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BOTWATCH 78 - the latest thread in a VERY long series about the deceptions practised by MLMs. Unbelievably people are still being hooked in by these schemes where 97% of those who join LOSE MONEY

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Spongebobette · 04/08/2023 17:33

BOTWATCH 78 - the latest in a long series of threads where we keep an eagle eye on the lies and deceptions practised by MLMs. Unbelievably people are still being hooked in by these schemes where 97% of those who join LOSE MONEY and the top bots are struggling to pretend they are taking it in

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CrossStitchX · 24/08/2023 10:12

Looking for knowledge from you experts on all things scam-tastic... A friend who is a hospital doctor and not a prolific Facebook poster has in the past two days put up "inspirational" type memes - reclaim your life, regain energy - that sort of word soup nonsense.

Seems to be from the "be well club". MLM, right? Haven't seen this one before but the signs are so clear. Never ceases to amaze me that people fall for this guff.

CrossStitchX · 24/08/2023 10:15

Answering my own question - it so is. Looked on their website and of course you have to join as a member:

"Contact your consultant, choose your products, and receive your first subscription. Don’t forget! You receive a free mystery gift for each month of your membership"

and at the foot of the homepage

"All Rights Reserved 2023. Consultant Created & Not Affiliated with Arbonne International."

meatbaseddessert · 24/08/2023 10:34

Spongebobette · 24/08/2023 07:53

Looking at her post about working hard on her business, it looks like she’s just following a step by step guide from her ‘course’ eg clarity sessions and she’s been given things like ‘clarity quick fire questions’ etc

Yup. It's all from the playbook. And it sounds like an MLM playbook.
When she fails there will be offers of more courses for money. Offers of more coaching. For money. Offers to improve her engagement. For money. Offers of more 'trainings'. For money.
A small closed FB page of sheep shearers and MLM huns aren't going to create any buyers irrespective.

BSintolerant · 24/08/2023 11:50

Interesting @CrossStitchX - I wonder what the “All Rights Reserved 2023. Consultant Created & Not Affiliated with Arbonne International” is all about? If it’s nothing to do with Arbonne why even mention it?

BSintolerant · 24/08/2023 11:54

I wonder if the Be Well Club been set up by a former Arbot who’s got a garage full of stock to shift? It looks like they’re selling Arbonne products. https://www.thebewell.club/

The Be Well Club

https://www.thebewell.club/

Norma27 · 24/08/2023 12:02

See yawn has posted her annual ‘look how much I achieved with shit GCSEs’ post.

Angrymum22 · 24/08/2023 12:02

Yawns annual brag. Look at me, look at me, look how well I’ve done despite getting Us in all my GCSEs.

Angrymum22 · 24/08/2023 12:06

🤣Norma we must have seen her post at the same time.

Spongebobette · 24/08/2023 12:45

YouOKHun · 23/08/2023 20:21

Nurse is posing questions on her coaching page so that she can answer them, on the assumption anyone is interested.

What scares me most in life? I think what scares me more than anything is having regrets

Oh I don’t know Nurse, having regrets might demonstrate the ability to reflect on your past and learn from it. Instead of having regrets (negative thinking is not necessarily irrational thinking) Nurse chooses to paper over the cracks in her delicate self esteem by not allowing negative thinking to enter the great empty cavity between her ears (positivity at all costs is not rational thinking). By sticking with her brand of magical thinking she is free to keep on making the same mistakes time and time again, slowly becoming more miserable (and poorer) until she can’t function at all, having been her own gaslighter.

She isn’t a coach, she’s a cult member. Any upline whether they’re peddling coaching or aloe Vera must think all their Christmases have come at once when they see Nurse homing into view.

