Struggling to get over the loss

[dorcas111]

Thought I'd start a new thread. I am not having a good day. I miscarried on Sunday at six weeks and four days, the scan confirmed it on Monday. We'd had such a terrible weekend, waiting and not knowing but with everything getting worse that in a way the scan was a relief and I felt better not having all that stress and worry anymore. But today has been horrendous, I'm having a really hard time accepting this has happened. Every little thing reminds me of what I have lost and I feel like I will never be happy again. My OH has been amazing but I feel guilty because I just want to be miserable, I don't want to try and be anything else. This is all so painful, please tell me it will get better, right now I can't imagine how it can. I just want my baby back .

Thank you for your messages. It's so nice to have somewhere to talk to lovely ladies like yourselves who have been through the same experiences. The idea of having something personal as a rememberance is such a lovely idea and think it will help with moving forward but of course not forgetting. This too was my 1st pregnancy and was such a wonderful surprise after a few tough months. I've not given up hope and know that for us all when the time is right we will have our own little bundles of joy. We started ttc straight after miscarriage as it was physically a gentle and easy miscarry and emotionally I was devistated but just wanted to be pregnant again more than anything. 4 wks later I have taken hpt and it was negative so was upset but now just want to not ttc but just try not to and start enjoying each other again and hopefully will happen on it's own. Hope you are both feeling ok xxxx