from your child’s healthcare provider saying it is necessary.

Thank you so much, I’ll do this. I have a hoist but it’s more trouble than help as constantly malfunctions.

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Abouteffingtime · 30/07/2026 17:49

Its not complex, and believe it or not, nor is it unusual.

This is the problem with asking online, a good proportion of your responses are guesses at best. If you ask someone who actually know, they would tell you, you can live on this money. CAB are notoriously useless ime, they know a little about a lot.

Backawayfromthesausage · 30/07/2026 17:49

Op, I can’t beleive you think this is complex and no the thread isn’t telling uou that, I get you might find it complex but this is as basic as it gets. You could have phoned universal credit helpline and asked them for gods sake.

i understand you don’t want to spend the money and I think that’s at the root of this, but not doing so means you won’t get universal credit there is no trick to allow you to access tax payers money so you don’t need to spend your own

bur paying off your debt and paying off your mortgage will reduce your outgoings. And allow you to ultimately claim.

or you can keep it squirelled away but you won’t be getting uc. Your choice

slowingdown1 · 30/07/2026 17:51

Skippyasyermuni · 30/07/2026 17:42

None of that is relevant. She is in the same situation as hundreds of people every day.

Low income plus savings over £16k = no UC, because you need to use your savings to live on. That’s it. That’s all there is to it. It is no more complicated than that.

I’d imagine OP filled that CAB conversation with comments of wanting to keep the money, it was a gift from her mum to the kids, her kids have future needs etc etc. None of that changes anything, but would have caused her phone call to go on and on and on, and round and round and round. So by the end of it, she probably really didn’t understand what was being said.

It really is very simple - she has savings, needs to live on those savings. Within her normal living expenses. She is even allowed to pay to install a wet room if she wants, because it is necessary work for her disabled child. Her doctor can back that up.

This isn’t a complicated case. At all.

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please stop imagining what I said in my appointment! At best it’s weird, at worst it’s goading.

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slowingdown1 · 30/07/2026 17:54

Backawayfromthesausage · 30/07/2026 17:49

Op, I can’t beleive you think this is complex and no the thread isn’t telling uou that, I get you might find it complex but this is as basic as it gets. You could have phoned universal credit helpline and asked them for gods sake.

i understand you don’t want to spend the money and I think that’s at the root of this, but not doing so means you won’t get universal credit there is no trick to allow you to access tax payers money so you don’t need to spend your own

bur paying off your debt and paying off your mortgage will reduce your outgoings. And allow you to ultimately claim.

or you can keep it squirelled away but you won’t be getting uc. Your choice

That’s not how I feel nor what I’ve said. I wanted to check how to safely navigate the lump sum so I can claim UC which I will need to do forever as my situation won’t change (unless incredibly I meet a new partner from my kitchen table desk who wants to fall in love with me, share all the bills, rarely see me as I’ll be caring for the kids and always accept they will come second to my kids). That can’t be my plan A!

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Diamond7272 · 30/07/2026 17:57

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Skippyasyermuni · 30/07/2026 17:57

slowingdown1 · 30/07/2026 17:51

please stop imagining what I said in my appointment! At best it’s weird, at worst it’s goading.

It’s the only thing that make sense for you to have come away from that conversation thinking you weren’t allowed to touch that money for any reason and had to just live on a pittance and get into debt for evermore.

No one would have told you that. I could understand if they had only said no to the wet room, as not all advisors are all that great. But I cannot understand any advisor telling you that you cannot touch that money for anything and cannot use it for living expenses. The only thing that makes sense is that the conversation for too far off track.

Backawayfromthesausage · 30/07/2026 17:59

slowingdown1 · 30/07/2026 17:54

That’s not how I feel nor what I’ve said. I wanted to check how to safely navigate the lump sum so I can claim UC which I will need to do forever as my situation won’t change (unless incredibly I meet a new partner from my kitchen table desk who wants to fall in love with me, share all the bills, rarely see me as I’ll be caring for the kids and always accept they will come second to my kids). That can’t be my plan A!

Op what’s the issue here. If you won’t spend it, you can’t claim uc. It’s that simple.

if you wish to spend it, you can do so pm normal living expenses, paying down debt or paying your mortgage.

you clealrh don’t wish to spend it and I think that’s the issue, you want to game the system, keep it and claim.

slowingdown1 · 30/07/2026 17:59

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I think it’s you who has no shame. You know I’m really struggling right now? Charity worker, 2 profoundly disabled children, mother with dementia, on my own?
oh yes, and I pay my taxes too.

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Nattin · 30/07/2026 18:00

slowingdown1 · 30/07/2026 17:48

In no way am I playing a system. Merely asking a question about an emotive and difficult and potentially legal issue. The spending clearly has to be done carefully so i don’t run into difficulty when I need to claim UC, thanks to the help from people on here.
in case you missed it- what you call “my” maintenance is a pittance of child payments that don’t even cover the monthly petrol driving to and from their appointments. The DLA all goes towards their therapies.