And it’s clear that her own coach has suggested it might be a good idea to have a public FB page for her business rather than hiding behind a private page and setting it up has been part of the ‘hard work’ she’s been doing
She hasn’t an original thought in her head which is why she loved Yawn’s ‘trainings’ and why she makes copious handwritten notes from the recordings she watches in her coaching course

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Spongebobette · 24/08/2023 13:18

Also
she puts xx at the end of her posts on what is supposed to be a professional business page 🙄

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dickiedavisthunderthighs · 24/08/2023 14:33

Angrymum22 · 24/08/2023 12:02

Yawns annual brag. Look at me, look at me, look how well I’ve done despite getting Us in all my GCSEs.

What she's telling us (as if we didn't know) is that she's as thick as mince, and also hugely susceptible which drew her into Forever Fibbing in the first place.

YouOKHun · 24/08/2023 15:30

Yawn has obtained the precarious illusion of “success” she’s had by being a self-centred, self-serving, pushy grifter who is absolutely OK with causing damage to others (not forgetting a couple of lucky financial breaks that have nothing to do with talent/ability/business acumen/GCSEs). The fact she has absolutely no friends let alone no GCSEs speaks volumes about who she is. She’s a big fish in a tiny pond who has quite spectacularly over-estimated her abilities and has done so publicly - this alone shows her to be not at all bright. The Kray twins didn’t have an O Levels either. She has nothing to be proud of.

MLM only works in the hands of shite for brains grifters. The last thing FLP wants is someone who is going to ask questions and think for themselves, or worse, reflect on the outcomes of what they’re doing. The ideal candidate for a long term upline is a greedy simpleton who doesn’t understand profit and loss and doesn’t care about living on the never never as long as they have enough to create the illusion - there’s a reason why many have already bombed and the rest are heading that way.

One look at the recent victims of Yawn, especially the very young ones, should be a warning to everyone that GCSEs or not, involvement with her will damage you.

DeliaDeetz · 24/08/2023 17:06

I see one of Yawns team has not only copied her recent "I don't like selling" post word for word but also used the same picture!
So who's FL items for local customers are they? Yawns, this other bot or someone else's entirely?
One or perhaps both are lying - are people just blind to the blatant copying or do they just choose to ignore it?

YouOKHun · 24/08/2023 17:11

Castle has also shared “her truth” about not getting great GCSEs but look at her now blah blah.

Yes, LOOK at you NOW Castle.

Her “truth” is an interesting thing to try and pin down. Her truth was that she owned a Castle but that wasn’t true, then it was her success that obtained the right to live in her castle but that wasn’t true either. She said she had a successful planner business, but HMRC says that’s not true. She said she was a 6 figure earner, then 7 figure and now she says she’s an 8 figure earner, but none of that is true. Then the sin of omission; who pays her bills, that’s a truth she never shares. Then there are all the other lies from FLP to Scamversity. She probably didn’t get 6 GCSEs either!

HouseofHolbein · 24/08/2023 18:44

YouOKHun · 24/08/2023 17:11

Castle has also shared “her truth” about not getting great GCSEs but look at her now blah blah.

Yes, LOOK at you NOW Castle.

Her “truth” is an interesting thing to try and pin down. Her truth was that she owned a Castle but that wasn’t true, then it was her success that obtained the right to live in her castle but that wasn’t true either. She said she had a successful planner business, but HMRC says that’s not true. She said she was a 6 figure earner, then 7 figure and now she says she’s an 8 figure earner, but none of that is true. Then the sin of omission; who pays her bills, that’s a truth she never shares. Then there are all the other lies from FLP to Scamversity. She probably didn’t get 6 GCSEs either!

She can't spell either which doesn't give a fantastic impression. Not very professional is it?

dickiedavisthunderthighs · 24/08/2023 19:30

YouOKHun · 24/08/2023 15:30

Yawn has obtained the precarious illusion of “success” she’s had by being a self-centred, self-serving, pushy grifter who is absolutely OK with causing damage to others (not forgetting a couple of lucky financial breaks that have nothing to do with talent/ability/business acumen/GCSEs). The fact she has absolutely no friends let alone no GCSEs speaks volumes about who she is. She’s a big fish in a tiny pond who has quite spectacularly over-estimated her abilities and has done so publicly - this alone shows her to be not at all bright. The Kray twins didn’t have an O Levels either. She has nothing to be proud of.

