Today would have been my friend's due date - should I mention it?

[weeblueberry]

I've never been in this position so would really appreciate some feedback from anyone who's had to go through this horribleness.

My friend would have been due today and I just don't know whether to send a 'I'm thinking of you guys' message or shut my trap and let her have a day of peace and quiet. I screwed up telling her about my own pregnancy for which I feel utterly terrible and don't want to mess this up either but have no idea how to act in this situation.

I think it's a lovely thought and wish you'd been my friend on 16 October when mine fell and no-one remembered. You should definitely get in touch with her.

I'm so sorry to hear that respita. Its a tough one as so many responses to this show that people just don't know how to act in a situation like this (myself very much included) and people often think the better thing is to ignore it and remove all doubt rather than do something about it.

Am so glad your friends remembered Hoo. I think that were I unlucky enough to be in the situation I'd find it hard at the time but ultimately be grateful people remembered.

xxx