That’s certainly what Salon’s been doing with her child’s “journey”. It’s really a disgusting breach of a child’s privacy. You’re right, it’s exactly what Castle will do.
I also think you’re right about throwing money at the problem and trying to get a private diagnosis and support but that may not be acceptable and money won’t make up for spending a year in a Spanish play pen staring at an ipad while Mummy sits in front of another screen telling her followers, among other lies, that family is really important to her.
The Castles must be storing up massive problems for themselves; I wouldn’t want to be Castle when those boys are teenagers and turn on them both, and her parents are ten years older so can’t step in and do the parenting (and need to use their earnings for their own care). I know my own parents energy levels changed a lot between sixty five and seventy five and they weren’t having to shore up their children’s finances or parenting.