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I can't believe it's happening again, and just when I had got past the point of the last one, and had managed to relax a bit

198 replies

NatalieJaneIsPregnantAgain · 20/05/2008 17:24

Sad
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StealthPolarBear · 21/05/2008 18:51

fantastic

Squack · 21/05/2008 18:52

Thank the Gods!

calsworld · 21/05/2008 18:53

Yay Yay Yay! Now, have you chucked those bloody flowers away yet?

piratecat · 21/05/2008 18:55

really pleased for you!

EyeballsintheSky · 21/05/2008 19:03

Nat that's FANTASTIC news!

I agree, change that name back!

SheherazadetheGoat · 21/05/2008 19:04

whoo hoo! [punches air in tom cruise fashion]

kizzie · 21/05/2008 19:06

Oh wow!!!!! I had been watching this thread at work.

Wonderful news

x

sparklesandnowinefor5months · 21/05/2008 19:33

I've been watching this thread i'm so glad all is ok

I know its probably not much consolation but i had bleeding and clots most of the way through my pg with DS3 and went to full term and was fine, i think they said it was cervical erosion i can't remember, and it all stopped when he was born

I hope your pg gets better and you have no more bleeding

Do make sure you rest and take car for a few days though, can your DH take a day or 2 off work to help?

carolcupcake · 21/05/2008 19:35

Congratulations, you must be so pleased!

notjustmom · 21/05/2008 19:40

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Teuch · 21/05/2008 20:00

Hurrah!!!

NatalieJane · 21/05/2008 20:07

C&P'ed from another thread:

Right OK shall start when we left for A&E, apologies for loooooong story....

Got to A&E, waited about an hour-ish, doctor came took blood, urine sample (for PT), and felt my belly, evenutally sent me and the bloods up to the gynae ward. Waited for what seemed like forever, finally got to see the doc, he took a full history (this alone took about half an hour because he was writing everything down with a pen and paper!! ) then he did an internal, took a load of swobs (which only after did he tell me they were to check for STI's - nice) felt my belly again. Then back to the waiting room for god knows how long, by this point DH had gone to pick DS1 up from school.

Eventually, ever such a patronising, condesending, fucking arsehole of doctor came and got me so she could scan me. We were walking down the corrider towards the scanning room, she asked when my last period was, told her 5th of April, she got her little wheel thingy out, and said "Oh, so you're about 5 weeks, not 7 then?" I said "when I worked it out I would be 7 weeks this coming Friday" she said "Nope, you are only 5 weeks, which means you are going to need an internal scan, tut"

We get to the room, she closes the door, and says, "under these sorts of circumstances we're not really looking for anything I don't think" Then goes on to tell me how easy it is for women to get their dates mixed up, and how many times people have to come back for later scans because there is nothing there. She said "since you are around 5 weeks (] I don't think so) some women do experience a little implantation bleeding that is perfectly normal, and nothing to turn up at A&E for" I was biting my tongue by this point.

So she does the scan, clicking about on the keyboard, doesn't say a thing to me at all, then about 5 minutes later turned the screen around, and said, "yep normal baby in there, though it is a little larger than I'd expect, I'd say you were 7 and a half weeks, but since we don't tend to the real measuring until the dating scan at 12 weeks, it is only a guess." In that split second she went from one of the most miserable unsympathetic cowbags I had ever met, to the most wonderful person in the world.

I had to wait around for a bit because when they'd taken the blood they left the ermmmmm.... thingy in so if they needed more it was already open, anyway I had to have it taken out before I could go obviously, and the nurse that came to take it out said "the doctor just wanted me to make you aware of a few things...." basically she did see a pool of blood, and I am to expect it to come out at some point, although it may just reabsorb into my body. No sex for 7 days after any slightest bit of bleeding Gave me a letter to take to the GP, and sent me on my very merry way!

tinkwantstobearockstar · 21/05/2008 20:10

thats great news nat i am so pleased for you
sorry that you had to wait around so long
you might be further along then you thought then
your rest mrs for the next few days

KashaSarrasin · 21/05/2008 20:11

Great news! Hope the rest of your pregnancy is healthy and uneventful

loopsngeorge · 21/05/2008 20:12

Wow, what an awful rollercoaster of a day. So so glad all is okay for you though. Coming back to join us on the January thread?

Julezboo · 21/05/2008 20:17

Fabs news!!

I had bleeding with DS2, right through on and off till 20 weeks and hes upstairs fighting sleep at the mo

NatalieJane · 21/05/2008 20:20

I don't know how many times I have said it, but seriously thankyou everyone who has followed this, and for all the emails and CAT's, it all really does mean so much to me.

The support you have all given me is remarkable, it couldn't have been any stronger if it was all in RL.

Pink, sweetie, thank you

Cal - you are just ace

Marsy, Kay, all the TTC'ers, oh the whole bloody lot of you, if you can all find the room around the tub, I'll let you share my ice cream

(Am going to stop now, sounds like an acceptence speech for an Oscar)

kd73 · 21/05/2008 20:33

Natalie J, fantastic news .

Sorry you had all the messing with the hospital/docs/epau

calsworld · 21/05/2008 20:37

x

calsworld · 21/05/2008 20:37

x - numpty!

Habbibu · 21/05/2008 20:37

Oh, great news, NJ - though do wish sonographer had been a bit more sympathetic!

Disenchanted · 21/05/2008 20:38

Just seen this NJ ... Im so glad everything is OK

RusselBrussel · 21/05/2008 20:44

brilliant news

hertsnessex · 21/05/2008 20:49

Great News!

xx

kayzisexpecting · 21/05/2008 20:49

Ooooh Ice Cream