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I just won the ruddy lottery. But …

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Lotteryinducedturmoil · 02/06/2023 19:37

I just won the ruddy lottery 🤩
£10,000 per month for a year 🤩
But, I’m not sure if I can spend it!?
I have been desperately saving for a deposit to buy my first house for myself and my 3 young daughters for years so this is beyond bloody amazing.
I’m a lone parent & work full time on minimum wage. My wage only just covers my rent so I get Universal Credit to top up my earnings.
I can’t work out if I can use all of the money to put towards a house deposit. Would that be classed as deprivation of capital?
I have been googling my fingers to the bone and can’t find anything out other than I may be expected to live frugally on it for ever more.
My head is going around in circles and getting nowhere.
The first £10,000 monthly amount will take me over the threshold of the savings limit of £16,000 meaning that I won’t qualify for universal credit any longer.
Will I be able to get a mortgage with just my (ever so slightly over) £1,000 a month wages?
I had spoken to a mortgage broker recently and they said I’d be able to get a small mortgage for a shared ownership property with my current wage plus UC benefits/ child benefit etc.
Does anyone have a clue how it all works?
I also have a complete twat of a husband who I have been separated from for 5 years but am still married to. Will he be able to get his nasty hands on any of it?
Any advice would be most helpful.

OP posts:
Room102 · 02/06/2023 23:53

You were the one who mentioned 30 hours. I said that definitions of full-time vary - you were treating 40 hours as standard, which it is not.

Uuughh, tiresome. 30 hours was mentioned as a joke because some delusional people work 30 hours and claim they work full time.

Have done the calculation again for you with 35 hours, so your 9-5 with an hour unpaid lunch break. Still over £1,400 net pay.

Lotteryinducedturmoil · 02/06/2023 23:55

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Room102 · 02/06/2023 23:55

So, in the first month, your savings would temporarily exceed the limit, but subsequent monthly payments would likely take you below the threshold.

Hilarious.

Room102 · 02/06/2023 23:57

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Now you'll have money to pay for childcare, or look at other more lucrative work options to set yourself up better for the future.

musixa · 02/06/2023 23:59

Room102 · 02/06/2023 23:53

You were the one who mentioned 30 hours. I said that definitions of full-time vary - you were treating 40 hours as standard, which it is not.

Uuughh, tiresome. 30 hours was mentioned as a joke because some delusional people work 30 hours and claim they work full time.

Have done the calculation again for you with 35 hours, so your 9-5 with an hour unpaid lunch break. Still over £1,400 net pay.

OP did say it was over £1000, not £1000 exactly.

feelingfree17 · 03/06/2023 00:00

Oh, I love this
Many congratulations

Room102 · 03/06/2023 00:01

@musixa you're really clutching at straws now. Let it go.

musixa · 03/06/2023 00:02

Room102 · 03/06/2023 00:01

@musixa you're really clutching at straws now. Let it go.

OP has now clarified it's a school's version of full time hours at 29.5 a week, so that renders our debate redundant anyway 😂

Room102 · 03/06/2023 00:03

@Lotteryinducedturmoil I am so pleased for you. As a fellow lone parent especially - it is good to hear for once of somebody winning something to whom it will actually make a huge difference!

Room102 · 03/06/2023 00:04

OP has now clarified it's a school's version of full time hours at 29.5 a week, so that renders our debate redundant anyway 😂

Yes, I know - I'd already replied to her post saying so. Hence why I said you are being ridiculous and let it go...

uncomfortablydumb53 · 03/06/2023 00:05

Massive congratulations!

Room102 · 03/06/2023 00:07

Room102 · 02/06/2023 23:55

So, in the first month, your savings would temporarily exceed the limit, but subsequent monthly payments would likely take you below the threshold.

Hilarious.

This Chat GPT thing cracked me up as well. Evidently its trawling still needs a little more tweaking!

CombatBarbie · 03/06/2023 00:09

I'll happily help you spend it

Confused2124 · 03/06/2023 00:26

Incredible news for you - use to take the kids on the best holidays!

Remagirl · 03/06/2023 00:45

Division of matrimonial assets is usually worked out at date of separation. I'd be ticking the no publicity box and keeping your win to yourself in terms of ex partner. You won't need benefits so who cares about UC, just stop claiming. Lucky you x

Room102 · 03/06/2023 00:56

Remagirl · 03/06/2023 00:45

Division of matrimonial assets is usually worked out at date of separation. I'd be ticking the no publicity box and keeping your win to yourself in terms of ex partner. You won't need benefits so who cares about UC, just stop claiming. Lucky you x

That's not necessarily true, unless the was a formal legal separation agreement and even then it is not watertight. The length of marriage, respective financial positions of the parties, who dependents live with, future earning potential etc will all be considered as relevant factors. Some will benefit the OP (e.g. it sounds like the children live with her) but some may not. She needs to see a good solicitor asap.

