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Miscarriage feels like it's never ending

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Sara2904 · 30/12/2018 15:24

I am currently having a miscarriage. Noticed bleeding when I went to the toilet. Went up to A&E on the Friday ( 14/12) spent 7 hours there which they said my blood tests showed I was still pregnant and my blood levels were good. They asked if they could swob me to check for infection, as I sat on the bed I could feel the blood everywhere. The doctor didn't seem concerned until he swobbed and he could obviously see the clots that I was holding. He then said he'd clean what he could, which was the most horrific procedure ice had so far. He scrapped everything he could from me using what he said were forceps. He said someone would call to book me in for a scan as my 12 week scan was booked in for 04/01. The doctor rang me an hour after I got in and said to go up on the Monday morning. At the scan they confirmed there was no heartbeat and where I should of been 10 weeks the baby was measuring 8. The doctor said as I had experienced blood loss and clotting all weekend It seemed I would miscarry naturally. That was on the 17th. I had a follow up appointment on the 27th where they confirmed the baby and sac were still there. They gave me medication and sent me home. I had some cramps and bleeding but everything stopped yesterday. I now have to wait until tomorrow to ring the hospital back and see what I can do next. I feel this is never ending. I feel no one can understand how I'm feeling. People are asking how I am and it's easier to say I'm fine rather than explain how I'm actually feeling. I apologise for the long post, I just felt I needed to write this down in hope of dealing with it some how.

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Melissayoung85 · 29/01/2019 20:49

No I wasn’t offered anything told me to ring up 2 days from when I went about the bleeding starting just told me to go home and let it happen naturally it happened the next day and wen I rang she said from what I had told her everything had come away just been spotting on n off brown to bright red for about 2 weeks now iv got no pain or anything x

ale2992 · 30/01/2019 23:08

First AF has arrived since miscarriage very light bleed but bad cramping and back pain 👎🏻😩

kittycat01 · 31/01/2019 08:52

@ale2992 oh I'm sorry! At least it's come back fairly soon though! It's been 39 days since my op and I still haven't had a period! I'm also not pregnant 😢 Do you do temping? I would highly recommend it. I only started this month but it's showing that I'm in my 2ww and when I ovulated.

ale2992 · 31/01/2019 16:52

Yes glad it's back quickly enough and I can't date better when I go get my BFP @kittycat01

ale2992 · 31/01/2019 16:52

@kittycat01 I can't date the pregnancy better when it does happen I mean!

ale2992 · 31/01/2019 16:53

CAN stupid bloody phone x

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