I think the reason people are getting frustrated is after all these pages you still think it’s complex and unusual. As others have said it really really really isn’t. You just just need to spend your savings on your normal life until it runs out. It honestly is that simple. It really doesn’t have to be done ever so carefully with receipts for every food shop or electric bill. As long as you need whatever it is to live (or provide an essential thing for your children medically) it is fine.

You seem so so worried about deprivation of assets for yourself but don’t seem worried that it’s actually your mother who could get in trouble for it as she’s actually pretty much done just that!

slowingdown1 · 30/07/2026 18:00

Backawayfromthesausage · 30/07/2026 17:59

Op what’s the issue here. If you won’t spend it, you can’t claim uc. It’s that simple.

if you wish to spend it, you can do so pm normal living expenses, paying down debt or paying your mortgage.

you clealrh don’t wish to spend it and I think that’s the issue, you want to game the system, keep it and claim.

i was told spending it then claiming UC would look like distribution of assets. I am fine to spend it. I didn’t want to spend it then find I’m ineligible for benefits. It’s that simple.

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Diamond7272 · 30/07/2026 18:01

slowingdown1 · 30/07/2026 17:54

That’s not how I feel nor what I’ve said. I wanted to check how to safely navigate the lump sum so I can claim UC which I will need to do forever as my situation won’t change (unless incredibly I meet a new partner from my kitchen table desk who wants to fall in love with me, share all the bills, rarely see me as I’ll be caring for the kids and always accept they will come second to my kids). That can’t be my plan A!

Just work more hours and use the money you have access to for your food, clothes, heating, raising (your) family...

Why would you think people with v v low incomes, say 15k, half what you earn, who still have to pay income tax, should support you financially??? Why???

How does a person's brain work like that???

Where has this entitlement come from? :)

slowingdown1 · 30/07/2026 18:02

Nattin · 30/07/2026 18:00

I think the reason people are getting frustrated is after all these pages you still think it’s complex and unusual. As others have said it really really really isn’t. You just just need to spend your savings on your normal life until it runs out. It honestly is that simple. It really doesn’t have to be done ever so carefully with receipts for every food shop or electric bill. As long as you need whatever it is to live (or provide an essential thing for your children medically) it is fine.

You seem so so worried about deprivation of assets for yourself but don’t seem worried that it’s actually your mother who could get in trouble for it as she’s actually pretty much done just that!

No, I’m worried that it could be considered distribution of
assets, be told I can’t claim UC, and carry on living in debt and financial stress forever.
the conflicting views from people about what is and isn’t allowed supports my belief it is not simple.

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redsunsets · 30/07/2026 18:02

Your entitlement is beyond words. You have £80,000 you won't spend and expect the taxpayer to fund you, many of whom barely have savings anywhere near that and just get by every month probably on less than you earn plus your benefits. The magic money tree has wilted big time already.

Diamond7272 · 30/07/2026 18:04

slowingdown1 · 30/07/2026 17:59

I think it’s you who has no shame. You know I’m really struggling right now? Charity worker, 2 profoundly disabled children, mother with dementia, on my own?
oh yes, and I pay my taxes too.

You have 80 grand.

£80,000

But you are enquiring about getting benefits???

Good god.

Your circumstances beyond the words "80 grand" and "benefits" are irrelevant to the thread. As a PP has said, tough, you just have to spend the money to live on, then claim benefits so that you can feed yourself...

slowingdown1 · 30/07/2026 18:04

Diamond7272 · 30/07/2026 18:01

Just work more hours and use the money you have access to for your food, clothes, heating, raising (your) family...

Why would you think people with v v low incomes, say 15k, half what you earn, who still have to pay income tax, should support you financially??? Why???

How does a person's brain work like that???

Where has this entitlement come from? :)

I work 39 hours a week and care for 3 vulnerable people.
if someone is on £15k on their own i understand they can claim UC.
I pay income tax too.
Entitled? No. Broken? Yes.

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Seeingadistance · 30/07/2026 18:05

slowingdown1 · 30/07/2026 17:44

I didn’t pretend it was my children’s; I explained I think clearly that morally it is as it was set aside for their care needs by my mum to be used when she’s not here anymore.
really glad to hear from your experience working in this that spending it now won’t impact my ability to claim UC without being accused of asset distribution. Thank you.

OP - the issue of deprivation of assets isn't related to you spending on your daily living costs. The issue of deprivation of assets relates to your mother giving you £80k when she was diagnosed with Alzheimers. As pp has already pointed out - your situation is common and not complicated. You have savings which mean you don't qualify for universal credit.

The more pressing issue is the one that you are consistently choosing not to engage with - and that is your mother's choice to give you the money in the first place, when she did that and why she did that.

