Posting another update. I saw the consultant for the follow-up appointment and she was absolutely adamant that I mustn't use Ovestin more than twice a week. She said this was the proper dose and if I used more, I might get a cancerous breast lump....so this is really different to what everyone on here has been saying.
She said no need to consider HRT and to carry on with Ovestin and also prescribed Dermol 500 for soreness, which does seem to be helping a bit. She said if I saw a dermatologist, they'd only prescribe steroid cream, which wasn't a good idea.
She said no to Vagifem as 'you can't smear it on', even though I was asking her whether Ovestin could be making the soreness worse and she's basically prescribed one more tiny tube of Ovestin for the next 3 to 4 months.
I'd come to the end of the antibiotics and we agreed they hadn't seemed to make much difference, so I'm no longer on them.
She told me there was no reason to take the medication for thrush, as I didn't have the classic symptoms for thrush.
So I asked for an examination this time and she took a look and I also suggested she took swabs to look for thrush etc. I also said maybe could she do a smear test, as it's so long since I had one. She did try, with what she called the 'Virgin Speculum' but couldn't actually open it up but said she could see a small part of my cervix and it looked OK. She said it was 'tucked around a corner' so I do wonder if this has meant the Ovestin isn't fully reaching the cervix.
Perhaps most disappointing of all was that she said Vaginal Atrophy is very difficult to treat once it occurs and I got the impression she thinks there's really not much more she can do for me.
When I explained to her how important it was for me to be able to cycle and exercise again and do wild water swimming, she just said that I'd have to try cycling with some kind of rubber ring on the seat (she's clearly not a cyclist!). She said sea water will sting and sea swimming can cause more UITs? The GP had told me there wasn't any evidence that wild water swimming increases UTI. So I don't know who to believe. Does anyone on this thread know if wild water swimming increases the risk of UTIs?
Since the appointment I have tried cycling a couple of time and briefly swimming in freshwater. Cycling does make me very very sore but I love it so much. No sign of another UTI so far, thankfully and Dermol 500 is helping a bit compared to any other soothing cream I've tried.
I've got two cycling/ sea swimming holidays coming up over the summer and no idea how I'll manage if there's not much else the consultant can suggest.
As I've now put on more than half a stone in weight since all this began over 6 months ago and am much more unfit, I do feel demoralised. I suppose I can continue to use Ovestin a bit more than she's told me to but it does feel strange that she's so adamantly against more than twice a week usage, when others on here have had medic suggesting far more frequent use.
I'm still getting ongoing soreness and I'm still getting cystitis-like 'urgency to wee/ tenderness' sporadically, which seems to have no correlation with anything I'm doing or not doing. Not sure what to do next.