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Have lost ALL of my Universal Credit Award now partner moved in

231 replies

Fedupofthestruggle · 11/03/2025 07:56

I have lived on my own with my disabled son for 18 months and had universal credit awarded including disabled element and carer element. I am his sole carer.

My partner has now moved in and we told universal credit. They of course needed to know his salary and any assets. He owns a flat (tiny, so we couldn't move in as there's no space for a family and disabled child). Universal credit have said since it's worth over 16k we no longer are able to receive any money.

However my question is shouldn't I still receive carers and disabled element since I can't work to look after my son? I will go back to universal credit to confirm if this is correct but wanted advice from anyone in similar position. Thanks very much.

OP posts:
MightAsWellBeGretel · 11/03/2025 15:17

Praying4Peace · 11/03/2025 14:55

Or pretend to live apart! Witness to this several times

I remember someone at senior school whose parents pretend to split up to get benefits! Her dad changed his legal address to his parents'. There is always a percentage that defraud the system, whatever that system happens to be!

FartingAgainstThunder · 11/03/2025 15:21

My understanding is that if you own property but do not profit from it, then it doesn't count as capital from a UC point of view.
If it was rented out for the exact amount of the mortgage payment then you may still get UC on your joint claim (depending on DP's salary and any other savings)

ForWorthyTiger · 11/03/2025 15:27

kittensinthekitchen · 11/03/2025 14:57

So fraud?

Not sure that's the kind of advice anyone should be listening to.

How would this be fraud? Lots of couples co-habit without being financially responsible for one another. Sounds more the the poor OP is being punished for wanting a romantic relationship, given that she can’t earn enough money while looking after her disabled son.

NotVeryFunny · 11/03/2025 15:31

FartingAgainstThunder · 11/03/2025 15:21

My understanding is that if you own property but do not profit from it, then it doesn't count as capital from a UC point of view.
If it was rented out for the exact amount of the mortgage payment then you may still get UC on your joint claim (depending on DP's salary and any other savings)

That not correct. Second properties generally count as capital unless they meet an exemption.

FartingAgainstThunder · 11/03/2025 15:35

@NotVeryFunny
Do you know what would the exemptions be?
Perhaps the OP might meet the criteria?

MichaelandKirk · 11/03/2025 15:37

If are getting someone to share your costs surely you cannot still be entitled to UC?

Bromptotoo · 11/03/2025 15:42

FartingAgainstThunder · 11/03/2025 15:21

My understanding is that if you own property but do not profit from it, then it doesn't count as capital from a UC point of view.
If it was rented out for the exact amount of the mortgage payment then you may still get UC on your joint claim (depending on DP's salary and any other savings)

That's not the case.

If you own a home other than the one you live it it counts as Capital at its market value less any o/s mortgage and an allowance for the costs of sale.

Bromptotoo · 11/03/2025 15:43

MichaelandKirk · 11/03/2025 15:37

If are getting someone to share your costs surely you cannot still be entitled to UC?

Of course you can.

UC starts by working out what the law says you need to live on.

If your income, including earnings after Work Allowance and taper, is less than that you can get UC.

Kitchencakereduced · 11/03/2025 15:44

How much does your partner earn ?
He may earn too much, so your UC would be zero.

If he lives with you ( you are seen by DWP as a couple)
How will he pay for you to live together & pay for the mortgage on his flat ?

He can rent out his flat

He can sell his flat

AnotherEmma · 11/03/2025 15:47

FartingAgainstThunder · 11/03/2025 15:21

My understanding is that if you own property but do not profit from it, then it doesn't count as capital from a UC point of view.
If it was rented out for the exact amount of the mortgage payment then you may still get UC on your joint claim (depending on DP's salary and any other savings)

Completely wrong. Ignore this, OP (and anyone else reading).

AngelicKaty · 11/03/2025 15:55

MrsSkylerWhite · 11/03/2025 10:42

Don’t know much about the benefit system. I would expect them to cut your UC but not the elements relating to your disabled child. Are there separate benefits that you can apply for?

