You're doing nothing wrong @Elliesmummy1 If you were pissing your money up the wall, buying drugs/name brand handbags/going off one 2 weeks jollies with your mates, you'd be lambasted/called a bad mum etc...
So you claim some benefits - big deal. MANY people do. You are doing a lovely thing, putting money by for your daughter and making sure she has a comfier future.
I KNOW some people will think 'grrr, I work all the hours God sends, and cannot afford to save £15K for MY DC's future.' And they have a point, it is infuriating, and I have had such feelings myself in the past occasionally... Eg, some years ago, me and DH were a bit less well off, and couldn't afford to replace the boiler, and a single mum with 4 kids around the corner (who gets her rent paid by the council,) had just got a new kitchen put in by the council and was moaning because she couldn't have it in light oak, only medium oak!!!
But don't hate the player, hate the game! The OP is just doing her best for her child. If her UC is making her life comfortable enough to be able to put a bit aside for her child, then that's not a bad thing IMO.
And can people fuck off with slating her spelling and grammar?!
SO rude and very bad form!!!