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MummytoCSJH · 06/09/2020 21:44

I'm stressed and I feel that there's no way out of this. All the money I put onto my cards I need so I end up spending again to pay my bills. I literally can't do anything else because otherwise my rent won't get paid. Can't get a loan without a guarantor which I don't have.

I have an overdraft of 2000 which I'm always in
Credit card 1 1900
Credit card 2 500
Credit card 3 600 (400 of this is a 0% balance transfer until Nov but can't afford to pay it off before then)
All up to their limits

Very bnpl (furniture when I moved into my council house) 395.90 due by Nov, 51 due by feb, 705.96 due by march
£6k+ to my ex who I pay 250 pm to on arrangement.

These debts all exist because I wasn't entitled to any benefits when I had to quit my job because I needed brain surgery. I'm a single parent and student and literally can't spend any less than I'm already spending. I can't get a job because my course doesn't have a set weekly timetable and I can't get childcare for night times. Sons dad is a 2 hrs drive (and neither of us drive) away so no help on that front. I get a tiny amount of UC and my student loan and child benefit which only just in total covers all my bills/payments BEFORE the credit card payments. Feel like I could cry I just don't know how to get myself out of this situation. I'm suicidal over this. Every time my student finance goes in/end of the term I am still in the same position I was before with debt. No idea what I will do when I graduate. Anyone got any advice??

DawnMumsnet · 07/09/2020 16:28

Hi MummytoCSJH, we're sorry you're going through such a worrying time. We just wanted to add a link to our webpage on dealing with financial difficulty. It has lots of advice on dealing with debt and lists many charities and organisations which can help with financial hardship, as recommended by Mumsnetters.

It's also worth looking at the advice available on Gingerbread's site. It's a charity set up to support single-parent families and has lots of information on managing money and debt.

We hope things start to get a bit easier for you soon. Flowers

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