@missfliss has the best advice on this thread imo OP. I do something similar and I’m happy with my shape. I’d try and focus less on your mid section and more on building your glutes (no pancake arse), quads and shoulders. That will make your mid section appear smaller.
I also aim for volume eating lower calorie foods with my meals like veg and salad which is very satiating. I don’t low carb, one meal a day, no sugar or any other strange ways of eating. I eat chocolate/crisps etc just not much. I eat rice or potatoes every day. My opinion is restricting foods or eliminating food groups is a great way to fail.
For me and what works for me is it’s all about calorie maths and getting the nutrition, taste and satiety from my food.
I eat what looks like a big meal at lunchtime at work. Not a week goes by when someone “on a diet” says OMG how can you eat all that? Yet I’ve just consumed fewer calories than their pot noodle, better nutrition and about 30g of protein.
Do you track your calories? It might be a useful exercise to see where they’re going.
Your strength training is great but you really need to be pretty close to failure for your muscles to actually get any bigger as opposed to just stronger and then You need to be eating enough protein for those muscles to repair themselves.
Body recomping is entirely achievable and making it happen is all about consistency and discipline.
A few people I like on IG who are evidence based are Emma Storey-Gordon (esgfitness). She has a good podcast and deals mostly with peri/meno women. She busts a lot of myths with actual evidence. Knowledge is power. I like Graeme Tomlinson (the fitness chef) too.