I find it hilarious that some members find it hard to believe that there are other (menopausal) members out there who are genuinely interested in the whole subject and prepared to research it, as well as sharing this information freely with others - so have to resort to insults such as "sock-puppets" - a new one on me!
This sort of thing and similar accusatons, has happened to similar members (ie those posting info and evidence re the benefits of HRT) of another well-known menopause group...
As for the definition - this bit stood out for me " The term now includes other misleading uses of online identities, such as those created to praise, defend or support a person or organization, to manipulate public opinion or to circumvent a suspension or ban from a website. " . This has most definitely happened on this forum in the past as well as members coming here from other groups where they have been banned to similarly cause trouble.
Also- there has been a lot of emphasis on symptoms - naturally because this is the first point at which women seek help but as EssPee said: " Menopause is caused by lack of oestrogen. If you replace the oestrogen via HRT you are simply giving your body what it is now lacking. It will halt the symptoms of oestrogen deficiency and ensure your bones don't suffer from osteoporosis, the hot flushes will become a thing of the past, you vagina will not atrophy, you will be able to sleep, you won't age dramatically.......and avoid all the other delights that the menopause brings. "
Some of the remedies and ideas suggested ( even if they are placebo) may "work" for a while - and each to their own - but they will not replace oestrogen and prevent the long term effects of oestrogen deficiency that EssPee refers to.
I used Black Cohosh in the early stages of peri-menopause and as has been said symptoms came and went and i attributed the success to the pills. However once I reached the later stages, of course nothing worked except HRT which like JinglingHellsBells I have been taking for 12 years and am now in my 60's.
Re breast cancer and cancer risk generally - lifestyle changes are paramount in reducing these risks as JinglingHellsBells also pointed out. Reduce body fat, get out and take more exercise, eat a healthy diet, reduce alcohol, get a good night's sleep, stop smoking - and then provided you don't have other health risks (contra-indications) you can take HRT quite happily knowing you are doing the best for yourself!