No, that's wrong. UC eligibility is based on household income so, obviously, when OP's DP moved in her household income increased by everything he brought with him (i.e. capital, savings and earned income). With co-habiting couples, a UC claim is always a joint claim. For means-tested benefits, the household can have capital and/or savings up to £6k without it affecting the UC claim. Between £6k and £16k, the payment is reduced by £4.35 for every £250 between £6k and £16k. There is no eligibility for means-tested benefits when capital and savings exceed £16k so, obviously, with OP's DP owning a property, this limit is exceeded. Even if he sells his flat, he will have its value in savings, so the household will still exceed the £16k limit. As a couple, their household savings will need to drop below £16k before they can make a new joint claim for UC.

FartingAgainstThunder · 11/03/2025 15:56

@AnotherEmma as another poster said there are exceptions to this.
My DH 'technically' owns a property but we are still entitled to some UC on our joint claim.
UC fully aware of this.

AnotherEmma · 11/03/2025 16:00

FartingAgainstThunder · 11/03/2025 15:56

@AnotherEmma as another poster said there are exceptions to this.
My DH 'technically' owns a property but we are still entitled to some UC on our joint claim.
UC fully aware of this.

I'm well aware there are exceptions but you have misunderstood the rules and have not explained them correctly. If you look at the entitledto link I shared in an earlier post you will find a list of the exceptions.

AngelicKaty · 11/03/2025 16:13

SMHC · 11/03/2025 14:41

Hi,

Sorry to hear this has happened to you. This is why me and my partner live separately because if we lived together I would lose the whole of my UC due to the fact he owns a home too and he only just makes a little more than I get from UC so it’s currently not worth us living together. I also have two children with learning disabilities and work part time myself, the only time I see us living together is when I can work full time myself and that I don’t feel at this minute working full time is the right time for my children at the minute. May I also add that my partner is a shift worker so this would result in sleeping issues and various other impacts on me and my kids.

Personally, I would live separately until he sold his flat, maybe have more days out together and quality time together all of you instead and maybe sit down and discuss with him how you are working finances out jointly.

The system is floored because this does not encourage people to live together.

Edited

Why do so many people on here believe that OP's DP selling his flat solves the problem? It won't. He will still have more than £16k in capital and/or savings, so they will still be ineligible to claim UC as it's a means-tested benefit.

Lassango · 11/03/2025 16:17

If you have a partner that owns a flat he can rent out and is in full time employment ready to pay your rent then why do you expect to still get UC?

It is rightly means tested and it sounds like the outcome is reasonable based on your new circumstances.

NeedToChangeName · 11/03/2025 16:20

Fedupofthestruggle · 11/03/2025 09:22

I have found a very good man, a man who has taken on me and my son. He would do anything for us. He supports me and cares for my son like he is his own. I am no longer struggling on my own and have love and laughter filling my life.
That's why he moved in, so we could be a family. I did not make this decision lightly, my son comes first and always will.

Partner said he will look for a better paid job and will try to sell his flat. He spent last night making up a spreadsheet of outgoings and how much he needs each month.

He absolutely hasn't failed us, we just simply didn't know his flat would stop 2 elements of universal credit - disabled and carer. That was my main reason for posting here.

Thank you for your helpful comments. I have taken them onboard.

All the best to you all x

Partner sounds awesome!

kittensinthekitchen · 11/03/2025 16:23

ForWorthyTiger · 11/03/2025 15:27

How would this be fraud? Lots of couples co-habit without being financially responsible for one another. Sounds more the the poor OP is being punished for wanting a romantic relationship, given that she can’t earn enough money while looking after her disabled son.

Living together but claiming not to, in order to claim benefits?
You don't see how that's fraudulent?

AngelicKaty · 11/03/2025 16:27

ForWorthyTiger · 11/03/2025 15:27

How would this be fraud? Lots of couples co-habit without being financially responsible for one another. Sounds more the the poor OP is being punished for wanting a romantic relationship, given that she can’t earn enough money while looking after her disabled son.

