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2 miscarriages took ages to get pregnant, feeling heartbroken

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LittleLemonPie · 13/01/2025 11:13

Hi, I’m not sure what I’m looking for other than to know I’m not alone.

i had a natural miscarriage sept 2023 at 6weeks which was our result from a 2nd round letrozole. Between then and now we did fertility treatments from nov 2023- july 2024

And then this time it was all natural falling pregnant while waiting for ivf. I found out I was pregnant 1st of dec and felt so blessed.
Unfortunately I’ve had a missed miscarriage at 9 weeks and I had the tablets on Friday to start the bleeding.

My hubby has been amazing and so supportive along with other friends and family.

Its going on 5 years this year of us trying for an baby and each time just ends in heartbreak. I took the first one hard and it took me months to start feeling like me again. I feel so emotional and devastated that it has happened again.

I can’t help but fear the next time if I get pregnant the thought of losing another one. Does anyone have any positive stories after 2 miscarriages?

Thank you to anyone who reads this x

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LittleLemonPie · 25/03/2026 00:35

RapunzelHadExtensions · 24/03/2026 18:42

Omg I've just seen the update!!

How amazing 💓💓 So happy for you.

Thank you so much! 🥰🩵

Im so sorry for you’re losses and everything you went through!
Beautiful to hear about your happy outcome! Amazing in her big girl bed! 💕

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OneDayHope · 28/03/2026 17:12

LittleLemonPie · 24/03/2026 13:28

Hi!

Been a looong time since I made this original post….January 2025!
I thought maybe I’d update in the hope it could possibly provide hope for someone else. I want to keep this short so going to put facts rather than feelings. You can imagine the anxiety after 2 miscarriages.

My update:
6 months after my second miscarriage……2nd June 2025……I found out I was pregnant naturally!! In that same week I got the call from the fertility clinic saying we had now went to the top of the list for ivf and to book us in, which of course we didn’t need.

So we had our beautiful little baby in February 2026…..finally all our years of negative cycles and loss over the 5 years of ttc we can somewhat make sense of all that hurt.
Our hearts are so full and overflowing with love for him! 🩵 our little rainbow after the storms 🩵🌈

I hope if anyone comes back to this post and needed a little bit of light and hope for their own journey it might help shine a little hope. 🌈 ✨

Amazing news! I too now have a baby girl after the 2 mc, she’s just turned 6 months, a magical feeling after a lot of heartbreak 💖

LittleLemonPie · 28/03/2026 17:49

OneDayHope · 28/03/2026 17:12

Amazing news! I too now have a baby girl after the 2 mc, she’s just turned 6 months, a magical feeling after a lot of heartbreak 💖

That’s amazing! I had a wee look back to your previous post! So happy for you 🥰 it is the most magical feeling. Both got our little rainbows 🌈 pure love and joy. ❤️

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MissMarplesGoddaughter · 29/03/2026 16:52

What wonderful news! Congratulations

LittleLemonPie · 29/03/2026 20:35

MissMarplesGoddaughter · 29/03/2026 16:52

What wonderful news! Congratulations

thank you 🥰

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