I posted a lot of information for you last week. I'm not sure you've read it?
The real issue is your anxiety.
Your GP has to explain the risks.
Whether they over-stated them none of us here know.
They also need to explain the benefits to your heart, bones , and a lower risk of bowel cancer.
You need to do your own research and come to your own decision, based on what you read from other menopause experts, more qualified than your GP.
There is no point asking again about Menopace. It's a mix of herbs and vitamins.
If you ask 100 women, 50 might say it was marvellous, 50 might say it did nothing. That still leaves you with not knowing how you will respond. It's not expensive so why not buy a month and try it?
What in particular are you worried about with HRT?
All we can do here is post the statistics for the benefits and risks (as available on the links to the Balance Menopause Library) then it's up to you to make your choice.
Do you have anyone in real life to talk to and help you with this? Friends, a partner?