It's absolutely fraud! UC is based on household income. When OP was living alone her household income was low enough for her to be eligible for UC. As part of her claimant commitment, she is required to notify the DWP of any change of circumstance. Co-habiting couples have to make a joint claim whereby OP's DP's finances are considered as part of the household income. So, when her DP moved in, OP was required to declare this change of circumstance to the DWP and they had to make a joint UC claim - with her DP's income plus capital (his flat) and any savings, the household income is now too great for them to be eligible for UC. If OP failed to notify the DWP of this change, she could have been prosecuted for benefit fraud.

MoreDangerousThanAWomanScorned · 11/03/2025 16:37

AngelicKaty · 11/03/2025 16:13

Why do so many people on here believe that OP's DP selling his flat solves the problem? It won't. He will still have more than £16k in capital and/or savings, so they will still be ineligible to claim UC as it's a means-tested benefit.

Yes, but they will have the money from it to spend! He probably won't particularly love running down the capital until they are eligible for UC again but that is exactly what the system says they should do, i.e. use their own money to subsidise themselves rather than UC.

SMHC · 11/03/2025 16:50

I wasn’t suggesting that selling his flat would solve the problem as probably then would have money from the sale which then means they wouldn’t still be entitled to universal credit until that money runs out. I only hope that he does continue to support her especially financially.

Crikeyalmighty · 11/03/2025 16:54

@ForWorthyTiger lots of couples do indeed cohabit without being responsible for each financially but if claiming UC and cohabiting then their are limits, otherwise every SAH non earning parent with low savings would simply go ahead and claim ' they were not responsible for their husband/partner and vice versa. And an awful lot in this position who do cohabit and don't mingle finances aren't claiming off the public purse- in which case you can arrange your finances however you like- and yes there are those who are economical with the truth too - but it is fraud .

MrsRaspberry · 11/03/2025 17:03

Nonametonight · 11/03/2025 09:08

If he's taking steps to sell it then the capital can be disregarded for a few months.

It's possible his earnings might still be enough to mean you can't get any UC, but it could be worth using a benefit calculator to check what you'd get if UC ignored the value of the flat

Not completely sure but I think they may only disregard capital from a property sale if you're planning to use it to buy another property

Posy12 · 11/03/2025 17:06

Look at the Universal Credit Regs Schedule 10, property may be disregarded if reasonable steps are being taken to dispose of it and those steps started within the last six months. Don’t know what your partner’s income is, so you still might not qualify. The carer’s and disabled elements to UC are premiums, essentially increasing your appropriate amount, which is the amount the government says someone with your circumstances needs to live on.

I’d suggest speaking to CAB who can make sure you’re getting all the benefits you’re entitled to as a family. Good luck Op.

FartingAgainstThunder · 11/03/2025 17:06

@Fedupofthestruggle if the flat didn't exist,Would you then be entitled to UC as a joint claim?
I'm not sure what the salary limits are but it might be worth looking into.
As a previous poster said it won't solve the problem instantly but once the sale income from the flat has dwindled then you guys might then be entitled to UC (if DP salary is low enough to qualify)

If he may be earning significantly more in the near future it may be worth hanging on to the flat for rental income.

selffellatingouroborosofhate · 11/03/2025 17:10

MrsSkylerWhite · 11/03/2025 12:33

The system has rules it has to obey. Boyfriends don't and can also put you in hospital by beating you up. A woman dependent on a man whilst caring for a disabled child is incredibly vulnerable

Hell of a leap, there, @Fedupofthestruggle My father used to beat my mum and brother used to beat me and my mum. My husband doesn’t. There are good men. Sounds like OP has met one.

I'm not Fedup, you mistook me for someone else when quoting my post.

The point is that the OP is taking a risk by becoming dependent on this man that she doesn't take if they live apart. She's hoping that he is and will stay one of the good ones. Given that abusers often conceal their abusiveness until after the woman has agreed to move in, she can't assume that he will remain safe and supportive.