Instead of focussing on the morality of spending money your mother told you not to spend until after she'd died - you might think more deeply about the morality of accepting a large sum of money from a woman who'd been diagnosed with Alzheimer's! You know your mother was confused at that point - why didn't you just give the money straight back to her? Why go along with her idea of keeping the money in your bank account until after her death? Why do you think she did that instead of simply willing it to your children?

Your brother is POA - at what point did he take on that role? Was he POA when your mother made the unexpected transfer of money to you?

Again, you and your brother need to seek, and pay for, professional advice.

slowingdown1 · 30/07/2026 18:05

Diamond7272 · 30/07/2026 18:04

You have 80 grand.

£80,000

But you are enquiring about getting benefits???

Good god.

Your circumstances beyond the words "80 grand" and "benefits" are irrelevant to the thread. As a PP has said, tough, you just have to spend the money to live on, then claim benefits so that you can feed yourself...

My circumstances are entirely relevant as they are the basis for my UC claim.

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Diamond7272 · 30/07/2026 18:07

slowingdown1 · 30/07/2026 18:02

No, I’m worried that it could be considered distribution of
assets, be told I can’t claim UC, and carry on living in debt and financial stress forever.
the conflicting views from people about what is and isn’t allowed supports my belief it is not simple.

If you are living on this 80 grand, who is going to tell you anything...

You won't need to enquire about benefits for years. You are free of the system. You can support yourself now... (SHOCKER)

So do it. Pay for yourself. Have some pride and let benefit money go to those who really need it... Because they don't have fifty quid, let along 80 grand.

God..

Seeingadistance · 30/07/2026 18:07

slowingdown1 · 30/07/2026 18:05

My circumstances are entirely relevant as they are the basis for my UC claim.

You have no claim. You have £80k in the bank!

slowingdown1 · 30/07/2026 18:08

Seeingadistance · 30/07/2026 18:05

OP - the issue of deprivation of assets isn't related to you spending on your daily living costs. The issue of deprivation of assets relates to your mother giving you £80k when she was diagnosed with Alzheimers. As pp has already pointed out - your situation is common and not complicated. You have savings which mean you don't qualify for universal credit.

The more pressing issue is the one that you are consistently choosing not to engage with - and that is your mother's choice to give you the money in the first place, when she did that and why she did that.

Instead of focussing on the morality of spending money your mother told you not to spend until after she'd died - you might think more deeply about the morality of accepting a large sum of money from a woman who'd been diagnosed with Alzheimer's! You know your mother was confused at that point - why didn't you just give the money straight back to her? Why go along with her idea of keeping the money in your bank account until after her death? Why do you think she did that instead of simply willing it to your children?

Your brother is POA - at what point did he take on that role? Was he POA when your mother made the unexpected transfer of money to you?

Again, you and your brother need to seek, and pay for, professional advice.

I don’t think it is - CAB Advised me that dipping into it and spending it to drop it down to under £16k would flag as risk for DOA.

my brother was made POA around 3 months post diagnosis.

I have explained so many times why she gave me the money. And that she didn’t ask me first. You can’t not accept a bank transfer.

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slowingdown1 · 30/07/2026 18:08

Seeingadistance · 30/07/2026 18:07

You have no claim. You have £80k in the bank!

When I no longer have that 80k 😵‍💫

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Buggeroffboss · 30/07/2026 18:09

slowingdown1 · 30/07/2026 18:02

No, I’m worried that it could be considered distribution of
assets, be told I can’t claim UC, and carry on living in debt and financial stress forever.
the conflicting views from people about what is and isn’t allowed supports my belief it is not simple.

Honestly, it isn't.

So for example, DH was made redundant. He got a £60k payout. I work and earn well but we'd still be entitled to UC IF we didn't have £70k in the bank. Instead UC expected us to use that £70k to fund us until either DH got a new job, or the money ran out (went below £16k). We could use it to do all the normal stuff - kids hobbies, petrol in the car, house insurance, even a cheap holiday. We couldn't transfer it to the kids, give it to charity or pay a lump sum off the mortgage.

In your case, you use £1700 per month out of the £80k. That makes up the short fall/ amount UC would give you.

So £80,000/£1700= 47months. Plus a few home repairs and the £16k you can have in savings, you'll be able to claim UC in 3 years.

slowingdown1 · 30/07/2026 18:10

Diamond7272 · 30/07/2026 18:07

If you are living on this 80 grand, who is going to tell you anything...

You won't need to enquire about benefits for years. You are free of the system. You can support yourself now... (SHOCKER)

So do it. Pay for yourself. Have some pride and let benefit money go to those who really need it... Because they don't have fifty quid, let along 80 grand.

God..

I don’t understand “who is going To tell you anything”.

I am very proud of how I am coping with this life.

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