Anyone else miscarrying now?

[girlfromipanema]

Have been miscarrying since yesterday but it's been threatening since the week-end. Have lots of support but it is lonely isn't it? Any company would be very welcome....

[Bella23]

Dramaqueen step away with your arms in the air!
Keep away from surfing. Trust me as I am the queen of reading every single sight and the only result is that you drive yourself mad with other people's stories!
Today is nearly over and then you will have all the answers you need tomorrow so keep strong!

[mishi1977]

DQ i am sorry about your wait in the maternity hosp...it is the same for our hospital[maternity] but at least ur nurses where worried about your stability...i was told in the bed i could go as soon as i was dressed...not so much as a bye..lol anyways just wanted to say i can undersatnd as over the xmas tht was my 3rdmc...i have had one successful pregnancy out of four so am wary of doing it again but then my ds is only 15mths and such a joy that i do want more children..it is a hard decision to make....we are not sure wether to ttc straight away or to wait a while..say 6-12mths...who knows...suppose fate will play a big part as i am still waiting for my first post missed mc AF, oh well im just sort of rambling at the mo sorry
take care
mishi

[dramaqueen72]

mishi, i remember waiting for af afterwards...weird long wait for something you dont really want right? hope your cycle is quickly back to routine and you can ttc as soon as you feel ready.
girl -i hope youre having a good birthday.
its nearly wednesday. i should be 'in control' and know my exact options tomorrow. no more hanging about feeling in limbo. have no nails left -biten to death- and am not in very approachable mood. ah well. hope everyone forgives me.

[girlfromipanema]

dramaqn, i love bella's "step away with your arms in the air" - that is so excellent, it sounds like good advice too. Thinking of you tonight and tomorrow morning - it is a.m. isn't it? Hope the whole thing goes quickly as possible and that the wait isn't too long.
yes my bday begins with a four for the first time ... yikes, had a really nice meal tonight and at the w/end having a big day and night out with dh on our own.... can't wait. we had mil's cake tonight with four candles my ds helped me blow out, a happy evening.
ohmigod, the thought of trying again is very scary, am going to be nervous as a cat, drinking grotesque omega oil, and looking around for you guys on other threads!
Take care dq et al.....

[Bella23]

Dramaqueen - finally Wed has arrived, thank god!
Will be thinking of you today, let us know how it goes.xx

[dramaqueen72]

well told you all everything on the other m/c thread, so no point in repeating myself. do feel like we've been on a journey together, we should all meet up or get webcams or something...a new thread to stay in touch. as awful as this whole thig is, i hope it marks the start of a whole new episode, full of good things like new HPT that are positive, or relationships that become stronger from such bad things. you know what i mean. cyber hugs out to you girlies.((((hugs)))

[Spacecadet]

im not too bad today girl, it is so kind of you too ask when you are suffering.

[TeaTime]

Not sure whether to post on this or the other thread - so will do on both. I've also left the 'due in August' thread with heavy heart today - scan confirmed what I 'knew' - the pregnancy had stopped although the sac was still there. I'm going to wait for it all to come away naturally - just seems right for me but no idea how long that will take. I relate to what you said Bella about our bodies really wanting to be pregnant - I feel that mine is holding on to 'Dot' although it's all over. Mentally I suppose I'm still holding on too and can't face the finality of the D & C.
The waiting for today's scan was mind-boggling - reading your pre-scan postings now I relate to your agony Dramaqueen, time goes into a weird warp of s-l-o-w-i-n-g down just when you least need it to. 25th must seem an age away girlfromipanema - but perhaps it's not quite as bad as waiting to find out if the baby is still alive or not?

[girlfromipanema]

teatime, I'm so so so sorry for your loss. I don't know what to say but I'm thinking of you and sending you hugs....
I stopped feeling pg the w/end before last (8 wks pg), spotted for a few days and then m/c from then until now really, it's almost finished thank god (unless they find unfinished business on the 25th). I hope it's all gone naturally because it's been really grim and to have an op on top would feel just too much! But I'm sure it would be fine. If you do lose it naturally please let me know because I was surprised at how little the profs tell you about what it's like. I'm so so sorry for you and us all! I have had my mother here for the whole week and I've really needed her. The first few days I could not have coped without her to help with ds and am only just now starting to feel a little energy. My sis (a nurse) said I shouldn't be surprised to feel shattered for another whole week! Any way all the best to you Teatime, I couldn't believe it when I saw your name, I thought she's thinking of us how thoughtful.
hugs and spk soon, take care.

[Spacecadet]

dont know what to say , so much sad news, my heart goes out to everyone on here that is going through this