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Terminating Parental Rights

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Amanda1 · 21/09/2005 21:23

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expatinscotland · 21/09/2005 21:31

Don't put him on the birth certificate?

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Amanda1 · 21/09/2005 21:32

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Caligula · 21/09/2005 21:32

Father unknown.

irishbird · 21/09/2005 21:34

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Amanda1 · 21/09/2005 21:37

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Caligula · 21/09/2005 21:38

You could also move and not tell him where. That way, if he does change his mind, it will remain an idea, rather than something he can act on.

blossom2 · 21/09/2005 21:41

Dh & i were not married when DD1 was born and although his name was on the birth certificate, we still needed to complete a 'parent responsbility' form for him and get it certified by the courts before he had any parent rights... so it may be easier than it looks...

we got married before we got round to completing the form...

Mud · 21/09/2005 21:45

cna you afford for him not to pay chldcare

irishbird · 21/09/2005 21:47

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Amanda1 · 21/09/2005 21:49

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Mud · 21/09/2005 21:51

he might be a total wanker at the moment but a kd needs to know who her father is. don't think you sholjd do anythgn to terminate his rights. if he wants to then thats his decision. you also wnat to get support fro him. it is not for you it is for your child

Mud · 21/09/2005 21:51

he might be a total wanker at the moment but a kd needs to know who her father is. don't think you sholjd do anythgn to terminate his rights. if he wants to then thats his decision. you also wnat to get support fro him. it is not for you it is for your child

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Amanda1 · 21/09/2005 21:55

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Mud · 21/09/2005 21:57

tel him its not about his life its about his childs and you dont' give a fuck about him or his scaggy girlfreind. tell him you wll do the best for your hcild and he will be expected to pay but if he doesn't want to see the child that is up to him. tell him to grow up and get some balls.

irishbird · 21/09/2005 21:59

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Amanda1 · 21/09/2005 21:59

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Amanda1 · 21/09/2005 22:03

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Amanda1 · 21/09/2005 22:12

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Amanda1 · 21/09/2005 22:20

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Amanda1 · 21/09/2005 22:35

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steffee · 21/09/2005 22:47

To put him on the birth certificate you need him there I think, so if he doesn't want anything to do with you, presumably he wouldn't go to register the birth with you anyway.

Then contact CSA saying he's the father, he will have to get DNA-tested but will not get PR unless you say so, but your ds/dd will still get money from him.

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