to answer the question about when this was.. no, ours was post-2008/9 economic crash.
but the huge sacrifices (i mean massive, moving countries, working too many hours to be healthy for years and years and years) has left us in a comfortable position, yet not lucrative.
put it this way - last year i heard one of my relatives had been using me as a template of why her offspring weren't working hard enough (because if Mrs Rabbit can do it, and we graduated in the same uni year, why can't they?)
most of my family still think about all the shite i've seen posted here, "just cut out the daily coffee", just stop buying avocados and iphones..
but they haven't seen the lifelong health affects of having a partner develop muscle problems/joint issues in mid-30s due to the 7 day work weeks we were doing for a long time, to pay off the mortgage/get some financial stability.
they don't see that maybe we'd have had kids 10 years earlier IF we could have afforded it
they didn't see the many times i went to the supermarket and had to put tins back because i literally didn't have any spare cash and the mortgage was crippling us
yet i'm used as an example of "work hard=get a house"
.. by my own family! my mum and dad had bought a 3-bed bungalow by the time they were late 20s with dad working in what is essentially an unskilled minimum wage job, and mum not working.
there's no amount of telling them about the cost to us to get in a position anywhere close to where they were, because their generation won't listen.
they just spout "hard work pays off", and it hasn't , for MOST of my peers.
the ones that have made it like us have mostly had it due to hard work plus luck. in an environment where the economy has been failing year on year and wages have been left behind the cost of living.