please help, my baby just dead 35weeks.

[happywithit]

hi
it was very normal pregnancy, no problem, i did not feel no movement yesterday, and i did not click until the night, i waited until he morning i called the hospital, they tray to check for the heart but it not movement at all, so its confirm, she is dead, they give me a tablet, and i have to wait until sunday at 9am, go back to the hospital for take it out, normal birth.
just to have more ideas about what i have to except please, any experience out there? is it painful?

happywithit tears in my eyes for you here, having lost 2 myself. So so glad you got to hold her for those precious hours. So much love to you and your family x x x

thank you so much, i was thinking i am strong, but i start to remember her a lot and cry, i know it will not change nothing, and accepting god decision but its very hard not to cry, specially that i was thinking to trait her as princess, she was going to be the only daughter, but anyway, its gone now, resting peacefully.
i bought her gold chain before she was born, i want to put it on and leave it with me but i find it hard, so i just return it to the box.

So sorry. Sleep well, beautiful baby Meriam.

I'm sure you are strong but it's ok and important to let yourself cry, to allow yourself space to grieve, at the same time as you try to accept what has happened.

If you want to wear the chain, I think a time will present itself and it will feel right.

I concur. What a strong lady you are! Cry for your baby. You have time to grieve for her and you will never lose that sorrow so don't think you can't be sad for not accepting what happened.

Crying for Merriam doesn't mean you are weak Happywithit. It is right that you cry for your baby because you miss must her so much and it is so unfair that she died.

You can accept what happened because of your religious beliefs and still feel sad and bereft.

Crying for Merriam shows that she is important and loved and wanted.

We are all so sad for you and wish that it could have been different for you and every other bereaved parent.