can bleeding at 10/12 weeks be anything other than miscarriage?

[cp3]

I cant sleep, my head is all over the place. Im leaving Dp to sleep as he doesnt know what to say to make me feel better. bless him its his baby too.

Doc at hospital has done an internal and says my womb has contracyted back and the foetus is being expelled. he/she could have died a few days ago. I have a scan to confirm tomorrow.

Is ther any hope???

oh cp3, i'm so sorry, xxxx

I have my fingers crossed for you CP3. I'm so very sorry, if it turns out to be bad news.

Aw, cp! (((HUGS))). Look after yourself there.

cp3 {{{hugs}}} !

cp3, so sorry to hear of all this worry, and hoping that all manages to come right for you in the end...you have friends here thinking of you and hoping for the best. X

I really hope things turn out well for you, I am going to keep an eye out for you on here to keep up with your news. I will think positive thoughts for you. I've only been registered here since yesterday, but I feel right at home. Please take care. XOXOXO

cp3 I had spotting and bleeding all the way through my last pg from 4 weeks onwards. I also sometimes had crampy pains. ds3 is perfect now. He was born too early but I don't think this was related to the early bleeding.

cp3 I know it's hard hon, but until u have the scan theres still hope ((((hugs))))).

hope things improve for you over the next day or so.

Oh no Cp3 i am so sorry about this , will keep everything crossed for a god outcome.

good

dear mears and all my great supportive friends,

I was admitted to Hospital Wednesday evening and had a D&C yesterday. Just got home now. It was the worst thing i have ever been through. There was so much blood, lucily they took me straight from a&e as i made a right mess.Had a scan thursday morning and unbelievably baby still there bit obviouly hadnt groen since i was five weeks and i know my dates were right and was at least nearly 12 weeks so had to have the d&c.

Hospital was great. The chapel do services for lost babies and there is a memorial book. So i named the baby MadeleineDennis as didnt know the sex but thats what we named them earler.

I have bought a white rose tree called my little pet and i will plant that for my own memorial

We will try again, but not waiting the 4 months recommended by the Docs. The leaflet they gave us said we can start again as soon as we are ready.

Anyway, thenkyou all once again you have bben my salvation through all of this.

Im going to copy all of this and post it on my Due Nov thread too as i dont have the energy to re write it. xxxxxxxxx

your post has brought tears to my eyes. Lovely idea about the tree. x E

cp3, so sorry you've been through this {{{hugs}}} to you and your family .

If you get the chance to go to a memorial service you may find it a useful way to say goodbye, our hospital has them too and we found it a real comfort following our mc back in July last year. Thinking of you, lol x

cp3 - I'm really sorry to hear the sad outcome of your story. Take care xxx

oh honney ((((hugs)))))) I was so hoping for a happy solution for you. (((hugs)))) when you feel ready you know where we all are on the TTC we'll talk with u every step of the way on here.

((((hugs)))) my thoughts are with you and yours. ((((hugs)))))

CP3, just found this thread and read your update. I'm so sorry that this is happening to you. The name you chose for the baby is lovely and I'm sure the rose bush will be a comfort to you. I wish I could do or say something to make you feel better but I guess it will just take time. Thinking of you loads and wishing you all the best.

So sorry, CP3. {{{{{{{{{HUGS}

cp3 - been there too - its devastating. make sure you look after yourself over the coming months.

Oh so so sorry to hear this Cp3. Will be thinking of you, and you know where i am if u want me xxxxxxxxxx

cp3, I missed this thread - I am so sorry.

cp3, really sorry to read this. I too have had a d&c after miscarriage and all I can say is it does get easier. My heart broke for my babies (Ive had 2 mcs) and I allowed myself as much time as I needed to grieve, then I got pg again 4 months after the 2nd mc and had a beautiful dd.

I have more pain in my heart than i do in my stomach at the momnent. Im trying not to be sad around the kids but its so bloody hard. As long as im busy then i dont think about it really. The worst thing is waking up, as just for a miniscule of a second i feel fine till it hits me then that dreadfull emptiness is like a gulf.

I didnt think it would be so awfull, from start to finish. I hope now i can offer help and support to others who have experienced this.

I hope others that have been through this experience can help you at this difficult time. Take things slowly, one day at a time.

Am so sorry to read this cp3. I lost my fourth baby and felt stunned because my body 'didn't do miscarriage'. I had had 3 babies before. A week after my D&C I was very tearful after coping with it all pretty well. Just needed to give into my grief. I waited for one period (wanted to be sure of dates) then tried again. Got pregnant the next month and had DD. Thinking of you, mears.

Aw, cp3, I'm SO sorry, hun! (((HUGS))).

Wishing you and your family the best.