Preggers again, & NERVOUS

[Daynee]

Hi ladies,
Well, I'm preggers again but unfortunately, I can't be excited about it. After 4 mc's, I pretty much expect it to happen again. Yes, I've done all the tests, nothing wrong, last one had triploidy, maybe bad eggs? Nobody knows. I'm taking my vitamins, baby aspirin, and progesterone, BUT I'm not going to go to the doctor until I make it 3 months.
This might sound crazy but I'm tired of paying all this money to be disappointed over and over again. There isn't anything they can do for me anyway...
So I wish I had a fast forward button. Any other suggestions? I'm just working, keeping busy, and trying not to think about it (easier said than done). I'm so worried. Every time I go to the bathroom, my heart pounds...
Encouraging words, anyone?

[rainbowdays]

Sara - it is a horrible time the worry at the start of the pregnancy after a miscarriage. Have you had investigations as to why you miscarried? Are you going to have an early scan? I have found that knowing others are going through the same thing very comforting, and even more to hear from people after several miscarriages that finally get to have their baby. Feel free to post on this thread the worries of the day to day waiting to see what will happen this time. Try to take it day at a time, rather than thinking ahead has helped me in the past.

[SallyDawson]

Hi rainbowdays and thanks for your reply. I'm in Canada, been here 5 weeks now, don't qualify for healthcare yet, don't understand the system so it's all a bit of a mare. I knew I was late when I left GB but as it was only one cycle since my MMC I didn't have time to really think about it! My docs in GB didn't want to do any tests until I'd had 3 MC in a row, even if I paid privately, so I don't know what might be available at which stage. I need to find that thread and read up.

[SaraGL]

Hi rainbowdays. Yes I had investigations and was diagnosed with 'Sticky Blood' and put on aspirin to thin my blood. The consultant was brilliant and told me to call as soon as I conceived again and he would offer me extra support through my first trimester. He actually remembered me when I called this week (over a year later). He says that I have to get to six weeks and then he'll start early scans and hormone blood tests. I know I should be grateful for the support as I know that not everyone is given the opportunity, I just have to grit my teeth and get to 6 weeks and then 7 weeks etc, etc?.

[kissmummy]

how are you SarahGL ? hope everything is okay?

[rainbowdays]

Daynee - Yep I am back on the treadmill of being preggers and nervous... very early days for me.... please keep me calm!

SaraGL - any update on how you are going, have you had scans yet?

Sally - is your head out of the sand yet, and how is the pregnancy going?

I really hope all is well with you all.

[mumatron]

rainbowdays tentative congratulations.

in the same position myself, 7+3 after 4 rmc. previously losses been around 8+4 days, so not anywhere near being able to relax yet.

good luck and i will keep my fingers crossed for you.

[rainbowdays]

mumatron - thank you for the reply, however things have gone away again for me. It was very early this time so a bit easier in some ways, but not in others. Congratulations to you, I hope tha thte next few days you are able to distract yourself so you don't worry too much. When is your next scan, it will be good to reassure yourself after you have got past your 'risk' time. I will be watching out for your news.

[mumatron]

rainbow so very very sorry for you. as loopy said, earlier isn't easier. the hopes are still there.

good luck with whatever you decide to do next.

thinking of you. x