I really need some advice or help. Am I going crazy? I have been seperated from my partner of 17 years for about 5 months now. We live separately and have 3 children together under the age of 15. I am out of work at the moment and he works full time. He believes he shouldn't be helping financially as I get help from the government and that's money for the children- which part of this is true. But I am struggling financially and whenever I keep bringing this up he has to always say why do I go out with friends if I'm struggling- which is once a month. He has the kids stay over about 3 Saturdays a month. Although this is happening he wants us to work out our relationship, but I have lost alot of respect for him as he can't provide for his kids.
He keeps telling me once he's rent and bills are paid he is left with literally nothing but past messages I have looked back on he has told me he's saving £150 a week. I have asked him about this and he's said no he's not now. It's like he's telling different things all the time. I feel stuck and then I'm thinkim if I go down the CSA route will he really be left with literally nothing