I've just done the income v expense report for this calendar year, and we've spent £1200 more than we've earned. This isn't surprising, there's been a lot of expenses related to DH car and he was on furlough for three months. Still feels a bit depressing, but to echo a few recent posts - without ynab that would be so much worse.
To cheer myself up, I looked at the net worth report. We started using YNAB in November 2013, and since we started our Net worth has increased by 48%. I only include cash and personal debt in that, not our mortgage or house. That puts it in perspective - it's not like we've done nothing majorly spendy in that time, we've put in a new boiler, repaired a roof, had the garden done and bought two cars outright.
I'm not trying to show off, and I hope this post isn't out of place on this thread - I do feel for posters who are where I was in 2013 - but the system does work, stick with it.