007DoubleOSeven · 03/06/2023 01:18

Lotteryinducedturmoil · 02/06/2023 19:37

I just won the ruddy lottery 🤩
£10,000 per month for a year 🤩
But, I’m not sure if I can spend it!?
I have been desperately saving for a deposit to buy my first house for myself and my 3 young daughters for years so this is beyond bloody amazing.
I’m a lone parent & work full time on minimum wage. My wage only just covers my rent so I get Universal Credit to top up my earnings.
I can’t work out if I can use all of the money to put towards a house deposit. Would that be classed as deprivation of capital?
I have been googling my fingers to the bone and can’t find anything out other than I may be expected to live frugally on it for ever more.
My head is going around in circles and getting nowhere.
The first £10,000 monthly amount will take me over the threshold of the savings limit of £16,000 meaning that I won’t qualify for universal credit any longer.
Will I be able to get a mortgage with just my (ever so slightly over) £1,000 a month wages?
I had spoken to a mortgage broker recently and they said I’d be able to get a small mortgage for a shared ownership property with my current wage plus UC benefits/ child benefit etc.
Does anyone have a clue how it all works?
I also have a complete twat of a husband who I have been separated from for 5 years but am still married to. Will he be able to get his nasty hands on any of it?
Any advice would be most helpful.

Huge congratulations @Lotteryinducedturmoil !
Not read the full thread but if ever there was a thread the press will pick up, this will be it - suggest you request its deleted.
Look up Claer Barrett for great financial advice

Fererr · 03/06/2023 01:58

I think you are right you need to find out if you use most of the lottery money to put towards a house deposit in a year’s time and then re apply for UC, would that be classed as deprivation of capital meaning no entitlement to UC. I hope not, but possible.

DreamingofGinoclock · 03/06/2023 06:56

Lizzt2007 · 02/06/2023 22:05

She only gets the 10k for one year. It's not ongoing so won't be treated as income for a mortgage. She's worrying about how to live after that and if she used the winnings to buy a property whether uc would treat it as depriving herself of the money.

Ah I miss read the op ! I assumed ahe had won the top prize which is 10k for 30 years ..I think 10k for one year is the next prize down!

SuperbSummer2023 · 03/06/2023 08:20

Testino · 02/06/2023 20:01

See this is what I mean. The woman is advised to divorce so the husband doesn't take from her but the opposite is the case where the woman is advised to get/stay married so she can take from the husband.

Congrats OP by the way. That was in reference to a comment I made on another post which some chose to deny ever happens and name-call over. Nothing to do with you really.

Wish you all the best with your winnings.

@Testino well, take a look who is the lone parent for a start & most often has been the one to sacrifice their career progress. It's not what body parts you have, but other things.

SuperbSummer2023 · 03/06/2023 08:23

DoeRayMe · 02/06/2023 20:02

Talk to a financial adviser but if it was me I'd be looking into buying my own home but also property to rent this giving you a long term monthly income.

@DoeRayMe her win is for one year, she's going to be lucky to get one mortgage, let alone 2. Depending on where you live maybe. But if you can buy 2 properties for £120000 I'd be looking at moving anyway.

GirlOfTudor · 03/06/2023 08:30

Adjust your universal credit claim as soon as you receive the first amount of money.
I would save the majority of the money in a savings account with the highest interest rate you can find. Or, even multiple savings accounts to make the most money. Make sure you finances are as tidy as possible - no debts, all bills paid on time, cancel any unnecessary subscriptions, etc. Then when you've received the full £120,000, start searching for mortgage deals.
Could shared ownership be possible for you if you can't get a mortgage for a whole house?
Could you afford mortgage payments on your wage with how interest rates are at the moment?
Do you live in social housing and could you purchase your house?

Congratulations and good luck with it all! 💖

VitoCorleoneOfMNMafia · 03/06/2023 08:41

007DoubleOSeven · 03/06/2023 01:18

Huge congratulations @Lotteryinducedturmoil !
Not read the full thread but if ever there was a thread the press will pick up, this will be it - suggest you request its deleted.
Look up Claer Barrett for great financial advice

Or moved to OTBT.

User789675 · 03/06/2023 09:09

Testino · 02/06/2023 20:01

See this is what I mean. The woman is advised to divorce so the husband doesn't take from her but the opposite is the case where the woman is advised to get/stay married so she can take from the husband.

Congrats OP by the way. That was in reference to a comment I made on another post which some chose to deny ever happens and name-call over. Nothing to do with you really.

Wish you all the best with your winnings.

I completely agree with this. The people on here are all about women’s rights but as soon as the boot is on the other foot, everyone is suggesting she should fuck off with the money and not hand it over, as per the law.

BTW, congrats OP. I genuinely hope you don’t have to hand over too much but be prepared to have to. Read up about Dale Vince, it’ll tell you all you need to know.

DoingSomethingUnholy · 03/06/2023 09:55

120k is a nice amount to win, if I was you I'd be looking at long term ways to up your income. You don't have enough money to buy a house outright and your income is fairly low so even with a decent deposit from this win as a single person you will only be able to borrow a small amount. Personally I'd be looking at ways you could retrain and put yourself in a better financial position long term so you aren't sat on benefits forevermore. You could still have some put aside for a decent deposit but you'd eventually have the income to be able to borrow a decent amount. House prices/interest rates are high at the moment so sitting it out a couple of years will save buying when prices are up. I think you need to move away from the mindset that you'll take your 120k and then get back on benefits as soon as you can, this is an ideal opportunity to improve your income long term so you aren't relying on benefits.

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