Wow! Thanks so much for all this help! I don't feel so alone, although very frustrated that what I thought was simple fixable issue - and was told after 3 days of the initial antibiotics, I'd be back on my bike, it's now over three months and I'm no further forward.
@Nixer, the urology referral is also a private referral and I just figured that even private medics are very busy and overworked, so I've not heard anything back yet.
I think the private GP did 3 dip stick tests for infection and told me they were really accurate. The first and third dip stick tests were positive for infection. The second was clear. The third was sent off to a lab for culturing but came back negative, so the GP said I no longer had an infection and then prescribed the oxybutynin hydrochloride.
She also prescribed a mega dose anti-thrush tablet but as I've had no normal symptoms of thrush - no itching, no discharge - just the feeling of acid and barbed wire at the entrance to my ureter - I think I don't have thrush and was again worried about side effects of this huge antifungal meds.
@Dogsgottabone thanks for this recommendation for a women's health physio. I think I'll ask the consultant or GP about someone local to me as this sounds like a good option. The private GP is a lot younger than I am and is carefully going though all the NICE guidelines step by step with me but I do think I need a specialist at this point and preferably an older woman. The consultant is also a younger woman I think. These podcasts sound great! Thanks.
@ReallyShouldBeDoingSomethingElse that sounds very interesting about treating it as BV. Hadn't thought of that. I am planning to buy a bike saddle with a gap in the middle but when I tried to get a pressure point seat tests through a local bike physio, to see if they could recommend the best type of saddle to me that would fit my bike, they said they didn't provide that service.
I expect I'll have to invest in a few saddles and try them out but as I can't cycle at all anyway at present, it's a bit of a Catch 22 situation. I've got cycling trips and a main cycling holiday coming up - my one holiday of the year, in July - and am now having to think about cancelling everything. Very disheartening.
@LoveMyPiano is there a particular bike saddle you'd recommend? I know these are all very individual but I'm thinking something with a gigantic gap in the middle but lots of padding on the seat bones! I am very well endowed in the nether regions! I too find I don't lose any weight cycling but I feel so much better and stronger and I'm now actively putting weight on, which I can ill afford.
@Boiledeggandtoast , the GP muttered a few times about "there are topical HRT treatments but......" in a sort of off-putting way and it made me think this isn't an avenue to take. I suppose I'm holding out hope for the consultant urologist/gynae but don't even know whether she'll want to do loads of other expensive and invasive tests first. Gulp!
So I'm just sitting here drinking gallons of cranberry juice (making no difference as far as I can tell), eating active live yoghurts (ditto) and watching the next cycling day pass by (although I am actually in the middle of work anyway!).