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Currently going through my sixth miscarriage at 42 - where do I go from here?

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TammyinCork · 04/07/2025 11:02

Trigger warning: Current miscarriage, previous losses, living child

Two days ago, we received the news at our ten-week scan that baby's heartbeat had stopped, and there was no development after seven weeks. Absolutely devastated... This is our sixth first-trimester loss (we also have a five-year-old son). I was on progesterone twice a day, low-dose aspirin, 5mg folic acid and Proceive Omega 3 and pregnancy multivitamins from positive test onwards, and was eating a very healthy diet throughout. I have never smoked or vaped and don't drink alcohol.

After the last loss 18 months ago (which I was also on aspirin and progesterone for), both myself and my husband had gone for testing at the Cork Pregnancy Loss Clinic, and all results came back normal. They just said it could be my age and egg quality (I was 40 back then and recently turned 42), and can do no more for us.

I now want to book an appointment with Dr Shehata in Epsom (I am originally from London but moved to Cork nearly four years ago, and services are a lot more limited here).

Has anyone managed to have a successful pregnancy after this many losses, and what did you do differently?

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Amuseaboosh · 20/07/2025 20:05

So sorry you're going through this, sending kindness and positivity your way.

I'm 45 very soon and 31 weeks pregnant with my daughter after 13 consecutive losses and being told the same thing as you. She's a completely natural conception, my own egg and DH sperm. Depending on the risks involved and how you feel moving forward, don't give up.

Daffodil1983 · 20/07/2025 20:10

Love this Amuseaboosh x

TammyinCork · 20/07/2025 20:15

That's absolutely wonderful! Can I ask if you did anything differently this time?

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TwoFeralKids · 20/07/2025 20:37

Just worth noting that many miscarriages are due to poor sperm quality so it might not just be your eggs. Maybe get them to look at sperm as well.

TammyinCork · 19/08/2025 20:33

sd8809 · 05/07/2025 15:30

Hi Tammy so sorry for the awful journey you have had. I’m from Northern Ireland and background two healthy pregnancies and then 4 recurrent first trimester losses within a year. I would recommend seeing professor conor Harrity in Dublin he does ivf but also recurrent miscarriage. After seeing him I got pregnant again and I’m now 24 weeks. I had nk cells and chronic endometritis and after his treatment of endometritis when fell pregnant he gave me steroids, clexane, aspirin and two weekly intralipids and everything has worked out fine so far. He works for few clinics down south if you google him, he also is really considerate regarding testing prices etc and won’t make you do anything you don’t need to

Hi there, just wanted to add here that Dr Harrity now only sees patients who intend to do IVF with him... It must be a recent development.

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sd8809 · 20/08/2025 20:28

TammyinCork · 19/08/2025 20:33

Hi there, just wanted to add here that Dr Harrity now only sees patients who intend to do IVF with him... It must be a recent development.

Aw sorry to hear that such shame as I had such good experience with him

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