ljkk, if you get symptoms of that kind that are incontrovertibly linked to your menopause, it's very different, as I'm sure you know, so you're being rather disingenous posting that list.
I've always suffered intermittently from insomnia, but the menopause induced insomnia was something else. It wasn't an inability to get to sleep per se. It was a lack of sleep resulting from waking 5 -6 times a night with a panic attack, immediately becoming drenched in sweat and then taking 20 minutes to calm and cool down enough to try to sleep again.
Again, sweats related to menopause are qualitatively quite different from any ordinary sweating. Any slight change in temperature led in my case to a scarlet, embarrassing flush over the whole body and dripping sweat. Embarrassing in any situation, mortifying and humiliating when meeting, for example, a new client for the first time.
The anxiety was very different too. Yes, there was a generalised anxiety caused by the embarrassment and physical discomfort of the sweating, and by the tiredness caused by the lack of sleep. But there was a specific, aura-type dread that preceded every hot flush that was absolutely horrible.
I never had any specific aches or pains or forgetfulness. Most of my problems were solved by sleeping well again.
Added to that the family history of osteoporosis and my early menopause, after several years of trying various alternatives, HRT was a sensible solution in my case.
I'm sure it's not right for everyone and I know it's contraindicated for some people, but to suggest that menopausal symptoms are the same as general aging symptoms is very misleading.