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I just won the ruddy lottery. But …

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Lotteryinducedturmoil · 02/06/2023 19:37

I just won the ruddy lottery 🤩
£10,000 per month for a year 🤩
But, I’m not sure if I can spend it!?
I have been desperately saving for a deposit to buy my first house for myself and my 3 young daughters for years so this is beyond bloody amazing.
I’m a lone parent & work full time on minimum wage. My wage only just covers my rent so I get Universal Credit to top up my earnings.
I can’t work out if I can use all of the money to put towards a house deposit. Would that be classed as deprivation of capital?
I have been googling my fingers to the bone and can’t find anything out other than I may be expected to live frugally on it for ever more.
My head is going around in circles and getting nowhere.
The first £10,000 monthly amount will take me over the threshold of the savings limit of £16,000 meaning that I won’t qualify for universal credit any longer.
Will I be able to get a mortgage with just my (ever so slightly over) £1,000 a month wages?
I had spoken to a mortgage broker recently and they said I’d be able to get a small mortgage for a shared ownership property with my current wage plus UC benefits/ child benefit etc.
Does anyone have a clue how it all works?
I also have a complete twat of a husband who I have been separated from for 5 years but am still married to. Will he be able to get his nasty hands on any of it?
Any advice would be most helpful.

OP posts:
worldwidetravel2017 · 24/04/2025 10:19

Lotteryinducedturmoil · 23/04/2025 21:52

Update:
Thanks for everybody’s advice at the time, it was a massive help to me as I couldn’t tell a single soul outside of here. It’s been a real rollercoaster working it all out on my own.
I eventually got a clean break divorce, saved every penny in various saving accounts/ISAs, to maximise interest rates. Lived very frugally off the interest and my paltry wage for 18 months. Saved the entire £120,000 which I used as a deposit for the house that I have just moved into with my daughters.
It’s tiny and an ex-council place that needs ALOT of work, but it’s ours! 😊. My mortgage is fairly manageable, the pink carpets are gone and we are free to have pets if we choose to. A happy ending ❤️

Lovely story

Outnumbered99 · 24/04/2025 10:24

What a brilliant update! So glad to hear it

atomicnotsoblonde · 24/04/2025 11:01

Fantastic! I’m so pleased for you

houseessentials · 27/04/2025 06:21

This is so fantastically heart warming. Also am about to start investing in the lottery

K8Davidson · 27/04/2025 09:50

Congratulations, OP. If I were you, I’d play around with a mortgage calculator online. You can enter different amounts and see how much deposit you’d need for different prices of homes. You’ll also be able to find out how much your monthly mortgage payments would be etc. as an estimate.

Hope this helps!

LivingLaVidaBabyShower · 27/04/2025 09:54

This is a lovely story 💕

Honestly you'll be living like a queen in 3 years. But still KEEP IT SECRET!!!!

It's worth continuing to save a portion/ put it into your pension

bigboykitty · 27/04/2025 09:56

Congratulations on your new home and on the clean break divorce. Lovely update.

WingBingo · 27/04/2025 09:56

The lack of comprehension is remarkable.

Anyhow, congrats, what a fabulous update, enjoy your new home.

K8Davidson · 27/04/2025 10:54

Just read through the whole thread, so sorry about my previous comment!

What a lovely update, OP. I’m so pleased for you! What’s the plan moving forward now? If you don’t mind me asking

friendlycat · 27/04/2025 15:09

What a lovely update. Well done for sorting out your future.

lostinthesunshine · 27/04/2025 15:18

Congratulations on your new home OP. What a lovely update. Well done! I am so pleased for you.

FoamPartyBoat · 27/04/2025 16:40

Congratulations 🌟

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