MLM only works in the hands of shite for brains grifters. The last thing FLP wants is someone who is going to ask questions and think for themselves, or worse, reflect on the outcomes of what they’re doing. The ideal candidate for a long term upline is a greedy simpleton who doesn’t understand profit and loss and doesn’t care about living on the never never as long as they have enough to create the illusion - there’s a reason why many have already bombed and the rest are heading that way.

One look at the recent victims of Yawn, especially the very young ones, should be a warning to everyone that GCSEs or not, involvement with her will damage you.

I wish I could bottle this post and give it to every would-be bot about to get ensnared. Spot on.

YouOKHun · 24/08/2023 19:36

@HouseofHolbein an MLM post wouldn’t be right without the obligatory there/their, you’re/your etc would it?! Though I haven’t read Castle’s output again to see how well her failed Eng Lang GCSE has manifested!

I see Yawn is being very creative with her MLM timeline and CV on her GCSE post. She’s missed out two whole careers, one very short-lived and the other where she just made enemies. In fact she seems to have implied that her NWM career culminated in financial success whereas what she should be owning up to is a couple of other pieces of luck which funded the NWM hobby/career in the early days, with lucky timing providing the necessary after the injection of money from elsewhere. If her followers knew that then they’d be more accurately able to assess their own chances in FLP based on not having the cash injection from elsewhere that Yawn had. Instead they’re fed some fiction about FLP success being a case of wishing, hoping, purchasing and doing what Yawn says even if it’s totally against the victim’s moral code.

LibyanFeet · 24/08/2023 20:31

dickiedavisthunderthighs · 24/08/2023 19:30

I wish I could bottle this post and give it to every would-be bot about to get ensnared. Spot on.

Agreed! You’ve summed up the doings of certain MLM bots perfectly.

NormalForNuneaton · 24/08/2023 20:57

Norma27 · 24/08/2023 12:02

See yawn has posted her annual ‘look how much I achieved with shit GCSEs’ post.

...combined with her "look how relatable I am...I have a messy kitchen and I'm not wearing make up" post 🙄

YouOKHun · 24/08/2023 21:17

Why thank you @LibyanFeet and @dickiedavisthunderthighs. Nothing that hasn’t been said by you and others before! If only she was as transparent to her potential victims as she is to botwatchers. I guess we have the benefit of long term watching which reveals the contradictions and inconsistencies.

As for “no make up”. Yawn is absolutely wearing the usual mask. Even the no make up lie doesn’t stand up to much scrutiny. Honestly, she really should be better at bending the truth by now. But again, she has over-estimated her skill in this area too.

BSintolerant · 25/08/2023 11:25

I saw this and thought of all of my fellow Botwatchers!

BOTWATCH 78 - the latest  thread in a VERY long series about the deceptions practised by MLMs. Unbelievably people are still being hooked in by these schemes where 97% of those who join LOSE MONEY
Angrymum22 · 25/08/2023 17:50

You know you’ve hit rock bottom with your business when you have to resort to TicToc to promote. I’m sure I’m not the only one who rapidly scrolls past anyone selling anything. TicToc is entirely for entertainment.

BSintolerant · 25/08/2023 19:29

Botwatching could be classed as bordering on entertainment, although it’s more like a combination of mocking the afflicted and serving as a public health warning!

spanfan · 25/08/2023 20:45

Yawn has loads of free time as she can't actually afford to go away. Even for a UK break ( which I know can be pricey).

It's all smoke and mirrors.

Looks like she's paid for some tiktok training too. Wonder whether that will translate into any funds....

MaybeItsJustTimeToStop · 25/08/2023 22:36

Yawn has put her ticktock video on Instagram, it is about her diet. It's going to be a 3 parter because it's such an interesting story 😂